^^^This. Meanwhile flush her out of your brain.
You asked for advice. The board gives you solid advice & you come back saying the board doesn’t understand.
I’m a chick. I’ve done this before. Sometimes I’m legit busy & want to enjoy the game without distractions...and if I like the guy I WILL call back.
This much time has gone by? You are not on her radar screen.
Next! If she shows back up that’s one thing, but likely just seeking attention. It is what it is. Move on.
The girl is not up to dating anyone. That is really what has happened. She is being nice too me for now. I plan in not contacting her. It is hard to understand the board because most of the members advising are married, not everyone who is married is in love. Some members are arrogant.
I see a cat and mouse game going on, and I am planning in not playing it. She is not just avoiding me but others too. I am sure it is because of the marriage and her daughter being abused. She is not trusting men right now that is all, that explains why she is always with old female friend. If She wouldn't have been interested in me she wouldn't have given me her cell phone # 7 months after I last saw her. I have good walk away power. I have not called her in 3 weeks now. I don't anticipate she will call or text me back. I have read online about the cat and mouse hard to get game.
People do it to maintain the attention, but seldom there is intimacy. It is best not to call, but to approach in person at the end of the year. If I call, she will keep on playing the game. I will see what I do. She has to be venting the separation, so I believe 12 months is enough.
The cat and mouse game is intended to maintain the connection between two individuals. If there is a cat and mouse hard to get game, then she should reach out to me eventually before the end of this year or begining of next. That is in case she is interested in me. Once she sees I am not chasing, she should attempt to contact me to see where we stand. If she is interested. I believe this is the time when the DJ bible speaks about making a move.
I have spoken to a few females and the family and they advised to contact her. They suggest a quick fix. The only male figure I talked to said to me. Do not contact her. If she said "can I call you later" then, let her call. You agreed to her.
I asked my mother a few questions like what would you have done if you had found my father was abusing my sister. My mother said "I would have got rid of him in no time and reported him to the authorities." Then, I asked my mother again. How soon would it take you to go out and find a new companion, She said "as soon as I find someone I like." Then, I asked one last question. Would you have play hard to get?, and my mother reply was "I play hard to get with all men."
As a result, I doubt that she will go with anyone for now. I am sure men will begin ask her out. Men, she is not interested.
I didn't approached her, she approached me at work. Perhaps, she never really reach out to me.
