Blusher I feel you, but see a lot of guys have not kept up with the times.
Women are not like they were years ago, women are like men...they are fvcking around, sticking and fvcking moving dude.
There's four catergories of women from my experiences
Girlfriend/Wifey
Close Friends with Benefits
Fvck Partner
Social Fvck Partner
Blusher, from my experience, 95% of women are NOT THE GIRLFRIEND/WIFEY TYPE. Blusher, too many times, a guy fvcks a girl and the girl starts saying all this shyt about "I'm in love, etc." and the guy jumps in a relationship with her. Everything is going great, he's banging her good, everything....then down the line the real chick comes out, and the guy is now stuck. He's got a child with her, he's married her without a pre-nup, he's fvcked up.
Women are NOT women anymore, at least not most of them. They are like us, they are sticking and moving and all they want to do is get fvcking laid!
The girls in the Close Friends with Benefits catergory, they resemble the Girlfriend/Wifey a little, and that's why the guy falls for it. But in time, she breaks lose.
Guys have got to be up to date with the current times. These guys are afraid to do approaches, they don't understand, there's nothing to be afraid of. Sexual state, sexual power, that's the sell. 95% of women want a good fvck. When you have all the sexual state and sexual power, you fvck them, but don't take that just because you fvcked her, that means that she likes you.
And just because you are in a relationship, that means nothing. Ask yourself this question Blusher. If you were stuck 100 miles out and it's 4 in the morning, it's a snow blizzard outside, would that chick come and pick you up?
The girlfriend/wifey fits that caterogory, because she is literally your mother's spirit in a 21 year old's body, and with a 21 year's figure. But if you think that you're going to get this everyday, that's not correct. So then, why are most guys in relationships? Most guys should actually TODAY, be getting laid more than ever. Getting laid shouldn't be hard today...it's hard because guys jsut aren't up to date.
What's all this stuff about, "breaking women out of their social shells?" What the hell? What world are these guys in? These chicks have been out since the Baby Boom, where in the hell do you think all those damn babies came from?
These guys are stuck in the wrong age, wrong time, and it's just a shame. But hell, I'm enjoyin all this pvssy.