I have seen / am seeing a qualified professional, and I DO have disorder. This is not self-diagnosis, like someone800 was talking about. I've actually recently taken the measures to talk to a professional.
I wasn't reffering to you
I know you condition.
It is in my nature to think negatively. If I could change that, I would. If ANYONE could change that, they would. Why the hell would anyone WANT to be a person with that mindset? *I* am not content in my mindset, rather, my *sub-conscious* is.
You CAN change it. Although not with that attitude. Your conscious mind controlls your thoughts, not your sub-conscious. All you have to do is be aware of negative thoughts, stop them, when they occur and replace them with a positive thought. Have you tried affirmations?
First of all I don't really care that I don't have any friends. I choose to break all contact with my old buddies and I choose to not make new ones. I could have a lot more guy friends if I wanted to, the thing is, I don't want guy friends right now.
That's just stupid, I feel sorry for you.
As for it being my fault that I've never had a girl. Thats a huge load of bull****. If I could have controlled my desires and chosen who to fall for or to not fall for any girl at all, never getting oneitis then I would agree with you.
Yeah it would be a huge load of bull**** if not for the fact that I practically do that now.
The vast majority of my failings with girls were out of my control. I couldn't control what she was attracted to. When I was a kid just starting to get into girls was it my fault that no girls liked me? Heck most girls despised me and I never understood why. I've been on a downward spiral ever since then.
Did you make an effort to change? To try new things? To seek advice?
To say that what happened to me in the past, was my fault, is just ignorance. The past is over and it can't be changed. All that matters is that happens in the future will be my fault.
How can whatever you did in the past not be your fault, and then you go and say you are responsible for the future? So are you saying your resposible for tomorrow then the day after it wasn't your fault whatver happened? A typical case of trying to avoid self blame.
