Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Looks are only one part of the equation. As someone said once (on this board?) can't remember where "Good looks will get you a lot more auditions with women but after the first few minutes if that's all you got..." U get the idea. Looks are only important for the first few minutes after that U have to open your mouth, speak, have a personality, be funny, confident, charming, have some thoughts & ideas, opinions etc. etc....all that other stuff that women love.....If you have all that, looks don't mean much to a lot of women really. I am no "stud" but my strong points are convo, kino, humor, insight, social skills, smiles, laughter, making people put down their barriers...being a likable guy...Originally posted by rows1:
what if you're really just not a good lookin guy. is it the end of the world for u? people make it seem like it.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
No. Its not the end of the world. What you need (and what most of us need) is some self-improvement. Thankfully, anyone can improve their looks.Originally posted by rows1:
what if you're really just not a good lookin guy. is it the end of the world for u? people make it seem like it.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.