Is this racism or no?
For those of you who don't know, I am a black male
I have been seeing/dating this half white/half Italian girl for a week or so now, she seemes really cool, and we hung out a few times.
Well last night, we finally got it on, and during the middle of it she starts saying things like "Fu-K me with that black co*k" and other references to my color. The one that really got me is when she said "harder nig@er", I mean at first it was kind of hot, but then I started thinking about it and thought it was messed up.
After the fact, she was going on to tell me how this is the first time she was with a black guy and that the contrast in skin tone between me and her was a big turn on, and she seemed really cool about it.
I have been with white and asian girls before, and never experienced this
Do you think this is racism, or was it just heat of the moment dirty
talk?
Thamks for your thoughts
For those of you who don't know, I am a black male
I have been seeing/dating this half white/half Italian girl for a week or so now, she seemes really cool, and we hung out a few times.
Well last night, we finally got it on, and during the middle of it she starts saying things like "Fu-K me with that black co*k" and other references to my color. The one that really got me is when she said "harder nig@er", I mean at first it was kind of hot, but then I started thinking about it and thought it was messed up.
After the fact, she was going on to tell me how this is the first time she was with a black guy and that the contrast in skin tone between me and her was a big turn on, and she seemed really cool about it.
I have been with white and asian girls before, and never experienced this
Do you think this is racism, or was it just heat of the moment dirty
talk?
Thamks for your thoughts