Where are these "other guys" meeting LTR material women--The Million dollar question we all have!

[AmsterdamAssassin]

This is me until 12

That's when you stopped being a cute kid and became an annoying teenager.

 

[SW15]

It mostly does come down to social circle and factors outside one's control. Tech-based methods and approaching strangers in real life are quite inefficient, even in the cases where they do effectively produce an LTR.

The initial post from @oc16 was mostly accurate and @sangheilios made a strong supporting argument about a lot of it coming down to luck too.

It is frustrating for a lot of men to put in a lot of effort and not get a lot in the way of results. That does happen with many men.

 

[Dr.Suave]

@oc16
I am convinced we have an issue in society where a good number of men are perpetually frustrated in the dating market and have nothing to show for their efforts. Meanwhile, there are guys who got lucky finding a decent girl to enter into a relationship with, which in turn takes her off of the market. This basically only leaves literal leftovers and women that are excessively fussy/picky, which makes things even more difficult for the men already struggling or frustrated.

Agree

 

[jhonny9546]

That's when you stopped being a cute kid and became an annoying teenager.

I stopped grow, and I've started to be seen as different (pigmalione)