What is the perfect height for a man?

[RedScorpion]

I'd avoid 'using' on either front myself. Each person may contribute to the other in some form - but I'd keep it to the basics and build from there. Such as - enjoying their presence. Finding them physically attractive. Appreciating their pursuits in life. Then you can go in whichever focus you want.

There's this (not too much) older woman I work with. She's not perfect (and not in a position for anything to happen between us), but we have enough commonalities in personality, way of thinking, how we approach subject matters, etc. I enjoy talking with her, and can talk freely with her. I'm relaxed, don't have to stress about what I'm saying, can flirt/joke around.

Basically, I enjoy being around her. It's not exactly easy at times, but try and find someone you like being around as a basis. My guess is they won't be in a strip club or arrangements online - but maybe it can be for you.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

For me I always thought 6'0 6'1 was perfect. I am 5'10.25 to be exact lol. I always thought after 6'2 tallness looked goofy and uncoordinated

 

[EyeBRollin]

6'3, 200-220 lbs and lean is the "ideal" man. Most chicks want a man at least 6' tall. Over 6'3 the appeal rapidly tapers off.

Still not worth surgery IMO. I'm 5'7 and have no issues pulling chicks, even tall ones.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

5'8" to 6'2" through skeletal lengthening? Lol.

All that will happen is that you will end up with f*cked up bones and weird elongated limbs.

 

[Jareamee]

Hi Richard.

Having been enveloped in the modelling world for many years, the ideal male height in the international industry was 6’2”. I’m 6’0” on the dot, and was often losing jobs because of this particular criteria. Runway modelling is a great portion of the work. And in that world it’s all about measurements. Inseam, jacket, waist, etc. So everything is tailored for a specific body type. 6’2” granted a longer overall frame and when married with a lean physique it looks great; most will agree to this. A lot of clothes are tailored towards this ‘ideal’ on mannequins and in media. So in my opinion and in the fashion world 6’2” is ideal.

However. Even if you did snap your legs and get titanium implants which granted you more inches, it wouldn’t look right. And that ‘improvement’ would come at a great cost of many problems down the line in your older years. And longevity is the most inportant in life. Proportion is generally what creates an aesthetic attraction, along with symmetry. From a physical standpoint. So there would be an incongruincy there.

When it comes to the dynamic of relationships, height shouldn’t be a crucial matter. Most women simply care that you are taller than them, even if it’s .5 of an inch, as it makes them feel more secure about many things, which I’m not going to go deeply in to. This ties in to biology.

Don’t grate your mind about height. Concern yourself about excavating that idea out of your head and cultivating a healthier self image, and control the things which you can — your attitude, perspective, health, and learning. Let those things speak greater volumes about who you are rather than aligning your value around your height. Allow those traits to ripple outwards and affect people in a positive sense. That is much more attractive and rewarding than some inches to your height. Any man or woman would attest to that.

Be grateful that you have height, and are not 4’5” tall or in a wheelchair. Be thankful and fulfilled. Live richly in that.

It’s easy to wish you were something else; although at a price tag of being enormously drained.
It’s difficult to completely accept yourself and own it completely; however, massively rewarding.

 

[BeExcellent]

Here's the answer: It depends.

If the woman is 5'11" and likes to wear heels? Then 6'6" is the ideal. If the woman is 5'2" then 5'8" is perfectly fine. I've dated and been deeply in love with men who were 5'7" and men who were as tall as 6'4". I'm 5'6" myself.

If a woman digs you she isn't going to care how tall you are or aren't.

This is nuts this business of breaking your legs for additional height. And just what are you going to do if you get an infection? Orthopedic cases get infected sometimes. Then you have a very BAD outcome. It is wise to avoid surgical intervention unless absolutely necessary because of the risks, which are not insignificant, especially in weight bearing limbs in orthopedics.

Nevermind the problem of women thinking you are STRANGE when they start learning how dissatisfied you are with your body. Its not normal. Not even in our image conscious society.

One day Richard will be on "Botched" and it's not going to be pretty.

 

[Trump]

This is nuts this business of breaking your legs for additional height. And just what are you going to do if you get an infection? Orthopedic cases get infected sometimes. Then you have a very BAD outcome. It is wise to avoid surgical intervention unless absolutely necessary because of the risks, which are not insignificant, especially in weight bearing limbs in orthopedics.

Nevermind the problem of women thinking you are STRANGE when they start learning how dissatisfied you are with your body. Its not normal. Not even in our image conscious society.

I don’t think it’s that nuts. When getting married with a good looking young women in America in 2018 means more than life itself, when women have all the power in 2018, getting some surgery to make yourself more appealing to women isn’t abnormal.

If you don’t have the genetics to appeal to the opposite sex, you got to to do what you to do.

 

[BeExcellent]

You're putting a knife to your body to fix an insecurity in your head.

This.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

He's going to turn himself into Cyborg Superman.

 

[The Diver]

I don’t think it’s (breaking your bones legs) that nuts,,,,,,, to make yourself more appealing to women,,,,,,
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I just hope you are sarcastic here,,,

 

[Dingo]

Do it... DO IT !!

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Do it... DO IT !!

Fixing my dome light worked out tremendously for me. So I have no reason to believe you'd steer me in the wrong direction.

 

[Dingo]

Fixing my dome light worked out tremendously for me. So I have no reason to believe you'd steer me in the wrong direction.

LOL !!

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

These threads are a truly excellent textbook example of what happens when you have absolutely no confidence or frame at all and combine that with constant lying and fantasising about your skills, abilities and lifestyle.

Constant aggression, futile efforts to assert dominance over other much more confident men and a persistent focus on all the wrong things to improve SMV and self esteem.

Richard insists that he's not jealous of guys that get with girls for free (in fact such men are "pu$$ies", immediately proving jealousy), he insists that women hold next to no value to him, have no power over him and he's not bothered about them at all. He also talks as if he's the ultimate "Alpha" male, with a notch count of 200 ladies, he's a heavyweight business magnate and a hardened prison-going badass who could take on anyone physically in a fight.

But what's the reality? A 5'7" physically frail man who doesn't go to the gym at all, hasn't actually flipped his first house yet, his 200 sexual conquests are all prostitutes and the only reason he can even live like that is because he has family money given to him to pay for it all.

And yet at the same time he's so desperate for female affection (these same females he "doesn't care about") that he's getting agonising d*ck surgery, having his legs broken to make himself taller with massive long term health implications and at this stage this is all just to impress prostitutes he's paying for, not even real women.

I'm not saying all this to insult Richard. I'm saying it because I feel posters here need to cut through his constant bullsh*t and make him realise that he's being completely delusional at this point.

Thread after thread of the same garbage fantasies as a frame replacement and even a replacement for actually DOING stuff in RL, like ACTUALLY running a business rather than talking about how successful your fictional business is.

No sane human being is going to value you higher than you are now for having a Lamborghini, a sliced up freakish kn*b and broken legs that let you stand 2 inches taller. If you asked women what they want in a man, would any of those things be right at the top of the list? Above things like musculature, personality, humour integrity, honesty, mental fortitude? No.

Stop working on these useless things (and spending enormous amounts of money on them) and start working on yourself properly. Gym, eat right, actually FINISH a business deal rather than bragging and bullsh*tting etc. etc.

Stop f*cking prostitutes and acting like it's actual experience. It's not. That whole thread about how you "did whatever you wanted" with a $600 girl was so cringe it was unreal - having sex for money is basically worse than having no sex at all, all you're doing is showing that you're desperate enough to fork over money.

 

[Spinach]

Well said. Richard, your turn to become violent and defensive....