I don't know where your hearing paranoia from any of our responses... I said it, because there is no reason she would bring THAT up out of the blue. YOU were the precursor, YOU are the guy that ACTED(Just the way you said it RIGHT?) and she was SIMPLY reacting to your actions. Your questions and her answers, lead to your discussion with her. Our answers to your question stem from the fact that, WE ENJOY SEX. We can be happy in every way, we're not AFC's who are teased with it everyday, we can get it when we need it, so SEX IS A TREAT. Some people get greedy(PUA) and want the treat all the time, without actually being happy...
From the sounds of it, your trying to prove something to us... women testing your boundaries, thanks for the insight, but it's irrelevant to the question at hand(stay on the topic).
I understand you are friends with them, so everybody responding that you should be havbing sex with her sounds like an attack on your character. It's not, so that's something you should work on. We're just being regular guys, answering the way a regular guy would... Should we be standing and joining in, saying "No, we don't need sex, we are men, we can entertain ourselves. Come on guys, let's go have fun" Oh, wait, we've all been saying that already.
Unless I took everything out of context... where you can go back and quote a few people's answers and show me how my mind is working in the wrong direction
If you could do that, I'd genuinely respect, appreciate, and work on fixing that problem.
Cheers