What's REALLY to stop her from cheating?
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myfriendblu
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No need for a reality check here. I stand by what I said. Find out yourself, the hard way. Just expect a "I told you so post" like the one I gave to jwhite. Find out the hard way, if you must.
So what ever happened Brain...
I had a similar situation to you. My girl and I were exclusive for 6 months and she wnet home to visit her family for 2 weeks. I trusted her totally and she has always been loyal and dispied cheaters. (But after the shakesphere quote I read above I lost faith) anyways I was supposed to come up there Mon. before NYE and she was going out everynight but we still talked. TThat Friday and Sat. nite we didn't talk at late night and I have the feeling she met a guy. I called her Sun. to tell her I was coming down and she didnt want me to she thought we should end it because of an arguement we had earlier in the week. I then sent her an email telling her off that she's never happy. She replied with some BS like. I'm not unhappy with my life because I know I can change it and that's the beauty of it. Also, said we weren't locked into anything. But blew the breakup off as the arguement that caused it but I know she met a guy and spent NYE with him. When she hung up with me she said she'd call me in a few weeks. I told her please don't call I dont have time for you. And in the email she said that she thinks I should call when I'm ready. Haven't even thought of calling her.
Point is women do this **** all the time. I can read this girl like a book and she basically wanted to have a fling without me knowing about it and then come back into town call me and try to get back together. She prob also thought if I did find out it wouldn't be a deal because we were broken up. Sorry beatch! She'll figure it out that she f'd up when shes lonely in her apartment and she knows she lost me forever.
Brain remember this.... Screw me once shame on you, screw me twice shame on me. Personally from my experience you should follow my lead and kick her ass to the curb!
DC
I had a similar situation to you. My girl and I were exclusive for 6 months and she wnet home to visit her family for 2 weeks. I trusted her totally and she has always been loyal and dispied cheaters. (But after the shakesphere quote I read above I lost faith) anyways I was supposed to come up there Mon. before NYE and she was going out everynight but we still talked. TThat Friday and Sat. nite we didn't talk at late night and I have the feeling she met a guy. I called her Sun. to tell her I was coming down and she didnt want me to she thought we should end it because of an arguement we had earlier in the week. I then sent her an email telling her off that she's never happy. She replied with some BS like. I'm not unhappy with my life because I know I can change it and that's the beauty of it. Also, said we weren't locked into anything. But blew the breakup off as the arguement that caused it but I know she met a guy and spent NYE with him. When she hung up with me she said she'd call me in a few weeks. I told her please don't call I dont have time for you. And in the email she said that she thinks I should call when I'm ready. Haven't even thought of calling her.
Point is women do this **** all the time. I can read this girl like a book and she basically wanted to have a fling without me knowing about it and then come back into town call me and try to get back together. She prob also thought if I did find out it wouldn't be a deal because we were broken up. Sorry beatch! She'll figure it out that she f'd up when shes lonely in her apartment and she knows she lost me forever.
Brain remember this.... Screw me once shame on you, screw me twice shame on me. Personally from my experience you should follow my lead and kick her ass to the curb!
DC
princelydeeds
Master Don Juan
Wow I'm impressed, I actually agree with something Drixsa said. You truly have no control over the situation. You think waaay too much. Your insecurity will be your undoing. Stop caring, being emotional only makes you look weak. If she cheats, she cheats. Life will go on and you will either have to forgive her or let her go.
It doesnt say anythign about you as a person. she is a woman with free will she can love/fcuck whomever she chooses. Hopefully no matter what she chooses she will be honest with you.
Why even worry about something like that? You only drive yourself crazy.
princelydeeds
Master Don Juan
Hot Damn, Im impressed Drixsa you are on a roll I agree with you totally. Couldn't have said it better myself.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
Totally right about that. It's funny because I'm always telling some of thes posters here how to deal with their jealousy issues simply by using perspective "life will go on..."
The it happened to me and I got Jealous. I recovered nicely though, and will always use my advice (and yours too) when situations like this arise.
Unrealistic and overblown.
What's really to stop her from cheating? Well, if your relationship is a strong one and means enough to her, she'll use her head and avoid doing anything stupid. If not, well then she'll f*ck him.
There's really no point discussing it or worrying about it, like someone else said, it's out of your hands at this point. If you feel your relationship with her is going well, then put some trust in her.