"Below average people talk about other people; average people talk about things, events, circumstances,; above average people talk about ideas; super successful people talk about their own ideals and visions."
Below average people are affirming the success (or failure) of others; average people are affirming the control that outside things, events, and circumstances have over their success; above average people are affirming that it is ideas that contribute to success; super successful people are affirming that their own success and destiny is in their own ideals and visions."
Why start off with this?
Because too many posts are critical, unproductive, and wasteful. Yes, it's free speech, but if OUR GOAL is the betterment of ourselves, our 'game', and our lives, why do you purposefully choose to waste even your own breath on a tirade against some here, rather than improving yourself?
There's but 2 things we have in life, and only 1 that is infinite.
Time & Money.
Why does time = money?
Because, our goal with retirement is to ACQUIRE enough money to BUY our time back, from society, our family, the government, corporate America, and our possessions. The same applies here, on SoSuave.com. Every minute wasted, every letter typed, that isn't working in some productive fashion is working in a destructive fashion. Criticize, ridicule, and deride me all you like, I've experienced the worst, so I'm not opposed to more of it. Bottom line is, if YOU WANT TO BE BETTER, LEARN TO BE BETTER.
The world can be changed by changing yourself and the mark you make on this world.
The time spent deriding, or even concocting an online tirade, can be spent...
-Reading up on finance, business, marketing, seduction, sex, massage therapy, lifting, working out, socializing.
Take your pick. Each moment can only have one outcome, positive or negative. One that doesn't add to your life subtracts from it. If you choose to hang around with people not in accord with your life, but still do, you will end up where they end. If you choose to socialize with people, be it across the country via the internet, or in your own town, who are as like minded as you, then you will go far, too.
You can only aspire to fly as high as your mentors do, and travel as far as your furthest thought will carry you.
We "talk" about the importance of the mind, of thoughts, and of person, but I don't believe anyone "gets it." It's a constant action, not something you "try out as you feel like it." Just like the rules of the Bible, it isn't an act of "when you feel like it."
I recall an article that had Nelly talking about his diligent workout routine and he said this...
"Time to make the donuts."
And odd quote for someone who was alluding to his workout routines, don't ya think? But at the crux of it was this...success is merely discipline. The Dunkin Donut guy regularly woke at 6am to make the donuts. There was no second thought, there was no time off. If he wanted the "end result" he had to put in the doing. See, success is easy when you know the outcome is GUARANTEED. And I laid out the Guarantee that All that you desire will come true through blind faith in the manual and in yourself's, you'd do it. Nelly, no matter what, eats right, works out right, and lifts daily, no matter where he is. He travels more in a year than most guys on this board will their WHOLE lives. So why can he get to the gym, or even maintain his discipline toward his goals better than anyone else?
You could say money.
But he didn't always have that.
You could say looks.
But there are far better looking guys on this board.
You could say body.
But he worked for it.
You could say alot of things, but like anybody TRULY successful in this world, it was acquired, not given or granted or even had through some trust fund. Those are mere excuses.
"The purpose of life is to live a life of purpose. If you don't assign yourself a purpose, a purpose will be assigned to you, one that you may in fact not like."
There's enough negative speak, wasteful sights on the net; don't let this one get that way, too. We can't validate the statements made in a freeposting forum, but we are enabled with tools of logic and rational thinking (we're men not women right?), so we can discern BS from NON-BS stuff.
My posting was meant to be a mix of refocusing, and motivational thinking, as well as introspection on where you're going. A great quote from Anthony Robbins:
"Focus on where you want to go, not on what you fear."
In other words, "Keep your eyes on the prize."
End.
A-Unit
Below average people are affirming the success (or failure) of others; average people are affirming the control that outside things, events, and circumstances have over their success; above average people are affirming that it is ideas that contribute to success; super successful people are affirming that their own success and destiny is in their own ideals and visions."
Why start off with this?
Because too many posts are critical, unproductive, and wasteful. Yes, it's free speech, but if OUR GOAL is the betterment of ourselves, our 'game', and our lives, why do you purposefully choose to waste even your own breath on a tirade against some here, rather than improving yourself?
There's but 2 things we have in life, and only 1 that is infinite.
Time & Money.
Why does time = money?
Because, our goal with retirement is to ACQUIRE enough money to BUY our time back, from society, our family, the government, corporate America, and our possessions. The same applies here, on SoSuave.com. Every minute wasted, every letter typed, that isn't working in some productive fashion is working in a destructive fashion. Criticize, ridicule, and deride me all you like, I've experienced the worst, so I'm not opposed to more of it. Bottom line is, if YOU WANT TO BE BETTER, LEARN TO BE BETTER.
The world can be changed by changing yourself and the mark you make on this world.
The time spent deriding, or even concocting an online tirade, can be spent...
-Reading up on finance, business, marketing, seduction, sex, massage therapy, lifting, working out, socializing.
Take your pick. Each moment can only have one outcome, positive or negative. One that doesn't add to your life subtracts from it. If you choose to hang around with people not in accord with your life, but still do, you will end up where they end. If you choose to socialize with people, be it across the country via the internet, or in your own town, who are as like minded as you, then you will go far, too.
You can only aspire to fly as high as your mentors do, and travel as far as your furthest thought will carry you.
We "talk" about the importance of the mind, of thoughts, and of person, but I don't believe anyone "gets it." It's a constant action, not something you "try out as you feel like it." Just like the rules of the Bible, it isn't an act of "when you feel like it."
I recall an article that had Nelly talking about his diligent workout routine and he said this...
"Time to make the donuts."
And odd quote for someone who was alluding to his workout routines, don't ya think? But at the crux of it was this...success is merely discipline. The Dunkin Donut guy regularly woke at 6am to make the donuts. There was no second thought, there was no time off. If he wanted the "end result" he had to put in the doing. See, success is easy when you know the outcome is GUARANTEED. And I laid out the Guarantee that All that you desire will come true through blind faith in the manual and in yourself's, you'd do it. Nelly, no matter what, eats right, works out right, and lifts daily, no matter where he is. He travels more in a year than most guys on this board will their WHOLE lives. So why can he get to the gym, or even maintain his discipline toward his goals better than anyone else?
You could say money.
But he didn't always have that.
You could say looks.
But there are far better looking guys on this board.
You could say body.
But he worked for it.
You could say alot of things, but like anybody TRULY successful in this world, it was acquired, not given or granted or even had through some trust fund. Those are mere excuses.
"The purpose of life is to live a life of purpose. If you don't assign yourself a purpose, a purpose will be assigned to you, one that you may in fact not like."
There's enough negative speak, wasteful sights on the net; don't let this one get that way, too. We can't validate the statements made in a freeposting forum, but we are enabled with tools of logic and rational thinking (we're men not women right?), so we can discern BS from NON-BS stuff.
My posting was meant to be a mix of refocusing, and motivational thinking, as well as introspection on where you're going. A great quote from Anthony Robbins:
"Focus on where you want to go, not on what you fear."
In other words, "Keep your eyes on the prize."
End.
A-Unit