I've seen people in my local community that I never wouldve thought would marry get married though, maybe it's because I live in a small town where almost everyone gets married early though, not as ravenous as the real world. lol Actually I plan on moving out of The South and to a city when I'm done with college.Maxtro said:
What will happen to me or anyone who never learn DJ or Gaming Women things?
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this thread is gonna attract attention because most guys here can sympathize with your situation...including me.
Lemme give you my opinion
make it a game...make it an experiment for yourself...just justify becoming a dj however...
look at some old ass man who is all alone driving his rusty pinto....is that your future? NO
Its gonna hurt...its gonna be hard...so keep all your "beliefs and values"...by the time you are through with your journey you will have a new point of view on your life
example: "i like my simpsons t-shirt and band shirt" -because they are comfortable/familiar....does a peacock use its tail to fly? Why would you care what you wear? Be a little better than everyone else and if you aren't then cheat! just do it son!!
Lemme give you my opinion
make it a game...make it an experiment for yourself...just justify becoming a dj however...
look at some old ass man who is all alone driving his rusty pinto....is that your future? NO
Its gonna hurt...its gonna be hard...so keep all your "beliefs and values"...by the time you are through with your journey you will have a new point of view on your life
example: "i like my simpsons t-shirt and band shirt" -because they are comfortable/familiar....does a peacock use its tail to fly? Why would you care what you wear? Be a little better than everyone else and if you aren't then cheat! just do it son!!
Thatfeel21
Senior Don Juan
you'll probably end up trying to put the first girl who gives you a decent amount of attention into a LTR, even though you met her at a party or she is a known smut..youll SLOWLY learn the hard way to qualify girls first then make your way up the ladder...the good thing about crashing and burning with random potential gurls is, the more you do it, eventually the less you'll do it...
MooseGod
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What will happen to you if you don't focus on women? I'm guessing you're about college age, right? Well, it's scary. You might end up being very successful in a job you love, living where and how you want, and being able to spend your hard earned money on things that YOU want. Oh, and you'll always be able to leave the toilet seat up.
I don't advise it. :crackup:
A lot of people I went to high school with are getting married now. I bet half of them are divorced in 5 years. Relationships aren't everything, unless you're a woman.
I don't advise it. :crackup:
A lot of people I went to high school with are getting married now. I bet half of them are divorced in 5 years. Relationships aren't everything, unless you're a woman.
What if I just keep ****ing up with girls everytime? I dont know what to do then, it just seems odd that would happen considering everyone else's success rate, I dont know, I havent found anyone at college I have an eye on for relationships, so i guess itll be a while before I try to get in a relationship again.Thatfeel21 said:
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
ChocolateVanilla
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I agree, except a lot of guys seem to take the first thing they can get and settle for less. Don't be one of those guys.MooseGod said:
threads like these i just get some really pathetic vibes from... anybody else?
Like some androgynous, asexual creatures typing this BS, it honestly seems this way; not untaimed MEN with testosterone and desire rushing through their veins.
Amazing guys, just amazing.
Like some androgynous, asexual creatures typing this BS, it honestly seems this way; not untaimed MEN with testosterone and desire rushing through their veins.
Amazing guys, just amazing.
Before you kill yourself, Deicide, just remember that the current market price of a HB is around $200.00. For about a grand you can have a GFE with a HB who has Playboy/Penthouse credentials.
So, worst case scenario, if you concentrate on your career, but never pick up or otherwise connect with another non-professional girl in your whole fvcking life you'll: a) avoid losing half your assets after a long-term sexless marriage (the fate of most guys) and b) bang all the HBs you like whenever you want.
If you wanna be a playa you can keep working on your game, but it's not fatal to your happiness if you can't achieve pick-up artistry.
So, worst case scenario, if you concentrate on your career, but never pick up or otherwise connect with another non-professional girl in your whole fvcking life you'll: a) avoid losing half your assets after a long-term sexless marriage (the fate of most guys) and b) bang all the HBs you like whenever you want.
If you wanna be a playa you can keep working on your game, but it's not fatal to your happiness if you can't achieve pick-up artistry.
you are right on point! people who are desperate will end up with the first girl who finds interest in them. that's why you should never settle for anything less. go a fvck around but dont get serious until you find someone thats for you. i know alot of people who are with someone just because they can't stand to be alone and you should do that.My Name is Nobody said:
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Ken785
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ughh..the obvious...Deicide said:
you'll be AFC for life...
a DJ is what a man is all about. He is loved and Respected.
there are many people in the world who married, and are happily married, without learning game.
good for them.
there are also people who learned game, slept with many women, and eventually found someone they are now happy with.
good for them too.
it depends what it's going to take to satisfy you. all that matters is your own personal satisfaction. do you look at beautiful women and think, "if only I could date her....."?
if not, then don't worry about it.
whatever makes you happy.
HOWEVER, you sound like you're saying you're not going to attempt to date at all until after college. By waiting to deal with women, you're not going to have any idea at all what you want. That's probably going to make things harder on you in the long run.
I'd suggest, if you don't want to date, at least socialize with women. Then you'll get to know them, and get to know what you may be looking for.
good for them.
there are also people who learned game, slept with many women, and eventually found someone they are now happy with.
good for them too.
it depends what it's going to take to satisfy you. all that matters is your own personal satisfaction. do you look at beautiful women and think, "if only I could date her....."?
if not, then don't worry about it.
whatever makes you happy.
HOWEVER, you sound like you're saying you're not going to attempt to date at all until after college. By waiting to deal with women, you're not going to have any idea at all what you want. That's probably going to make things harder on you in the long run.
I'd suggest, if you don't want to date, at least socialize with women. Then you'll get to know them, and get to know what you may be looking for.