From my experience living long time in Asia. I find that when women tell things like that to men like you don’t
text much, or you look different from your photo, it’s like she seemed insecure about her looks because that’s the only thing often women can bring to the table. You can always bargain about her looks not being good enough and gain frame.
It’s like women when want to often sound harsh or ironic, everything comes from poor family backgrounds or difficulties in her past and the easy way to leverage that fake phony persona in order to protect their own complexes and insecurities or when they want to leverage that faked toughness to cover up their lack of communication skills or lack of things to bring to the table other than sex.
While I’d take account of her age range, meeting circumstances, and other background she has to gas up the frame I need to have her spinning in my plate. You have other dates going and that reassured me you are quite aware of it. Once you got the lay, a woman can always be your booty call no matter how much time passes if you don’t act clingy or give her chance to feel some entitlement.