Where is the respect!?

[CLOONEY]

Guys (and ladies), just a quick thread, to ask why every time a female writes a thread, all you guys go running, thinking that being rude to her makes you a "DJ", what a rediculous acronym that is anyways. Really shows the age level and absolute NO GAME of most on the forums! It happens every single time when a female enters a thread!

Wyldfire is without doubt, one of the absolute best posters on these boards, has been for years, and still is! Give her some damn respect, and grow the fukc up!

Mods, you can close this thread, it wasnt designed for conversation, just to make a point!

OH and one more point (for a bit of advice to these ignorant kids who have overwhelmed the forum), if you ever ask for advice on these forums (and beleive me, you will need it in your relationships down the track at some point), pick very very carefully who you listen too. Because you will get so much rubbish back from these guys, that it will potentially destroy a very healthy, happy relationship!

Wyldfire, Prosemont, xblitz and a few others (Latinoman is one of the newer guys I beleive) are the ones with the gold!

 

[MetalFortress]

Good post. It's as anti-DJ as it gets when guys start going after women just for being women. It's just as bad as catering to women just for being women.

 

[insanity]

listening to women will destroy your game period! sure wyldfire is a chick with a d@ck and i respect her posts greatly but 99% of womens advice sucks and it has nothing to do with disrespecting the opposite sex. In my younger years i thought women must be able to teach me how to get a girlfriend because duh!!! they are girls. they know what women want. i listened and tried what these beautiful girls told me. i should have been scoring left in right but i remained single for quite sometime. then i found this forum and i read the greatest post ever to grace the dj forum. i can't remember who wrote it but it was called "my sh@t theory". it changed my life literally. i got more girlfriends just by understanding the message of "my sh@t theory".

if anybody plays videogames there is nothing worse when a girl joins a multiplayer game. because if the girl is on your team your guarenteed to lose because all the afc gamers follow her around and give her the best weapons and they don't even use teamwork to win, all because one girl crashes the party. just as long as the girl got a cute voice thats all it takes. i usually just teamkill her all the time. even though it is just a game it does change the atmosphere dramatically.

so all and all when a woman comes on this site and a new poster sees a woman poster...who are they going to listen to? the guys.....nope. they are going to gravitate to the females answer. because like i said. she's a girl and they must know what women want and isn't that what got them in trouble in the first place?

it's like if a guy enters a woman's forum. his posts would be shotdown in a matter of seconds, thats unless he is supplacating or a mega afc or putting them on a pedastal. send a dj there and they will be banned in a second.

 

[Shiftkey]

Here here :rockon:

insanity, it's one thing to not listen to female advice, it's another thing to act like a complete jackass. I agree with you that most women don't give good dating advice (I consider Wyldfire an exception), but many guys here take it too far.

 

[ValleyDJing]

Thank you Clooney. I get the feeling they like to jump down the women posters throats, because it is the only opportunity they have to interact with women. I think you'll find half like to start s.hit with them, and the other half likes to kiss their asses.

But I was thinking more along the lines of where is the respect period?! Not just with women posters, I challenge you to find me 10 threads with multiple pages that don't have at least two posters going at it with expletive riddled online diatribes about each other's mamas or something of the sort. I am embarrassed to admit, I used to be guilty of it myself.

 

[Wyldfire]

Titboy...I was reading some of my older posts on a thread in the TIPS section. I think it was back when you first began posting here...or hadn't been here very long. Your first response to me that I ever recall seeing was on that thread and you wrote "I couldn't have said it better myself". I noticed it when I was reading the thread a few days ago. I got a very good laugh out of that. Funny how your opinion of my input changed once you discovered I was a woman...

 

[Wyldfire]

To those who value what I contribute here...thank you...you guys are the reason I stick around (or come back after leaving) despite all the crap I've had to put up with over the last 6 years. If I help just one person with a problem they are having it's worth all the crap I get for posting here.

 

[Wyldfire]

Titboy...I have a very strong personality and my writing style shows that. I usually mention that I am a woman when someone mistakenly calls me "dude" or refers to me as "he". Yes, I want people to KNOW that I'm a woman because there are SOME women who are honest and open about the behavior women display. I'm one of those who are honest and open about it. I'm not here for attention...my personality simply invites it. I'm certainly not asking for it and I am NOT here looking for dates as I have repeatedly made very clear. In fact, the second anyone tries to flirt or hit on me I tell them to knock it off, that's not why I'm here. I've put guys on ignore for doing that many times.

I want to be treated like any guy on here, though. If you don't agree with something I write, then by all means, challenge what I have written...but do so maturely and without all the silly insults and personal attacks. I'm quite capable of a debate and discussion and disagreement and can do so without making it personal. However, it would appear that some of the men on this site are not capable of the same.

People like Clooney respect me because I have given them useful advice and help with problems they have had. Say what you will...but it is common knowledge that most of the advice given on here is very negative and not very useful unless all you want to do is run away from every problem you ever face. My advice is very specific, well thought out and offers an alternative to running away with your tail between your legs. If there is a chance for a resolution I try very hard to offer advice geared towards problem solving. If there is no hope at all, I tell the person that as well. Some guys on here DO actually want to learn how to cope with and manage long term relationships. I'm very good at LTRs and my posts are very helpful to the guys who want LTRs. If that's not what you're looking for then my posts most likely won't relate to what your goals are, but don't assume that everyone else here shares your goals, because they don't.

 

[CLOONEY]

( . ) ( . ) bitter?

 

[penkitten]

good post

 

[( . )( . )]

People like Clooney respect me

Jeezuz.

I have a very strong personality and my writing style shows that.

No you dont, retards like clooney and other young impressionables youve bamboozled with bullsh!t all blowing smoke up your ass because you played up the "wise old *GASP* and with a vagina" role is not an indicator of a "strong writing style".

I have given them useful advice and help with problems they have had.

How the hell do you explain your own fatherless 18 year old, soon to be father, soon to be married son? This is the direction you want all your young groupies to go here is it? Dont answer that, your constant push for LTR's or why we should all love a cougar is obviously the answer anyway.

Again I acknowledge your not responsible for all this wank , you probably dont know any better, its the game hating losers who put on the fake knight armour and start threads like this is more the point as to why were even having this discussion.

 

[Wyldfire]

Jeezuz.



No you dont, retards like clooney and other young impressionables youve bamboozled with bullsh!t all blowing smoke up your ass because you played up the "wise old *GASP* and with a vagina" role is not an indicator of a "strong writing style".



How the fvck do you explain your own fatherless 18 year old, soon to be father, soon to be married son? This is the direction you want all your young groupies to go here is it? Dont answer that.

My son has a father...he just chooses not to associate with him. He did learn some valuable lessons from his father...like how NOT to be. Yes, my son is young...and yes, he has chosen a difficult path for himself...but it is his choice to make. As I mentioned in the thread I started...he was given an out. His girlfriend's mother offered to adopt the baby and raise it for them, allowing them full involvement in the child's life. That offer stands from now until the child is 18. I would do the same for them. My son WANTS to raise his child. He asked his girlfriend to marry him BEFORE they learned she was pregnant. On the positive side...we also live in a place where marriages (even so young) succeed at a much higher rate than the rest of the country. It's what he wants. He is old enough to remember his own parents divorcing. His father really didn't take it well at all. He knows the risks but he feels he is doing the right thing and it's what he WANTS. I have two sons...the one getting married and a 16 year old. My younger son would never allow himself to be in the situation his older brother is in...because they are very different people. My older son has always been the type I knew would marry fairly young. He's not a pushover and doesn't allow girls to treat him badly...he just likes being in a relationship with one girl.

All people are different titboy. Some people prefer to be settled down and some don't. My older son is just one who prefers to be settled down. He's actually very happy but also very realistic. I would never send him off to make such a huge step without making sure he was prepared as best he could be for what he will face.

Just because you don't agree with what my son is doing and his choice isn't one you would make...it is HIS choice to make. If you were to get someone pregnant and try to force her to get an abortion and take off that too would be your choice. I wouldn't agree with it, but I would still respect the fact that it was YOUR choice.

 

[( . )( . )]

My son has a father...he just chooses not to associate with him. He did learn some valuable lessons from his father...like how NOT to be. Yes, my son is young...and yes, he has chosen a difficult path for himself...but it is his choice to make. As I mentioned in the thread I started...he was given an out. His girlfriend's mother offered to adopt the baby and raise it for them, allowing them full involvement in the child's life. That offer stands from now until the child is 18. I would do the same for them. My son WANTS to raise his child. He asked his girlfriend to marry him BEFORE they learned she was pregnant. On the positive side...we also live in a place where marriages (even so young) succeed at a much higher rate than the rest of the country. It's what he wants. He is old enough to remember his own parents divorcing. His father really didn't take it well at all. He knows the risks but he feels he is doing the right thing and it's what he WANTS. I have two sons...the one getting married and a 16 year old. My younger son would never allow himself to be in the situation his older brother is in...because they are very different people. My older son has always been the type I knew would marry fairly young. He's not a pushover and doesn't allow girls to treat him badly...he just likes being in a relationship with one girl.

All people are different titboy. Some people prefer to be settled down and some don't. My older son is just one who prefers to be settled down. He's actually very happy but also very realistic. I would never send him off to make such a huge step without making sure he was prepared as best he could be for what he will face.

Just because you don't agree with what my son is doing and his choice isn't one you would make...it is HIS choice to make. If you were to get someone pregnant and try to force her to get an abortion and take off that too would be your choice. I wouldn't agree with it, but I would still respect the fact that it was YOUR choice.

Neck up, do I sound like this clooney douche or a teeny bopper ? Save that sh!t for someone who's going to give it substance and merit.

 

[Wyldfire]

do I sound like a douche or a teeny bopper ?

Actually, yes you do...

 

[CLOONEY]

You sure have some harsh words for me!

What made you so bitter?

And you go again making false accusations that I have no game? I have met a few guys from the boards, and some know my ex girlfriends. If I have no game, no idea how I stumbled accross so many stunners!

 

[( . )( . )]

Actually, yes you do...

Damn well maybe one day I can get yours and clooneys "respect" and work my way up the game haters group . Hows about if I start a thread telling everyone to respect you?

 

[Wyldfire]

Damn well maybe one day I can get yours and clooneys "respect" and work my way up the game haters group . Hows about if I start a thread telling everyone to respect you?

No one "hates" people who want to "game". All the negativity and blaming just gets old. I mean Christ...not a damn one of you guys landed on this site because you were perfect and didn't need to make some major changes (regardless of what route you chose to go...be it gaming or LTRs) Honestly answer this...how far do you think any guy on here will get if instead of looking at his own flaws he's spending all his time biotching about how everything that is wrong with his life is because of feminism or women being the blame? That's the biggest cop out on this site that there is going.

I don't need people to start threads in my defense. And those who have done it don't do it to defend me really...the do it because they are sick of the juvenile flaming and childish insult hurling. It's disruptive to the forum and gets on people's nerves. That's where all the attention you seem to think I want comes from...because of the guys who can't seem to cope with a woman posting here. Either they are trying to look cool to people like you by attacking me or they just don't get much interaction with women and act like a spaz when they see one on here. Who knows...it's retarded, though. I'd much rather just blend in.

 

[Mandiblard]

7,941 posts, jesus christ.

 

[Wyldfire]

7,941 posts, jesus christ.

Most of which have been made while deflecting personal attacks over the last 6 years...

 

[Mandiblard]

Why do you want to blend in here? It just seems like an odd place for a girl to hang out.