when a girl says "yeah just text me"

[PlatoPacks23]

not even a response so far lol, obvs low on priorities moving on

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is way way way way WAY too much thought and discussion over simply asking a woman out.

Honestly bro, if she likes you it doesn't matter she will go. If she doesn't, it doesn't matter, she will come up with an excuse or try to make it a group outing.

All the hand writing is completely over the top and completely unnecessary.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

didn't even write back my guess is she writes some bs excuse or says some group thing tomorrow

and if she doesn't even write back? lol guess class will be awkward then, I don't get it
well at least I know

 

[2Rocky]

This is why you need plates….. You need options to have the confidence to keep hitting up more girls. Who cares about this one if I got another one ready to run to my room at my command?

On the other hand, no options leads to overthinking about the only potential option. Cue neediness and anxiety. Cue OP making tens of posts on simply asking out a girl.

This situation is the Goal but seldom ever really attained by 98% of college aged men. Don't confuse someone's highlight reel with your everyday life....

 

[BackInTheGame78]

didn't even write back my guess is she writes some bs excuse or says some group thing tomorrow

and if she doesn't even write back? lol guess class will be awkward then, I don't get it
well at least I know

Any update?

It will only be awkward if you make it awkward. Just act like you were unphased by it and like it never happened.

 

[Stanley]

Any update?

It will only be awkward if you make it awkward. Just act like you were unphased by it and like it never happened.

She flaked and said she was tired (predictable) and asked to reschedule. Gave him the same advice to be unphased and not be butthurt

 

[PlatoPacks23]

Any update?

It will only be awkward if you make it awkward. Just act like you were unphased by it and like it never happened.

yah im just more focused on talking w other girls now, I found it kinda disrespectful how she kept me hanging so whatever

and then when I saw her it wasn't awkward but felt like her friend/s were trying to not have me talk to her so im just done for now