Who's the oldest virgin on here?

[spider_007]

10-15 minutes? There is no foreplay?

foreplay is her sucking your d!ck to get it up. Lot of time they will even tell you to hurry up so we don't get caught (which is total bs). If you spend another $20 and get a room it lasts a little bit longer, but it still isn't satifying.

But you did this 150 times, if the experience is like that, how come you've done it so many times?

Because i had an urge for a womans touch, and i keep going out there looking for new gurls. That's basicly it. I guess in the back of my mind i keep expecting something exciting and mind blowing, but it seams to disapoint me every time (as of late)

That's a YMMV type of girl I guess. When you say 150 times, you mean 150 different people, or are you regulars for most of them, and you've been with them more than once? So, for example, you've done 5 good hookers 30 times each, as opposed to 150 different people?

well i've been out since little before my 19th b-day, and for as long as i can remember i've gone out once a week....that's little more then 200 times. Yes some of the same girls have been couple of times. I guess something between 100-150 different women (i'm leaning to 150). I know one the more "favorate" onse i've seen little more then 10 times. She is a single mother who thought she could drag me into her ****ty life (how funny is that?).

Of course it wouldn't feel right. If you want to spend money, then try a holiday at Cancun Mexico or something, and go into the clubs and bars and f-close every night for free. You would only have to spend like a thousand dollars or so for airfare and accomidation, and then just go into the clubs or bars. People are all in an adventurous mood there so your likely to f-close rather easily.
Ok, I'm a KJ as far as that is concerned, but if I had money to blow towards sex, I'd likely invest it to go there rather than hire people because you know it's free.

i'm a little fvcked up (years of emotional abuse), so me getting back on track, isn't going to happen over night. And considering that i have to do this on my own, and at my own pace..... There have been gurls interasted. Even approching me (I'll admit, it only happened about 4 times in my life, but still....), but my pride or "shield" always stoped it........

Girl Friend Experience. These are 'escorts' (euphamism for hookers), that claim to offer full-service, but also act as though they are your 'girlfriend', so you could also have other range of intimacy as though you were with an actual girlfriend, so to speak.

It seems that element is lacking in your experiences. Maybe it's an advertising gimic of some hookers and a fantasy concept - seems oxymoronic that a hooker will act like a girlfriend.

I have yat to try escorts. Most of them charge a lot (sometimes more then 3 times the ammount of a street gurl).

For that, human interaction is required. You have to take her out for a drink, get to know each other a bit....It's putting your self outhere and asking somebody to like you....and i'm not ready for it.
It took me 2 years to find one guy to hang out with. Some might call it progeress but i'm not ready for reall women yat.

 

[spider_007]

spider what is stopping you from going out and getting a free root? I'm not insulting or being condescending, just very very curious. I mean you've got like 2000+ posts, surely you must have learnt some basic technique?

Amount of posts has notting to do with it. Nor does your reputation.....oh and neather does that thing under your name calling you a "Master Don Juan"

I refuse to use "techniques". It's as fake as the guy that has a custome exaust and $2 000 rims on a 1990 oldsmobile.

I know how to vibe, and be genuane (sp) (most of the times) and that's the only technique i'm willing to use.




My bigest problems however are Pride and Ego, and i have yat to learn how to deal with them

There is notting worst then having a woman come up to you, and you refuse her because you'd rather have your pride intact then risk even a little tincy bit of rejection (even the smallest amount)


-about 2 years back, i'm dancing in the club, **** drunk, and these two gurls come up and ask if they can dance beside me. Two of them!!!!!! and what did I do??? I went to get my self another drink....
-One of the hottest chicks in the club (the type with the tatoo on her back) starts dancing with me face to face, what do i do???? NOTHING!!!!! didn't pull her in, didn't even touch her.....

i could give 20 examples like this.......

A person has to be happy with him self, and love him self. And has to have a social life (friends family....) before he can even think of being one of the guys that HIT 50 woman da year.....




Sorry guys, i didn't mean to highjack the thread. I'm sure there are guys with lot worse problems then mine outhere.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

foreplay is her sucking your d!ck to get it up. Lot of time they will even tell you to hurry up so we don't get caught (which is total bs). If you spend another $20 and get a room it lasts a little bit longer, but it still isn't satifying.

Right, so it's not much different than watching a porn movie.

Because i had an urge for a womans touch, and i keep going out there looking for new gurls. That's basicly it. I guess in the back of my mind i keep expecting something exciting and mind blowing, but it seams to disapoint me every time (as of late)

So, you are bascially getting 'tired' of the whole thing.

However, it's sounding like a rush - get your money and get you out to the next client as soon as possible.

well i've been out since little before my 19th b-day, and for as long as i can remember i've gone out once a week....that's little more then 200 times. Yes some of the same girls have been couple of times. I guess something between 100-150 different women (i'm leaning to 150). I know one the more "favorate" onse i've seen little more then 10 times. She is a single mother who thought she could drag me into her ****ty life (how funny is that?).

You've must of done Asians, whites, indians and blacks, or everyone, any comments?

I have yat to try escorts. Most of them charge a lot (sometimes more then 3 times the ammount of a street gurl).

What about girls who are panhandling - have you ever hit on them?

For that, human interaction is required. You have to take her out for a drink, get to know each other a bit....It's putting your self outhere and asking somebody to like you....and i'm not ready for it.
It took me 2 years to find one guy to hang out with. Some might call it progeress but i'm not ready for reall women yat.

Human interaction is required if you are negotiating, which is what you probably do when you meet street hookers, right? I mean, you'd go up to them, ask for directions or something to initiate a convo with them, right?

 

[CloneWolf]

I want to see if I win the prize here. I bet I'm the only virgin on this board, who has never kissed or fondled a girl in 30 years. Nobody has beat this record yet.

Anyway, it's not the fact that I've never done any of this before that makes me feel bad, it just stings more when you get a C&B - that makes me feel bad - but then you learn something for the next time, so it's not a total loss.

I just got back from a 2-mile walk in the heat. I read the article on the "Don Juan Army"! Then I popped in "Full Metal Jacket" just to get fired up. Then I hiked. Getting ready to do some situps and weights.

I'm building a boot camp to get my old carcass in shape and developing some discipline. It won't make me a Marine but a new attitude and new look. Women love men who clean up their act. Self-motivation is what it's about. Sack up, man! Who's with me?

 

[piterx]

i am 24..well i try to do something about this really.i am quite against with doing with a hooker-but who knows.i feel the energy man

 

[spider_007]

You've must of done Asians, whites, indians and blacks, or everyone, any comments? ?

Unfortionatly there is no Asians in my area, otherwise i would have loved to do that. I'we only done 2 black chicks. I'm not really into that. They ware quiet rough too. I can be rough too, but it has to escalate to that, otherwise it takes all the fun away. I've only done one indian chick, it was allright. I tried picking up another one, but for some reason she thought she could run away with my money.

thats another thing;

If you do this, once in a while you will come to a point where you have to be violent toward them or they'll take advantage of you. Every 6 months to a year, some chicks decides she is gona take the money and run (it's kinda why they call it "pulling tricks")

or my favorate:

they try to take you to "her place". 99.9% of the time, there is somebody wating there, and trust me, you don't want to meet them.

What about girls who are panhandling - have you ever hit on them?
?

what's panhandling?

Human interaction is required if you are negotiating, which is what you probably do when you meet street hookers, right? I mean, you'd go up to them, ask for directions or something to initiate a convo with them, right?

When i said "human interaction" i ment sociolizing (which is what you have to do with escorts)

I probably shouldn't tell you this (like i said counter productive); but all you really do is make eye contact as you pass by with your car, and stop a couple car lenths ahead of her. As she walks by if she isn't looking at you, then she IS NOT WORKING. If she makes eyecontact, and gestures toward her (as in; do you need me?) then just nod your head..... Onse she gets in the car and you take of, they usually ask what you are looking for. All i say is; Just some company.....bla bla bla.... most of the time i try not to be direct untill you make sure she is not a cop. Lot of times she will ask you to touch her or pull your d!ck out (just to make sure your not a cop, cops can't do that).......after I like to make sure she knows what we are doing, and how much it's gona cost. Sometimes they try to bargin, but i've done it long enough to know, for how much i can get it....Other times you get to the place and she takes your moeny, and saiz; "oh, i thought all you want it is a bj". This is where you step up and make sure she knows she ain't getting out of the car with your cash, without providing the service......

anyways.....Lot of **** happens on the street......Just the other day (24th) was my b-day, and i run into an ex-stripper i met once, she was high on Extacy.......All i got to say is "damn"!!!!!

....ya funn stuff....i got tons of storys.....

 

[Luke Skywalker]

thats another thing;

If you do this, once in a while you will come to a point where you have to be violent toward them or they'll take advantage of you. Every 6 months to a year, some chicks decides she is gona take the money and run (it's kinda why they call it "pulling tricks")

Be violent towards them? What do you mean? You pay in advance or after? Or perhaps half in advance?

or my favorate:

they try to take you to "her place". 99.9% of the time, there is somebody wating there, and trust me, you don't want to meet them.

ok, I remember last year Novemeber, 2005, I was approaching this incall escort, and a male voice answered the phone when I was trying to confirm directions, and that just freaked me the heck out of proceeding.

what's panhandling?

When a girl is asking strangers for change. The temptation is always there, when you are horney, to ask her if you could grope her a$$ and you'll give her five dollars or something like that. Like I said, I never fondled or touched any girl, not even a grope in my life, and the temptation is always there to ask a female beggar to get a cheap cop-a-feel, or ask her for a deep french lip kiss while you are grabbing her a$$ before giving some money.

When i said "human interaction" i ment sociolizing (which is what you have to do with escorts)

Negative. Escorts are in the 'Adult Classified' section of the Eye magazine and Now magazine and the internet. No socialising is needed. They talk in code language (i.e. full service, girl friend experience, and stuff like that). You have escort review boards, so it's safer than the street concept, and not that much more expensive.

I probably shouldn't tell you this (like i said counter productive); but all you really do is make eye contact as you pass by with your car, and stop a couple car lenths ahead of her. As she walks by if she isn't looking at you, then she IS NOT WORKING. If she makes eyecontact, and gestures toward her (as in; do you need me?) then just nod your head..... Onse she gets in the car and you take of, they usually ask what you are looking for. All i say is; Just some company.....bla bla bla.... most of the time i try not to be direct untill you make sure she is not a cop. Lot of times she will ask you to touch her or pull your d!ck out (just to make sure your not a cop, cops can't do that).......after I like to make sure she knows what we are doing, and how much it's gona cost. Sometimes they try to bargin, but i've done it long enough to know, for how much i can get it....Other times you get to the place and she takes your moeny, and saiz; "oh, i thought all you want it is a bj". This is where you step up and make sure she knows she ain't getting out of the car with your cash, without providing the service......

anyways.....Lot of **** happens on the street......Just the other day (24th) was my b-day, and i run into an ex-stripper i met once, she was high on Extacy.......All i got to say is "damn"!!!!!

That is all interesting. Like I said, I'm turned off to this, this is a part of my mind that is 'quaranteened', and I'm only interested in interacting with 'real' girls either online or offline, and that is it. That means, this discussion can not influence me to go with a hooker or anything.

Anyway, I cant pick up a real girl from my car anyway, I'd be a psycho. I've certainly honked my horn and stared at some of them. I'm quite confident however, that it may be possible to pick up a girl from the streets that is not a hooker, but may just be adventerous and want to have sex for fun. I dont know what the odds of that happening are though.

 

[spider_007]

Be violent towards them? What do you mean? You pay in advance or after? Or perhaps half in advance?

you pay in advance, but if they try to take-off, i'm not the kind of guy that just writes off the mony just like that. You chase the ho down, and take it back. I pay good, and I treat them good, if she don't wana play along, great, if she want's to take advantage of me......then that's where a nice slap accros the face comes in.

When a girl is asking strangers for change. The temptation is always there, when you are horney, to ask her if you could grope her a$$ and you'll give her five dollars or something like that. Like I said, I never fondled or touched any girl, not even a grope in my life, and the temptation is always there to ask a female beggar to get a cheap cop-a-feel, or ask her for a deep french lip kiss while you are grabbing her a$$ before giving some money.

No, I don't do that.

Negative. Escorts are in the 'Adult Classified' section of the Eye magazine and Now magazine and the internet. No socialising is needed. They talk in code language (i.e. full service, girl friend experience, and stuff like that). You have escort review boards, so it's safer than the street concept, and not that much more expensive.

You can not get the G/F experience that they advetise with out getting to know the person, and that's the bottom line. That's where they get the cash (charging 2-300 per hour, a guy can drop a grand easy in a night)

ya, i know
http://www.worldsexguide.com/forum/

That is all interesting. Like I said, I'm turned off to this, this is a part of my mind that is 'quaranteened', and I'm only interested in interacting with 'real' girls either online or offline, and that is it. That means, this discussion can not influence me to go with a hooker or anything.

Dude, you just said you tried setting up a escort.

I'm quite confident however, that it may be possible to pick up a girl from the streets that is not a hooker

It doesn't happen (ever). Maybe if you ware driving a brand new lamburgini, or ferrari. The closes you can ever get is breaking in a fresh piece of meat.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Dude, you just said you tried setting up a escort.

That was quaranteed to a specific time, and it was due to the fact I couldn't get anyone for free. The idea was eventually abandoned due to a chat I had with an escort on the Toronto Escort Review Board, where she complained that I was viewing escorts as sex objects, and said that I should go out and talk to more women in general before seeing an escort. That really got me thinking and I abandoned the idea.

Just because I tried setting up an escort X months ago, doesn't mean I intend to do so now, or in the immediate future. That's the power of choice.

It doesn't happen (ever). Maybe if you ware driving a brand new lamburgini, or ferrari. The closes you can ever get is breaking in a fresh piece of meat.

I dont know. I guess I believe a bit in this karma stuff. If you were to say 'hi' to every single girl and honk at every single girl you can see on the street, then you may just get lucky.

 

[spider_007]

I dont know. I guess I believe a bit in this karma stuff. If you were to say 'hi' to every single girl and honk at every single girl you can see on the street, then you may just get lucky.

That's the thing, I don't honk, and i don't say Hi. I park, and let them do all the hard work.....

Fvck Karma. This is two adults with different needs making a deal. Karma has nothing to do with it.




This thread is getting little retarded.....if you got any more questions pm me, otherwise......piece

 

[Luke Skywalker]

That's the thing, I don't honk, and i don't say Hi. I park, and let them do all the hard work.....

Fvck Karma. This is two adults with different needs making a deal. Karma has nothing to do with it.

I was talking about free girls, not hookers. I know it's fantasy think and you said it will never happen unless I'm driving an expensive car or something.

You are saying it's impossible, maybe it is, others have said it's just pychotic to try and pick up a free girl. Either way, it seems the consensus here is that it's impossible for even a DJ to pick up a girl from the street and into their car and seduce them.

 

[Dork_to_Stud]

Just turned 24. Another year as a virgin has passed. I plan to go to a bar tonight, hoping to find a lady that wants to take me back to her place. Wish me luck.

 

[skip2mylou781]

i wanna kno how spider looks like!

 

[gunit630]

my boy is 22 and never kissed or had a gf

 

[tobby]

I'm 20 and I haven't lost it yet. I've dated alot of girls and they want to escalate, but I'm not sure I really want to lose it yet. I don't want anything like a STD or a pregnacy ruining my chances of making something of myself.

I thought about waiting until I'm at least out of college so I'm assured of not "screwing up until then".

I don't know what to do about the dating scene though. It seems like everyone wants a sexual relationship. I do a lot of other stuff, but it's not enough for them. I also got sick and tired of telling girls I'm a virgin, because it ends in 2 ways:

1. She thinks you're weird and bails out of the relationship because she wants sex. (This happened to me recently, but it's OK!

2. She says she Ok with it, tries to have sex with you you later in the relationsihp, but leaves if she gets frustrated.

 

[gunit630]

Tobby, just were two condoms everytime you have sex

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Hey you little virgin wannabe's - I'm 30 y/o, and I'll tell you one thing, if you dont do anything - you are going to end up just like me. That's right, I'm your future, so you better get with the program.

 

[rrrrr]

This may sound really wierd but I'm 29 year old virgin, unless you count an escort. What prevented me? Seeing my dad naked, he was pretty big downstairs, I thought I was grossly underdeveloped. Even today I doubt I'm anywhere near his size but from researching on the internet it looks like I'm acceptable size if not a big size. I actually spent years researching on the internet if 7 1/2 inches is acceptable for a penis size. I was doing this when I was 26. I know, it's insane, but I had this whole thought in my head growing up that just blocked me. However growing up, I was always shy, managed to have friends but was so scared of women due to my insecurity of penis size. I thought I was destined to die a virgin. It took so long to overcome this that I would think that over the last year I finally decided I was acceptable. It just kills me because of all the beautiful women in high school that liked me, I never approached, and rejected them because I thought I had this defect on my body. However I still have no clue with women at this old an age where they are getting married. Don't get me wrong I can get a girlfriend because I have two female roommates, one of them REAL into me, but I don't want to settle, I want someone I'm attracted to. And lately, each day, I'm doing more and more to finally meet and fvck women because this is totally unacceptable and I deserve better than this. I learn from my mistakes and push myself. It's not easy but it beats the alternative. I've been making goals and meeting them. I say I'm going to ask for her number and I do it. I remember when I tried to meet women on the internet I was shy, now I wouldn't have any problem at all but I think it's a waste of time. The thing I know, after you've approached a few times, it becomes a lot easier, which is probably why the real players are so good. Not only the experience but the confidence and not worrying about failure. This site actually helped me a lot and I know it will in the future, too. I'm not looking to be a player, I just want to be one of those people who don't have dry spells because they are too insecure with meeting women. I feel like I have the skill of an 18 year old but am 29. This is why I am here. I have a lot of catching up to do but I will succeed. I cannot quit. I know this sounds crazy to some of you but I did have this issue and I'm overcoming it.

 

[librito]

this is one of the bests posts ever,,,Im not a virgin but Im learning a lot from you guys...
dont give up guys, you just saw the light at the end of the tunnel by finding this website, soon it will be over with....

keep up the hard work and youll get your delicious fruits very soon.

 

[i am me]

jus curious, did yall watch the 40 year old virgin? why dont u jus listen to wut theyre sayin