search for some threads here by A-Unit like "Squatting for Big Arms" etc...
A balanced program of lifting (emphasizing big compound lifts like bench, squats and deadlifts), diet (emphasizing lean sources of protein, fibrous sources of carbs, and a balance of different fats), and rest (7-9 hours of sleep and avoiding overtraining in its many forms) will give you a solid base no matter what sort of body type you're starting from.
The best way to make the muscle groups Staz lists look good is to make everything bigger & strip away the adipose (body fat). You can have all the abs & butt in the world but they won't show through if covered in adipose. You'll have to figure out your own goals, but the muscles women love need proper nutrition and probably some cardio to shine through.
Nonetheless, it's not all-or-nothing: my experience is that it's hard to have too much muscle, and lowering your bodyfat by more than a percentage point or two gets ladies' attention.