sethosayher
Don Juan
Okay, let me give you some background....
She's a casual friend that, only a few weeks ago, I've asked to hang out with me. Before that, our only contact with each other has been the few classes we share - we usually joke around and enjoy each other's company, stuff like that. Anyway, I ask her to hang out with me, and she says yes - now, the story gets a bit more complicated here, but basically I made the mistake of telling a few people that I liked her and that I eventually wanted to ask her out - and she found out...but surprisingly, was okay with it, at least with the idea of hanging out casually and seeing if it develops into something. We've hung out a bit on a couple occasions, and its pretty fun...but being that its my first time doing anything like this, I have no idea what to do (the guides here really help though)...I've decided to ask her out by the end of the month, probably a lot sooner, because I really like this girl, and not just in a physically sense - I really enjoy being with her.
Err...sorry for that somewhat incoherent drivel...but anyway, her b-day is this week (this friday, the 23rd) and I've been wracking my head as to what I should get her....or if I should get her anything at all! I don't want to do too much...or too little. I want something that will leave a good impression, a good memory, that'll increase my chances of success with her. Here's some background info on the girl herself:
+ She's unique, a lot different from the usual high school girl - or at least the stereotypical girly-girl we all know and love
+ She loves Nirvana (Kurt Cobain in particular), and a lot of classic rock bands like Black Sabbath, ACDC, etc
+ She's political, she opposes the Bush administration and is generally Liberal. She's passionate about this stuff
+ She's into yoga (does it daily), acupuncture, meditation, spiritual/eastern stuff like that
+ Is a bit of a movie buff (She loves the Godfather, and watches a ton of classic films)
+ LOVES the T.V. show the Office (American Version), and I mean LOVES - She's obsessed with the show
Anyway...I don't know what to get her. I don't want to do too little...or do too much...I mean, I've only become a closer friend of her's in the past few weeks, so I feel if I spend too much, she'll freak...
I've asked some people, and I've gotten some recommendations to keep whatever I get around 10$, to buy her candy with a ribbon, to get a cute cupcake with a candle in it, to avoid getting a card because its too sentimental, to buy a book she'd like, etc...What do you guys think?
She's a casual friend that, only a few weeks ago, I've asked to hang out with me. Before that, our only contact with each other has been the few classes we share - we usually joke around and enjoy each other's company, stuff like that. Anyway, I ask her to hang out with me, and she says yes - now, the story gets a bit more complicated here, but basically I made the mistake of telling a few people that I liked her and that I eventually wanted to ask her out - and she found out...but surprisingly, was okay with it, at least with the idea of hanging out casually and seeing if it develops into something. We've hung out a bit on a couple occasions, and its pretty fun...but being that its my first time doing anything like this, I have no idea what to do (the guides here really help though)...I've decided to ask her out by the end of the month, probably a lot sooner, because I really like this girl, and not just in a physically sense - I really enjoy being with her.
Err...sorry for that somewhat incoherent drivel...but anyway, her b-day is this week (this friday, the 23rd) and I've been wracking my head as to what I should get her....or if I should get her anything at all! I don't want to do too much...or too little. I want something that will leave a good impression, a good memory, that'll increase my chances of success with her. Here's some background info on the girl herself:
+ She's unique, a lot different from the usual high school girl - or at least the stereotypical girly-girl we all know and love
+ She loves Nirvana (Kurt Cobain in particular), and a lot of classic rock bands like Black Sabbath, ACDC, etc
+ She's political, she opposes the Bush administration and is generally Liberal. She's passionate about this stuff
+ She's into yoga (does it daily), acupuncture, meditation, spiritual/eastern stuff like that
+ Is a bit of a movie buff (She loves the Godfather, and watches a ton of classic films)
+ LOVES the T.V. show the Office (American Version), and I mean LOVES - She's obsessed with the show
Anyway...I don't know what to get her. I don't want to do too little...or do too much...I mean, I've only become a closer friend of her's in the past few weeks, so I feel if I spend too much, she'll freak...
I've asked some people, and I've gotten some recommendations to keep whatever I get around 10$, to buy her candy with a ribbon, to get a cute cupcake with a candle in it, to avoid getting a card because its too sentimental, to buy a book she'd like, etc...What do you guys think?
