Well had the first date with the girl from this post: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=35425
Anyway, we met for a bite to eat after work. Now the whole conversation (with the exception of me asking about her job and family) seemed to go back to the last 2 guys she’s dated. She talked about the AFC stuff they did and how they were wussies. That’s the only things she brought up about them was literally the AFC moves that are discussed here daily. Now normally when a chick talks about her ex’s it’s a red flag but this seemed different to me.
Now in the post I linked above, I came to the conclusion that the questions she asked me when I first met her was a test of sorts. And that was sort of confirmed because (I’ll busted her chops all night about stuff) I cracked a joke about it and she said something to the effect that girls with a kid turns a lot of guys off. Anyway, I’m having trouble gauging her interest (good EC, smiles, she fidgeted with a napkin while we spoke, had open body language, etc.). The weird thing (and this is partly my fault—hey I’m working on it) is we never talked about hobbies or what not and she really didn’t ask me anything personal. I did a good job of keeping her talking about herself so she knows virtually nothing about me. I could get more detailed but I’ll save it in case something needs clarified.
Now since I couldn’t gauge her IL I just gave her a hug. After the hug we stood there talking some more so then I walked to her car with her while she was talking. Told her I had a good time, said she did too and that was it. Yes, as I mentioned before some of this was my fault. As post title says, my gut feeling is hinging on not sure but I kind of feel she has some interest. I’d like to take her out again but the problem is she only has Saturday nights, and Wednesday evenings free (unless she gets a babysitter). So my quandary is should I call her to set something up for next wed or are these plain and simple red flags?
Anyway, we met for a bite to eat after work. Now the whole conversation (with the exception of me asking about her job and family) seemed to go back to the last 2 guys she’s dated. She talked about the AFC stuff they did and how they were wussies. That’s the only things she brought up about them was literally the AFC moves that are discussed here daily. Now normally when a chick talks about her ex’s it’s a red flag but this seemed different to me.
Now in the post I linked above, I came to the conclusion that the questions she asked me when I first met her was a test of sorts. And that was sort of confirmed because (I’ll busted her chops all night about stuff) I cracked a joke about it and she said something to the effect that girls with a kid turns a lot of guys off. Anyway, I’m having trouble gauging her interest (good EC, smiles, she fidgeted with a napkin while we spoke, had open body language, etc.). The weird thing (and this is partly my fault—hey I’m working on it) is we never talked about hobbies or what not and she really didn’t ask me anything personal. I did a good job of keeping her talking about herself so she knows virtually nothing about me. I could get more detailed but I’ll save it in case something needs clarified.
Now since I couldn’t gauge her IL I just gave her a hug. After the hug we stood there talking some more so then I walked to her car with her while she was talking. Told her I had a good time, said she did too and that was it. Yes, as I mentioned before some of this was my fault. As post title says, my gut feeling is hinging on not sure but I kind of feel she has some interest. I’d like to take her out again but the problem is she only has Saturday nights, and Wednesday evenings free (unless she gets a babysitter). So my quandary is should I call her to set something up for next wed or are these plain and simple red flags?
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