LegendaryGame
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i havent posted in a long time, but I find this thread interesting.
I agree that "game" can only do so much in the world of relationships. It can keep a quality woman interested and always thinking about you and fighting to be in your life. What it won't do is give a girl more "confidence", drive for her career, better herself, make her very loyal etc. At the end of the day if you have a cheater who is a freak she'll remain that way.
below is what i went through with a older gf and how i got out and lived life in other relations successfully.
I've been in a situation similar to this and what I realized the best way to deal with it is absolutely never ever be jealous of the "guy at work" and to absolutely not care at all about who hit on her and what not. Basically, all I did was say to myself "if i act the classic way of getting angry and complaining i'll be the jealous boyfriend afc" if i plead and say baby, baby i'll still be the afc. if i answer the phone all the time, if i act controlling, still afc. all these things will give her the attention she wants and the fact that you're desperate for her and she has you wrapped around her finger. The easiest solution was to simply act casual and cool about many things.
Basically, to fully live your life and do everything you want and if she wants she can join. Like if you are going to drink with your friends, you go. if she complains tell her you're going thats it. Next time ask her to go with you somewhere, if she says no just say alright and just leave. no issue, no drama just casually leave. she wont mentally understand you, how can you do this?? what kind of guy just does what ever he wants. then randomly when you're in a good mood, suprise her with something nice after a drought of not giving her or doing anything great for her. She'll be very excited, then go back to your ways. This is deadly effective against hotter women because they won't comprehend what happened. In a relationship with a girl like this, if you try these methods and it doesn't work then there is a mental disorder problem and then you just cut your losses and leave. I'd never say to get married at all really unless you date for 5 years clean and no cheating and full loyalty with 0 "big" issues. If that happens you should be okay for marrying with prenup. if 1 big issue happens leave instantly.
also, internet women usually have problems because they arent dating in person. quality needs to be sought after and found. A true diamond in the rough is what it is. You must go through all the rough of the bars/groceries/gyms/streets/conventions etc until you find a girl that blows you away and she is a true catch. Some quick game and she'll be glued to you. Preferably one who knows what she wants and has had experience. Inexperienced women will only bring heartache because they must see how other things are. They can only be loyal for so long even with your game. The best you can do is just not invest yourself fully with an inexperienced woman, just enjoy her as she grows and just "be" around to get the s8X you need. if your gaming and being casually you can take an 18 year old inexperienced girl, and stay in contact till shes 27 gettin what you need without being hurt. this would take of course "LegendaryGame"
Best of luck Sigh in your future relations, but keep in mind how you view everything. you must have fresh visions and sight so the same thing isnt repeated. unlearn what you knew before and try out these ideas
I agree that "game" can only do so much in the world of relationships. It can keep a quality woman interested and always thinking about you and fighting to be in your life. What it won't do is give a girl more "confidence", drive for her career, better herself, make her very loyal etc. At the end of the day if you have a cheater who is a freak she'll remain that way.
below is what i went through with a older gf and how i got out and lived life in other relations successfully.
I've been in a situation similar to this and what I realized the best way to deal with it is absolutely never ever be jealous of the "guy at work" and to absolutely not care at all about who hit on her and what not. Basically, all I did was say to myself "if i act the classic way of getting angry and complaining i'll be the jealous boyfriend afc" if i plead and say baby, baby i'll still be the afc. if i answer the phone all the time, if i act controlling, still afc. all these things will give her the attention she wants and the fact that you're desperate for her and she has you wrapped around her finger. The easiest solution was to simply act casual and cool about many things.
Basically, to fully live your life and do everything you want and if she wants she can join. Like if you are going to drink with your friends, you go. if she complains tell her you're going thats it. Next time ask her to go with you somewhere, if she says no just say alright and just leave. no issue, no drama just casually leave. she wont mentally understand you, how can you do this?? what kind of guy just does what ever he wants. then randomly when you're in a good mood, suprise her with something nice after a drought of not giving her or doing anything great for her. She'll be very excited, then go back to your ways. This is deadly effective against hotter women because they won't comprehend what happened. In a relationship with a girl like this, if you try these methods and it doesn't work then there is a mental disorder problem and then you just cut your losses and leave. I'd never say to get married at all really unless you date for 5 years clean and no cheating and full loyalty with 0 "big" issues. If that happens you should be okay for marrying with prenup. if 1 big issue happens leave instantly.
also, internet women usually have problems because they arent dating in person. quality needs to be sought after and found. A true diamond in the rough is what it is. You must go through all the rough of the bars/groceries/gyms/streets/conventions etc until you find a girl that blows you away and she is a true catch. Some quick game and she'll be glued to you. Preferably one who knows what she wants and has had experience. Inexperienced women will only bring heartache because they must see how other things are. They can only be loyal for so long even with your game. The best you can do is just not invest yourself fully with an inexperienced woman, just enjoy her as she grows and just "be" around to get the s8X you need. if your gaming and being casually you can take an 18 year old inexperienced girl, and stay in contact till shes 27 gettin what you need without being hurt. this would take of course "LegendaryGame"
Best of luck Sigh in your future relations, but keep in mind how you view everything. you must have fresh visions and sight so the same thing isnt repeated. unlearn what you knew before and try out these ideas