What do YOU think is the most attractive thing a girl/woman sees in a guy/man?

[gregoryb2]

Women want leaders

Now social status is a a big part of leadership. Women will go for the man with a good finance's and than charm. Women go for men in position.

 

[Groovy]

Penis size> everything else

Are you serious? :nervous:

 

[ArcBound]

And around the platform, a thousand mouths cry:
"Confidence."
"Humor."
"Patterns."
"Kino."
"Chocolate."
"Poetry."
"By ignoring you."
"By totally focusing on you."
"Puffed muscles."
"Flowers."
"Spikey hair."
"Endless gifts."
"Mirroring."
"Leather jackets."
"Eliciting values."
"Sparkly clothes."
"Bouncy personality."
"Romance."
"Dinner. Lobster!"
"Compliments."
"Guitar songs."

And she laughs only to say, "These are very well and good, gentlemen. But are you not aware that imitation is suicide? You forget that confidence is experience, that puffed muscles are not to be a masculine dress, that any guy can buy me lobster, and that countless many can sing the guitar songs. Are you so unaware of what I need?"

 

[Jariel]

I think the big point that is missing from this thread is that different women go for different qualities.

Some girls want a nice guy they can marry, have kids with and feel comfortable with. Others want an animalistic stud who will fvck them senseless. Some like pretty boys, some like rugged guys; some want to be with a rich and successful man, others want humility and simplicity. Some girls like a smouldering and sexy guy, others prefer a guy who is funny and doesn't take himself seriously.

You cannot attract all women. This is why rejection isn't so bad. Just because you're not one girl's type, doesn't mean you can't be another girls ideal man.

Above all, you just need to be comfortable in your own skin and enjoy life.

 

[Stagger Lee]

I think the big point that is missing from this thread is that different women go for different qualities.

Some girls want a nice guy they can marry, have kids with and feel comfortable with. Others want an animalistic stud who will fvck them senseless. Some like pretty boys, some like rugged guys; some want to be with a rich and successful man, others want humility and simplicity. Some girls like a smouldering and sexy guy, others prefer a guy who is funny and doesn't take himself seriously.

You cannot attract all women. This is why rejection isn't so bad. Just because you're not one girl's type, doesn't mean you can't be another girls ideal man.

Above all, you just need to be comfortable in your own skin and enjoy life.

This is a good point I had this in mind when I posted my points but did not elaborate. I was using the assumption of what would attract the most/average females and most consistently. But different females are attracted to different things and types. Heck, the same female can be attracted to several different things and types at the same time, ie., attracted to the stud/bad boy and the emotional supportive/good guy.

Also in line with my appearance theory, women judge superficially and sterotype guys into persona groups. For example on the positive type side, "oh he's the bad boy type, jock, hot/great guy, rocker, country, emo, alternative, player etc." And on the negative type side, player (negative sense), jerk/a-hole, average guy, nice guy, creeper, geek etc.

But how I unify it is no matter what type females preceive you to fall in, the guy with the best appearance attracts the most women. An ugly, unattractive "bad boy" is not a bad boy but put into one of the negative sterotypes. Your appearance makes the difference more than who or what you really are.

 

[DonGorgon]

for black women its skin lightness and hair straightness...lol the less black you look the more black women will like you..

 

[MikeBrown30]

Are you serious? :nervous:

LOL. It was supposed to be sarcastic.......but if you are known to have a big c0ck, girls will put up with alot more sh1t from you.

 

[BettorOffSingle]

MONEY AND/OR POWER. That isn't what Hollywood wants you to think though. Nope. Here is the truth. Most female sex symbols in Hollywood lost their virginity to creepy old dudes who had power over them. Those old dudes also are the ones who make the money in Hollywood. It is the way life goes. Power is sexy to girls. Most of you are MUCH too young and powerless to get that.

This is the difference between being able to:

1. Get ANY woman you want (impossible); and
2. Get a woman any TIME you want

Social-climbers (or what I call "diamonds" in BOS) are always available to men with money and power, but this is a very restricted target-class. it's also not ideal, as it is the MONEY they want, not the man. Sex is like a CHORE to these women, unless they are exceptional actresses who value giving fair value for the money, which most do not (the OTL from BOS did however).

In my prime, I got super-elites who literally could not be bought. No matter how wealthy I get at this age, the QUALITY and MOTIVATION of the women that would get me can never measure up to what youth, looks, and brains could get me twenty years ago.

To address a few other comments, men are NOT into famous women if they are smart, since that just attracts rivals, over something the men don't care about, whereas for women, they do care about money and status, so it makes sense for them to be groupies.

Also notice that many men will never ***** out for any amount of money, far more than women will, which suggests that sex is much more important to men than to women, at least sexually, despite all the talk about how women take it more seriously; that's true only in a BUSINESS sense.

A man can attract women with looks, brains, OR money. He's got three shots at the basket, whereas for women, looks are going to determine their fate almost exclusively.

Ray Gordon
Bettor Off Single: Why Commitment Is A Bad Gamble For Men
http://www.toosmarttofail.com/bos.pdf
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[Groovy]

Rarely will I ever disagree with you Jariel, but in this case I think Beiber DOES actually prove the point that girls like masculine qualities.

This may sound crazy but here's why: Yes it's true that Beiber may have some feminine qualities such as longer hair (which isn't always feminine) and high pitched voice. However masculinity encompasses MUCH more than just physical appearance. As much as everyone likes to bust on him, you have to hand it to him, Justin Beiber is massively successful. He's talented. He's a charming kid, does his own thing and is passionate about it. He has a tremendous presence and is a great performer. And these qualities as well as numerous other qualities about Beiber ARE masculine. These qualities ARE what makes Beiber attractive to girls/woman.

You need to open your eyes man... Nothing masculine about the guy. He is a great guy, I think he is. I'm gonna straight up say it, I think he is cool. But I'm not gonna close my eyes and say "Wow man, so many girls like him, so he is masculine, something in him must be, although I don't see it!" there has got to be something more to that. All this situation seems very fishy to me.

For example. If you say he is so masculine, how do you explain that everyone hates him? Except teenage girls basically. That's right. One cannot explain it(or can they?). Maybe I am wrong here, but I don't see the wrongness just yet.

http://thejustinbiebershrine.com/20...tin-bieber-fans-have-low-female-hormones.html
Now that's more like it! This guy tried to give an explanation, it was a lot better then yours in my opinion, not trying to be rude, just saying what i think. I don't agree with your post much, with all due respect.

Bieber may be a cool kid, but being cool earns you people to like you, even care for you or perhaps even respect you in a certain way!... But attraction? NO.

That link IMO is cool because it is sort of an anti bieber "study" or whatever in a website dedicated to justin bieber. So you will kinda get both sides of the story...

http://www.youbeauty.com/relationships/bieber-boomers-why-older-women-love-justin-bieber
http://www.popeater.com/2010/04/07/justin-bieber-older-women-fans/
That last one is the poll, isn't rigorous or anything, but it did have 4300 people voting, that's at least something isn't it? Better of course would be 50000 but it's better then 100. Not sure if I agree 100% with that guy, maybe he didn't really get to the bottom of it, but I think he makes great points indeed. But even so, I want to put it out there, at least someone here can comment on it! Looking forward to it. TY for reading.

LOL. It was supposed to be sarcastic.......but if you are known to have a big c0ck, girls will put up with alot more sh1t from you.

Hahahahahahaha. I was joking .
Anyways in porn these guys have huge ****s but they can never get it up, only a weak ass erection after lots of oral sex with the hottest girls EVER, lololololol, they can never make a woman come, only fake orgasms!!! That is so embarrassing... I would prefer not to have sex at all then to have sex with a HB10 knowing I won't even make her orgasm wildly! That's why I don't watch porn anymore, it's all fake, every single video I watched so far was fake, (maybe I saw 1 that was real, I'm not sure, but I am not going back to see it), it gives people the wrong idea.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Last night I was surfing around and happened upon videos of "The Monkees". They were HUGE when I was a little kid. The world's first Bieber was in that band, in the form of Davy Jones.

Here he is in all his feminine glory:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XfuBREMXxts

I was always amazed, even at 8 years old, how women could be so ape-sh!t wild (pun intended) over this guy.

Feel free to experiment with his mannerisms and report your findings. Once you have mastered the Davy Jones, you can graduate to the big leagues:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZvl2aqIyNg
The explosion of fun starts at 0:53.

I still can't wrap my head around young teenage girls and old hags (yes, my age group, lol) being so attracted to such femininity, when supposedly MASCULINITY is supposed to attract them on a primal level.

If anyone has any other theories, I'm all ears. It must have to do with hormones, but I wonder what exactly flips the switch in women and causes them to respond to masculinity. I'm thinking that at that tender age, masculinity is a scary threat to them, so these fem-boys are "kind of" guys but without the threatening masculine tendancies.