iqqi said:If I was you, I would be p!ssed off too. That is just a really bad judgement call on her part.
Its her birthday weekend... she has a boyfriend who sent her roses... and she is going to the strip club with a bunch of random DUDES? Without you! Hell to the NAW, is whats up with that scenario.
If the shoe was on MY foot (and I am a girl), I would be OK with my boyfriend going to the strip joint with his BOYS (on one of the days leading up to the bday). I wouldn't be ecstatic, but I'd be ok with it. But some random chicks from work, without me? ...Nuh-uh.
Its just NOT COOL. You know? Not a great idea. It shows a lack of CONSIDERATION and respect.
Kick that h0 to the curb.
Tell her that she just isn't the girl for you. And to have a happy birthday. I am more than sure that one of the random guys taking her to the strip club will make her feel better... let him have her. His problem now. Not yours.
Wow the girls iqqi and penkitten are on it. I usually don't like what Iqqi says but she seems to know what she's talking about here.
This girl has a history of hanging with other guys and doing who knows what with them. I don't think she's going to stop anytime soon. I wouldn't consider her long term relationship material. I'm surprised you sent her flowers.
I guess the real test is does she come home after the strip club to be serviced by you?