This site does not serve to make men better it merely makes their situation first. Though may here say that the purpose of this site is to happy with one's self first and then attract later. The whole reason why you are here is for one reason: Her.
Maybe she was the girl of your dreams you never got, maybe she turned you down, maybe she is this ideal woman you have not found. The problem is you think you can play games and you think you can have control over women by what you do, say and how you think. I hate to tell you that the rules of the dating game have been written by women and that you are merely being played and not a player. They expect crap like this and sucker you into it because they just want more attention, more drama and to have worn you down so hard from chasing them that you roll over on your back and give into their wishes. You are so out of breath chasing down every techinquie, line and mastering every idea you are to out of breath to say next.
Your confidence is fake, you base it off wheither or not you can seduce a woman. Because ultimately all the things you do are in some way focused on making yourself more appealing to women, so much so that you give up on being you. When you have ten numbers stuffed in your wallet you feel like a king, when you don't you feel like a fool. You belive that if you do A, B and C you will end up with result D, and act things out like a script. You become less real with every time you play games, and you give up on being a man. You turn yourself into a modern ken doll taking on the current style, slang and hobbies that you think she wants to see. And yes ken has no d1ck either and in the end she probably doesn't want to see yours either.
So you come here to be told how to act and what to be like instead of being your self and telling women what you want from them. You come here and have "experts" peddle and hawk their wares at you and prey upon those dark unspoken insecurities, the fears of being alone, the fear of never having sex again, and the fear of not measuring up to the standard of being "male" that is controled by society and the media the pushes towards feminity in males. In the end you march to the same drum beat, you just fill a different role that you are still expected to fill. And yes some of you will have success but what is that success? Is it to be accept by a woman, to have her love and attention by pretending to be someone you are not to get her attention, to spend your hard earned money on gifts and dates for her. You get so worked up about having a woman that you forget about having your respect and pride come first.
-Grey Fox
Maybe she was the girl of your dreams you never got, maybe she turned you down, maybe she is this ideal woman you have not found. The problem is you think you can play games and you think you can have control over women by what you do, say and how you think. I hate to tell you that the rules of the dating game have been written by women and that you are merely being played and not a player. They expect crap like this and sucker you into it because they just want more attention, more drama and to have worn you down so hard from chasing them that you roll over on your back and give into their wishes. You are so out of breath chasing down every techinquie, line and mastering every idea you are to out of breath to say next.
Your confidence is fake, you base it off wheither or not you can seduce a woman. Because ultimately all the things you do are in some way focused on making yourself more appealing to women, so much so that you give up on being you. When you have ten numbers stuffed in your wallet you feel like a king, when you don't you feel like a fool. You belive that if you do A, B and C you will end up with result D, and act things out like a script. You become less real with every time you play games, and you give up on being a man. You turn yourself into a modern ken doll taking on the current style, slang and hobbies that you think she wants to see. And yes ken has no d1ck either and in the end she probably doesn't want to see yours either.
So you come here to be told how to act and what to be like instead of being your self and telling women what you want from them. You come here and have "experts" peddle and hawk their wares at you and prey upon those dark unspoken insecurities, the fears of being alone, the fear of never having sex again, and the fear of not measuring up to the standard of being "male" that is controled by society and the media the pushes towards feminity in males. In the end you march to the same drum beat, you just fill a different role that you are still expected to fill. And yes some of you will have success but what is that success? Is it to be accept by a woman, to have her love and attention by pretending to be someone you are not to get her attention, to spend your hard earned money on gifts and dates for her. You get so worked up about having a woman that you forget about having your respect and pride come first.
-Grey Fox
