What's up with the proliferation of incel slang on this forum?

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I remember I hit it off with this girl on Hinge, but she ended up rejecting me for some bum that was a fun to be around bartender at the time. 2 years later I redownload it because I was on a break with my ex and this girl was still on there, same pics and matched with me. Not just her, but the women I have gone on dates with and gotten the there's no romantic connection bull, are still active on the apps lmao. These women are hopeless, don't let some mentally instable female influence your decisions and behaviors.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I remember I hit it off with this girl on Hinge, but she ended up rejecting me for some bum that was a fun to be around bartender at the time. 2 years later I redownload it because I was on a break with my ex and this girl was still on there, same pics and matched with me. Not just her, but the women I have gone on dates with and gotten the there's no romantic connection bull, are still active on the apps lmao. These women are hopeless, don't let some mentally instable female influence your decisions and behaviors.

The ones that have been on a site or app for years are automatic no-go's for me. Cast a wide enough net and you won't have to deal with the "permanent residents."

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Someone on here mentioned 'chincel' the other month, referring to a guy at the gym with no chin

LOL as if beards aren't a thing. And it isn't like lots of young girls hate them....

 

[Velasco]

 

[B80]

I don't get the whole 'beard' thing. Sexy stubble is what she wants.

Yeah, I'm a stubble man. Hate being clean cut/shaven, or more than 5/6 days where it starts to feel a bit weird.

Notice some women on tinder saying they love tattoo's/beards in the UK. Imagine its one of those polarising looks, where some can't stand it, others love it.

Seems to suit some blokes, although can look a bit cliche, particular if they have tattoos, certain breeds of dog, baseball cap etc

Like always, do it for yourself, what suits you, rather than entirely around being a fashion victim and trying to impress women.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

@Velasco - exactly.

 

[MatureDJ]

I think I am emitting vibes that make fatties comfortable hitting on me while 6-7 smv females don't. I am 5ft6 154lbs. Been lifting for a couple years. I am like 10lbs overweight. I should not be having just fatties hit on me. I am thinking screw it and get with them so I can start emitting better vibes to more attractive women.

You sound like a gymcel - how's that for slang?

 

[MatureDJ]

The wall for most women is softer than we think. A typical childless 35 year old has a long queue of potential matches on a swipe app if she uses one.

Yes, this 80-something chick is finally getting tired of the c0ck carousel.

83-year-old ‘Tinder Granny’ ready for love after decades of one-night stands

“Tinder Granny” has vowed to ditch the hookup app and find her one true love. After decades of canoodling with boy toys on Tinder, 83-year-old Hattie Wiener of Hell’s Kitchen is r…

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[bat soup]

I see people talking about "Chads", "Tyrones", "money-maxxing", "looks-maxxing" (whatever the hell the means)...And my question is why? Incel ideology is antithetical to this forum. SS is all about self-improvement. Incels are basically a bunch of losers who chose to wallow in self-pity instead of pursuing self-improvement. Why would anyone want to co-opt their lexicon? Surely there are other words in the English language that one could use.

Who decides which words are "incel" and which are pickup terms? The word "incel" itself is a quite a wierd term which conveys a lot of negative assumptions and prejudices.

 

[MatureDJ]

I see alot of guys on here saying do not lower your standards to fatties. I am wondering at what point is it beneficial to do so? If women can sense the lack of sex from a male, then would getting with fatties be more beneficial than going without?

For the few times I have tapped a fatty, I found myself extraordinarily depressed afterwards; it just takes the life right out of you.

 

[SW15]

Yes, this 80-something chick is finally getting tired of the c0ck carousel.

83-year-old ‘Tinder Granny’ ready for love after decades of one-night stands

“Tinder Granny” has vowed to ditch the hookup app and find her one true love. After decades of canoodling with boy toys on Tinder, 83-year-old Hattie Wiener of Hell’s Kitchen is r…

nypost.com

That's an extreme example but the point is applicable. In the mid 2010s, I knew of a woman who was ~50 having multiple, simultaneous sexual relationships mostly due to websites/swipe apps. She was not that good looking even for 50 year olds (she was not overweight, which was an asset) but that showed me how soft the wall is for a lot of women. This woman was having more sex ~50 in the mid 2010s than she was as an undergrad in the 1980s. She also still had children under 18 living with her.

In 1990, 50 year old single women didn't as many options as the 2010-present 50 year olds.

 

[MatureDJ]

Who decides which words are "incel" and which are pickup terms? The word "incel" itself is a quite a wierd term which conveys a lot of negative assumptions and prejudices.

This is the hubris of the "PUA"; there is a thin line between thinking oneself as a PUA being in "The Game", and realizing that PUA doesn't help. Many of the folks at the Incel website put their membership on hold so that they can try macking again, but always come back after their early Tampa-Bay-Buccaneers record at success. Going 0-14 in daygame is brutal.

 

[SW15]

Going 0-14 in daygame is brutal.

That is correct. I've had daygame sessions where I was out daygaming for 2-3 hours on a weekend day and didn't generate anything. It's a very deflating feeling.

 

[bat soup]

This is the hubris of the "PUA"; there is a thin line between thinking oneself as a PUA being in "The Game", and realizing that PUA doesn't help. Many of the folks at the Incel website put their membership on hold so that they can try macking again, but always come back after their early Tampa-Bay-Buccaneers record at success. Going 0-14 in daygame is brutal.

I think probably the vast majority of advice out there is bad. A lot of it just makes people wierd by making them follow a bunch of strange rules.

Some of the language used is also pretty wierd as it put people into categories. The language you use can effect how you think so you have to be careful.