What would you consider you biggest help in picking up women?

[mastersylar]

To everyone on this board, what do you think has helped you the most in becoming successful with women? (ie. pick up material, advice from people on this board, being a wingman for someone else?)

 

[Ojete]

Taking action.

Long answer: doing whatever it takes to put yourself out there and meet people of the opposite sex, no matter what "method" or style of dealing. That, coupled with the correct information beforehand, is the only real recipe for success.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Being able to qualify a woman.

 

[sparky0000]

My passport :cheer: . Hey, at least I am honest.

 

[Ll Principe]

Learning all the articles, quick tips, everything from sosuave...

Putting that knowledge into practice...

Continous learning and developing...

godsgiftstowoman: Want to explain what your 2008 mission is in detail sounds interesting... I once embarked on a similar goal.

 

[Ll Principe]

Okay, what are you goals ?

Give me some juicy details here....

300 days of approaching, im sure you have set targets though...

Eg. amount of numbers, amount of scores, amount of fcloses, etc..

 

[Ll Principe]

Nice nice, Mystery, did I know? Mate, ive seen Mystery's videos and this guy doesnt inspire me. I will probably take alot of flake for this comment but I look to people like Vulpine, Pook and Don Juan himself and the LEGACY he left as inspiring.

I would love to challenge Mystery to a friendly competition in a club one evening if I ever make it over to that side of the world.

As for HB 9'S - go for it, if you see yourself with 9's than thats great, I believe in your confidence. (No such things as a 10, so stick to the 8 and 9's ) This is also a problem that most people lead miserable lifes on, they settle for "mediocre girls" meanwhile they want an HB 9... Why settle for an HB 5 if you WANT a 9, if you say YOU CANT get them, than DO SOMETHING so you can GET THEM. Its simple.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

self-esteem. That way, win or lose (and you will lose @ first) you are still a winner. With that you are confident and secure and in charge imo. Just be content with who you are, and who you are becoming... Do some searches on self esteem and how to get it and follow it tooth and nail

 

[L777]

My passport :cheer: . Hey, at least I am honest.

You do know I PMed you about that. And you completely ignored it. That was good of you stud.

Smells like BS anyway...the whole globetrotter model scout thing.

 

[STR8UP]

-Having lots of female friends
-Strong ties with several different social groups
-Age/maturity/wisdom
-Status

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Realizing women are truly like children and don't know what they want.

.

 

[KSoze]

Every single woman i've ever picked up has been initially due to eye contact. Not some BS line i said or whatever. I'll spot a girl im attracted to across the room (usually not close to me), I'll get the girls eye contact and hold it till she looks away a couple times, smile, then flirt non-verbally. Once im past this phase i someone how approach (or they do) and I just ask complete off the wall silly random questions. Its never failed me. Sometimes when im doing this i have this thought running in my mind, "i know you want me"...silly, yes but effective to keep you focused.

It also probably doesnt hurt that im a good musician

 

[Bonhomme]

A combination of awareness and experience. They feed off each other.

 

[cyp6]

for me it was becoming a person of value, the reason i dint do well with women and other parts of my life was because i thought i had to be some one else to be sucesssful, i was not happy with my self. untill I started doing things that made me valueable in my eyes. I started accepting my weaknesses and improving on those and also counting my blessing for strenths i possess.

The short answer: Start loving your self, and others will follow.

 

[COD]

DAVID DEANGELO-interviews with gurus CD, the book DaVagina Code, Internet-(reserach, dating sites, IM's, mapquests, etc), quick tips on here and some articles, being able to listen in, read actual IM's/chats or watch clips of pick-ups, being part of this elite underground group towards self improvement without spending my hard earned cash.

 

[~attrACTION~]

Experience.

Learning from the past few thousand approaches so you know what to say and do.

~Shazam~

But after a few thousand approaches, don't you run into those same girls again? And how do you respond to that, doesn't it ufck your reputation?

 

[lookyoung]

My biggest weapons in no particular order are


1. Confidence.
2. Great at small talk.
3. I always assume I am the prize.
4. Always assume the girl is attracted to you.
5. EXPERIENCE.

Nothing beats Experience. Learn what works for you and what does not. Some people are good at ****y funny some people play the nice guy role.

Do what works best for you. No Athlete or DJ is exactly alike.

 

[KneghtRyder]

My biggest weapons in no particular order are


1. Confidence.
2. Great at small talk.
3. I always assume I am the prize.
4. Always assume the girl is attracted to you.
5. EXPERIENCE.

Nothing beats Experience. Learn what works for you and what does not. Some people are good at ****y funny some people play the nice guy role.

Do what works best for you. No Athlete or DJ is exactly alike.

i am not where near good but i quote for agreement

 

[Poonani Maker]

Being OPEN to all women/all people. Becoming a people person. My job forced me to do this; therefore over time, my skills developed and I could engage anybody because I have the walk and the "Open" body language to open up a conversation. It doesn't take much to get the ball rolling, when you've become healthy by what you eat and social by where you go and who you speak to.

 

[Plec07]

Realizing women are truly like children and don't know what they want.

Amen to that. Realizing that allowed me to tell them what they want, and not be afraid to take control over them.