BuckwildNYC said:
HAHA omg that was too funny :crackup:
But to reply to the poster........It's good that you are evaluating where you are in life and what kind of girls you can get. I dont care what these gurus tell you, not every guy can have a perfect 10 girlfriend. There just aren't enough to go around. Let's say you are a 7 on a scale of 1 to 10. If you got some serious game and maybe some cash you could probably date an 8.5. If not, I'm sure there'll be plenty of 6's who'll give you some play. Would you rather stay home and jerk it or have an average looking girl? That's a decision you have to make.
All the guys on my job are married. And some of them are fat lazy slobs. Well, their wives are usually fat lazy slobs too. You just have to date in your zone or be happy alone. (hey that rhymed :cheer: )
Just do the best you can and take what you can get. And never forget there's more to life than just chicks. Alot more. Your average video game is more entertainment than most girls. I know women look hot but they come with alot of headaches too. You only want one when you dont have one. As soon as you get stuck in a relationship you'll be screaming to be single again.... remember I warned you
good advice buckwilde.( i am adding some "reputation" points to your ID (the little balance thingie)) ..this is something that I was thinking in the back of my mind for a while but never said it here, because I didn't want to upset the folks with high ambition.
Everyone had a 'league' of girls that they score within. For me , I am brown ( indian) guy, so I tend to get interest with girls that are also brown or black or asian, I am not in the field long, maybe I will get a super hot white chick or a super hot MILF but you are definetly right about this...
Its a choice you have to make, and part of it you have accept that you can't have the super hottest girl 10 in the world. Its just too damn competitive and not easy.
Its a choice, that you can choose between being completely alone and living a ****ty life or choosing to have at least something in this life with the option for something super hott down the life.
its like what albert camus said, who believe that when your dead , thats it there is no heaven or hell etc. It a choice you have, either you dye or you take what you have and try to make the most of you what you got. ...
Its unfair that life didn't give you the best looks, status whatever but you have a choice to use what you have now, or live a boring, worthless existence. Its a grim decision , but you have to face the reality in this life if you want to achieve something of value .. achievement : you did what you can with what you've got that is one way to define success ...its not whether you actually get a girl or not but did you make the most of what you were given with.
WHo knows , someday you might get enough confidence, game, status that you can get a HB10, it might happen....but you don't want to waist years of time you could be having fun and living a normal life or waiting for the super hot babe that might or might not happen....get my drift