FINAL UPDATE
Ok, so here is the conclusion to this. Should not be a surprise for many...
So since the last update I've been talking to her over the phone, but I would never setup anything (this is due to other women I've been working on). I finally decided that I would meet up with her for dinner last night which was Sunday. Well, on Saturday night I had went to a big Halloween party and had waaaay too much to drink and was pretty hung over the next day. I honestly did not feel like driving out to meet her for dinner, so I then talked her into heading to my place.
She came by and had brought a movie with her. We talked for a little bit then went into my room to watch the movie. We got on my bed to watch the movie and I purposely did not do anything more than light kino and dish out some c/f till the movie was over. After the movie we had a very short conversation about the movie then I grabbed her and we started making out (kissing her is no big deal at this point).
NOW THE INTERESTING PART
So, we're making out and it's about 11:30 pm at night. She tells me that she has to go soon because of getting up early for work. I'm basically like ok and keep kissing her. I then start kissing the upper part of her cleavage and can tell she's really felling it. After about 10 minutes of this I take off my shirt and attempt to take her's off. She stops me and moves my hands away basically telling me no. I keep kissing her and try again... still no. We get back to making out and I subtly undue her bra. She stops once I do this and tells me to fix it, but at this point I keep kissing her and finally get the shirt off and head back to kissing her. She then tells me that this is the only thing that is coming off and that she was leaving in about 15 minues (12:30 am at this point). I basically say ok and we continue kissing.
It does not take me too much longer to get her primed as I can hear it in her voice while we are making out and soon enough I was able to easily and without any objection from her get the rest of her clothes off. The rest is history... She left at 4 am.
Bottom line, I guess when women say they are not like that know that getting laid is in the very near future