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in order to be truly successful with women, you have to have the correct objective.
and that objective is to make her want you, make her attracted to you. most guys have a "well how do you like me?" approach. Or they assume if she aint interested in you already, dont bother. This is the incorrect mindset. the proper mindset is, "shes not interested, ill make her interested in me".
and you can do this by triggering attraction.
now in order to do that, you must first understand what exactly is attraction?
then you must figure out the very things that can trigger it.
what is it?
well it is actually, beleive it or not, a device developed over millions of years of evolution. you have many devices that surve a survival purpose that were developed via evolution. these devices are emotional
instinctual things. some of these devices, to name a few, are fear(yep this is one), another is jealousy, and even yes the big one ATTRACTION.
to understand it first, lets look at our emotions/instincts, whatever you want to call them.
take fear for example. this was a device developed over years of evolution. its purpose? a danger evasion device. it would ensure that you would do all you can to evade danger, and prevent death.
to understand how it works, you must understand that emotions override logic. they are more powerful than logic. This is natures insurance that they will surve its purpose.
lets look at an example with fear. the emotion of fear overides logic. IT IS NOT CHOICE. say for example, your at sixflags(an amusment park) and you get on a roller coaster. and your strapted in your seat really well. You know your safe, and you know theres no way you can fall out. but then the ride starts, and your at the top where the coaster starts(you know, the coaster goes to thetop, and just sits there for like 10 seconds before it luanches down full speed, and its always really high up) and your at the top, and its very high, ver very high up. all of a sudden, the emotion of fear runs through your body. you feel like your going to fall. even though the reality, and logica says your strapped in, you cant fall. This is the emotion of fear taking over, it is overiding logic. remember, your logical mind says "you cant fall, its impossible, your strapped in". but your supreme powerful emotion says "your gonna fall, watch out!"
and in order for this danger evasion device(fear) to surve its purpose, it has to be more powerful than logic. it has to override logic. otherwise, if you were faced with a threat or danger, your logic could talk you out of the reality. and then you could actually die. so the emotion of fear is ensurance youll evade the threat.
Now attraction is an emotion no different than fear. It too is NOT A CHOICE. And it too has a purpose. And it also overrides logic, making it a very powerful thing.
attraction is a mate selection device. Becuase mate selecting was so important to survival, natural selection developed this in order for our ancestors to select the correct mate. And this device is still in our genes today!
the reason it was so important to select the correct mate was becuase if you picked a mate with unhealthy genes, or carried traits that hindered survival, your off spring would not survive, they would inherit these bad genes, and survival hindering traits. so what mate you chose was played a roll in survival.
So nature made it an emotion, that when you found the "correct mate". it would trigger your attraction mechanism. and you woul want this mate really badly. it would overwhelm you, and logic couldnt talk you out of it. (this is why women stay with abusive men. logic says "hes bad for you" but the emotion overide logic and says "hes the correct mate, you want him")
now, im gonna take a quick break on this. in the second post to this one. i will talk about what cue trigger the attraction mechanism in men. and what triggeres the attraction mechanism in women.
and youll learn why triggering this emotion is the only thing important in being succesful with women.
i hope you people actually like this post.
and that objective is to make her want you, make her attracted to you. most guys have a "well how do you like me?" approach. Or they assume if she aint interested in you already, dont bother. This is the incorrect mindset. the proper mindset is, "shes not interested, ill make her interested in me".
and you can do this by triggering attraction.
now in order to do that, you must first understand what exactly is attraction?
then you must figure out the very things that can trigger it.
what is it?
well it is actually, beleive it or not, a device developed over millions of years of evolution. you have many devices that surve a survival purpose that were developed via evolution. these devices are emotional
instinctual things. some of these devices, to name a few, are fear(yep this is one), another is jealousy, and even yes the big one ATTRACTION.
to understand it first, lets look at our emotions/instincts, whatever you want to call them.
take fear for example. this was a device developed over years of evolution. its purpose? a danger evasion device. it would ensure that you would do all you can to evade danger, and prevent death.
to understand how it works, you must understand that emotions override logic. they are more powerful than logic. This is natures insurance that they will surve its purpose.
lets look at an example with fear. the emotion of fear overides logic. IT IS NOT CHOICE. say for example, your at sixflags(an amusment park) and you get on a roller coaster. and your strapted in your seat really well. You know your safe, and you know theres no way you can fall out. but then the ride starts, and your at the top where the coaster starts(you know, the coaster goes to thetop, and just sits there for like 10 seconds before it luanches down full speed, and its always really high up) and your at the top, and its very high, ver very high up. all of a sudden, the emotion of fear runs through your body. you feel like your going to fall. even though the reality, and logica says your strapped in, you cant fall. This is the emotion of fear taking over, it is overiding logic. remember, your logical mind says "you cant fall, its impossible, your strapped in". but your supreme powerful emotion says "your gonna fall, watch out!"
and in order for this danger evasion device(fear) to surve its purpose, it has to be more powerful than logic. it has to override logic. otherwise, if you were faced with a threat or danger, your logic could talk you out of the reality. and then you could actually die. so the emotion of fear is ensurance youll evade the threat.
Now attraction is an emotion no different than fear. It too is NOT A CHOICE. And it too has a purpose. And it also overrides logic, making it a very powerful thing.
attraction is a mate selection device. Becuase mate selecting was so important to survival, natural selection developed this in order for our ancestors to select the correct mate. And this device is still in our genes today!
the reason it was so important to select the correct mate was becuase if you picked a mate with unhealthy genes, or carried traits that hindered survival, your off spring would not survive, they would inherit these bad genes, and survival hindering traits. so what mate you chose was played a roll in survival.
So nature made it an emotion, that when you found the "correct mate". it would trigger your attraction mechanism. and you woul want this mate really badly. it would overwhelm you, and logic couldnt talk you out of it. (this is why women stay with abusive men. logic says "hes bad for you" but the emotion overide logic and says "hes the correct mate, you want him")
now, im gonna take a quick break on this. in the second post to this one. i will talk about what cue trigger the attraction mechanism in men. and what triggeres the attraction mechanism in women.
and youll learn why triggering this emotion is the only thing important in being succesful with women.
i hope you people actually like this post.
