What should I text this attractive modern chick next?

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I was on Facebook this morning and I saw her story popped up....

It showed her working out on a treadmill and watching the Vice Presidential debate....

I texted her - ' it's all a sideshow and a diversion', which got her interest and attention.

She responded with a ' ?' what should I text her next?

Whether we become lovers or not, she seems like a cool chick to become friends with and add to my social circle.

heres pics of her. She’s Latina.





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You think a "?" response to a random dude replying to a Facebook story is an IOI?
I agree. This isn't much of anything.

He's following her on social. That doesn't mean much in the real world in terms of getting laid. Getting laid is why we are here. There needs to be more meaningful interaction in the real world and less interaction from tech methods.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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I was on Facebook this morning and I saw her story popped up....

It showed her working out on a treadmill and watching the Vice Presidential debate....

I texted her - ' it's all a sideshow and a diversion', which got her interest and attention.

She responded with a ' ?' what should I text her next?

Whether we become lovers or not, she seems like a cool chick to become friends with and add to my social circle.

heres pics of her. She’s Latina.





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I think I saw her on Onlyfans. (just kidding)

What did you mean by saying "it's all a sideshow and diversion'?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Id rather not go deep into Politics because of the rules on this board….but I was just talking about how everything in Politics seems to be questionative.
ok, try to keep things light and funny with your prospects. If you write something suggestive of a serious discussion like that, then it might be a put-off, especially if she does not share the same political views.
 

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Okay she responded to one of my texts when I asked her a question as to where she was at.

My gut feeling is this chick find my posts interesting on facebook and social media. I texted her again tonight here in South east Asia where Im stationed currently, wont be getting back to the states til Winter. She lives in my area and maybe…just maybe I can cultivate a beautiful friendship off of this lol. Im happy regardless without her approval, I texted her after she showed a pic of a card and that got her attention, but with no text back.

I believe people can read vibes even through text. So my strategy is to text her only when Im feeling great and Im just gonna tease her and make playful jokes here and there. Say after a week or so, maybe after a workout or Im done meditating I’ll check on her stories and comment.



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it's all a sideshow and a diversion
She was watching politics and you replied with a dismissiv and boring @$$ comment like that? What did you expect for he to tell you?

By this comment she and we all could see you were not actually genuine interested in what she was watching, you were thinking of getting with her.

You fvcked up by not being polarizing, by not creating an emotion to her, by not taking the chance and say something she might find "offensive", you played safe and didn't wanna be bold. Women like bold men, not puzzies.

Me: watching story of this girl in the gym

Me: Trump is gonna win by a landslide, those Democrats have fvcked up the economy and safety.

Her: I don't like Trump, fvck you or whatever $hit she says.

Or Her: I know right, I'm rooting for him (or similar)

Then you keep the conversation going using that as excuse.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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You can tell someone has a woman on a pedestal when it seems like they think about her every day but are too scared to express their intentions for fear of fvcking it up. 9/10 you will lose with this mentality.

You can do better than this, OP. You don’t really know this girl yet. This is the perfect opportunity to be direct.
 

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It seems like you are pretty active on the forum, 4 years of membership, a few hundred posts. Now I wonder, with all that, how can you not have learned anything in the time you've spent here?
Let me tell you honestly, you need to instantly move on from this and stop embarrasing yourself. By the looks of things I was wondering if this was a troll post.
This girl is showing no interest, you have 0 chances, (I hope you're not really 38), the girl looks 20, you are talking about a "beautiful friendship" with her, your mentality is completely wrong, and you need to get back to the drawing board and read some more quality material on the forum and forget about her.
 
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Again like other posts you need to open other woman and make more options stop micro analysing one particular interaction
 

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OP say this - "so anyway to answer your original question, it's all a sideshow and diversion because you and I are going to rule the world" or some sh1t and riff off of that.

It's a hail mary but not much you can do at this point.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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