@nismo-4 Hey man, glad u liked the original list I put up. I still wish people were posting up additions to the list, but this thread has somehow turned into something else.
Anyway, I figured I would respond to the statements you placed in the red as best as I can...
Guys ask out hot girls all the time. Online and in real life. How come you think their egos are so damn big? Think about it.
If you look carefully, these guys aren't necessarily asking these girls for dates. They might be going up to them, buying them drinks, giving the compliments, and even getting her number... but they're not closing the deal. It's like in sales when a sales person does the presentation, has the potential customer interested in the product... but then he doesn't actually ASK for the money, and goes away empty-handed.
And, if you look at the posts on these boards, there are so, sooooo many stories of this happening. "Hey SS, I met a girl, we've texted back and forth for a loooooong time so I think she likes me!" Me: "Have you asked her out yet?" "Well, I'm not sure if she'd like to, see, because blah blah blah..."
And the ones that ARE asking them for dates are doing it in ways that don't make it look like he's trying to really get to know her, but to just bang her, and it turns her off. Again, the posts on here - how many of them consist of "I want to ask her back to my place to fook" or "I thought of inviting her out to a party I'm going to..." NONE of these things are appealing to most girls as first dates.
Women seem to be dating up while men seem to be dating down. Because men have heavily inflated the price of love, sex, and companionship.
Again, not true. I've met girls in what you'd call "up" positions - i.e. good jobs, making lots of money, driving nice cars - who end up dating guys that not only make less than them, but are in life situations that are significantly WORSE than them. Why? Because these guys make them feel needed - they're fixer-uppers after all, and women LOVE taking on a good project. Heck, I was able to date these kinds of women BEFORE I finally got myself situated - I had them driving ME around in THEIR cars and chipping in for meals, and I was far from being a millionaire. However, I knew how to make them feel wanted and desired in other areas of their life, so I was able to get it in.
Before I continue, I just want to stress: I am a big believer in the whole "you are what you think" ideal. So, part of the reason I've been able to date these kinds of women despite not always having a lot of money, muscles or model looks is because I sincerely BELIEVE I'm deserving of them and can still offer them things outside of material stuff that other guys can't. And so I get them. That's not to say having those other things aren't important to have, but for guys to use their lack of certain things as excuses for not getting the women they want is really just a delay tactic on their part that shows a lack in confidence.
Continuing on...
Just because you make a move doesn't mean you'll win. But guess what, you miss all the shots you don't take. Harry, you took a shot, and somehow won. It's just like buying a lottery ticket!
I agree with the "shots" metaphor. That's why I don't want guys chickening out on hitting up hot chicks. Also, despite what you said earlier, many hot chicks don't believe just how hot they are. After living with a few of them it's been easy to see why. I lived with a girl in college who was, by far, the hottest girl in our theater program... but she had irritable bowel syndrome. Every morning I'd hear her explosive turds flying out of her @ss and think to myself, "Yeah... no WAY I'm trying to hit that!"
Bottom line: these girls everyone thinks are hot, they themselves know that, aside from looks, they have a lot of unattractive stuff going on with their bodies at any given time. Yeast infections, periods, jagged toe nails, a p*ssy with a bad odor, crooked teeth, bad hair (hidden by the wig they're wearing), UTI... it makes girls feel like "blah," which is why some of them are genuinely surprised when dudes are making a fuss about them. Ironically, it's because I'm aware of these things that I'm able to not be so frazzled by what she looks like - at the end of the day, it's just an outer shell, but if that shell contains a person with a bad attitude or bad hygiene, none of that so-called "hotness" matters to me.
All women have options. Women have lots of guys for different things. One of them is getting the pu$$y constantly, while the others are just orbiters she's using for validation and teasing, such as one man is the mechanic, one is the computer geek, one is the provider, one is the chauffeur. one is the Move-my-things-around-do-my favors-but-you-ain't gettin'-laid guy, some are the Cokblock crew, etc. etc.
This is true - for attention-wh0res who like to use guys for their own needs without caring about how the guys will feel. These are the kinds of women to avoid. I'm sure a few people on here will read that and say "but that's how ALL women are." Again, that's true if you choose to believe it; in my reality, it's not. There are women out there who only want one man entertaining their time, but they only want that one man doing so if they have high interest. If she is someone who's using multiple guys for different sections of her life, it just means she doesn't have a high enough interest in any one of them. Best believe, though, when she finds that one who does, all those other bozos go flying right out the window!
