christoff522
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This is true, I still occasionally communicate with mine after two years, and I can tell that she wants to keep in communication. But because I don't worship her, and am not all over her, she views it as rejection straight off the bat, so conversation quickly dries up.Even a BPD women is not exempt to the laws and rules of attraction. Built in resistance on your part is a desirable trait for any man to have...it means you have the tendency to stand your ground and do what's right for you. Nobody ever respects a pushover.
I suspect that your BPD-ex's relationships probably died when the relationship became "too easy" and the guys became predictable and lacked a backbone whenever her behavior became erratic.
Using this logic, your ex probably values you over all of her previous exes.
I still can't articulate how much the who thing has fvcked me up though, its like PTSD.