What do you think about the so-called "Hookup Culture"?

[devilkingx2]

A lot of men and women on all sides dislike it for various reasons, what do the DJs of sosuave think.

Would it be better if women were socially conservative and primarily had sex after several dates and official girlfriend status?

Or would it be better for girls to be party girls until they're 30 so you can have plates,FWBs, hookups and side pieces?

I think having to commit to girls and date them seriously to gain access to sex would only actually benefit women. Most of the dudes who don't get laid because they aren't chads probably don't have the income or status to secure a serious girlfriend above HB5 either.

However my game and my looks are better than my income, so I may be biased.

 

[SW15]

Overrated.

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[devilkingx2]

Overrated.

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I agree with this. There's mainly a hookup culture if you do a lot of nightlife, OLD or are currently going to a party university.

At least where I live, most normal people, especially women, focus on paying their bills. Although young men are usually all about parties and girls.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Like @SW15 said, overrated and over exaggerated.

 

[forcerecon01]

Like @SW15 said, overrated and over exaggerated.

Sex is a novelty

 

[Divorced w 3]

I don’t think the premise of the question is accurate. A lot of women under the right conditions will put out on the first meeting.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Once you get good at game and actually start getting laid, you appreciate the fact that we live in a time where a guy can sleep around with as many women as he likes and also, if he has his sh*t together (mentally, financially, etc.), find the right one. You value the fact that you have choices and plenty of ways to go with said choices.

However, most Red Pill places are full of incel-like men that suck with women, are selfish, and do not know how they come off to others. Such men long for a society like the middle ages where men and women do not really have that much choice. To these men, if they can just get scraps, that is a win. They are not fit to survive in a society where women have a choice and so do men with their stuff together.

 

[forcerecon01]

Once you get good at game and actually start getting laid, you appreciate the fact that we live in a time where a guy can sleep around with as many women as he likes and also, if he has his sh*t together (mentally, financially, etc.), find the right one. You value the fact that you have choices and plenty of ways to go with said choices.

However, most Red Pill places are full of incel-like men that suck with women, are selfish, and do not know how they come off to others. Such men long for a society like the middle ages where men and women do not really have that much choice. To these men, if they can just get scraps, that is a win. They are not fit to survive in a society where women have a choice and so do men with their stuff together.

So accurate

 

[EyeBRollin]

I like it. Once you know the game, getting women to sleep with you isn’t difficult. At my pre-covid peak I had sex with three different women on three consecutive days (one per day). I was exhausted by the third day. Great times

 

[The Duke]

I don’t think the premise of the question is accurate. A lot of women under the right conditions will put out on the first meeting.

Exactly, a girl that is super into you will do anything. I had 3 of my ltr's tell me they would have fuhked on the first date had I wanted that. I never fuhk a girl on the first date if I see potential.

 

[The Duke]

Hook up culture or not, the same guys will come out on top. Doesn't matter what rules we play buy.

What's good for society as a whole? That's another topic.

 

[devilkingx2]

Hook up culture or not, the same guys will come out on top. Doesn't matter what rules we play buy.

I actually disagree with this because I think in a hookup culture looks and game would be on top. But in a more relationship focused culture money and status would be king.

A broke Chad would slay in a hookup culture, whereas a serious relationship culture would favor a mediocre looking millionaire.

 

[Solomon]

Hate it we have seen now what Hook up Culture has done
to women and society
The rise of single mothers, wokeism, feminism etc

Now in 2023 men whine worse than women and when you call it out they say "you're shaming me bro"lol men have become soft, In the beginnig of the 1900s there was masculunity crises as well and the rise of the christian masculunity movement became huge Guess what happend? World War 1, Stock Market Crash and World War 2 and men became men again. Part of being a man is dealing with tough times and being able to adapt a lot of men don't know how to adapt

Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

Indifferent.

Libido is far from high at my age, desire to validation from women equally as low, interest toward society the same.

Whatever people want to do is fine to me as long as they dont involve me personally or economically.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Only people really mad at "hookup culture" are probably dudes who aren't benefiting from it. Hate to say it.... Personally, I believe it's always been the way it is.. and that majority of people who have careers and hobbies are completely indifferent to it. Hookup culture is more for the younger generation trying to explore their sexuality and transition into adulthood. The older you get, more people just want to settle down with a good partner.

I think a bigger issue is the drug culture of today.

 

[Stanley]

I stopped caring, I used to care a f*** ton.

Damned if you do Damned if you don't kind of scenario. I don't really care about others promiscuity anymore after I started upping the notch myself, I also have no interest in a lifelong partner currently so that helps... That said the effects it's had on society at large is disheartening to say the least. As long as i'm not hurting/using anyone intentionally and not putting more negativity out there I am guilt free. Absurdism is the way to go for me. C'est la vie

 

[Solomon]

Indifferent.

Libido is far from high at my age, desire to validation from women equally as low, interest toward society the same.

Whatever people want to do is fine to me as long as they dont involve me personally or economically.

aren't you 32?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Works great for guys, not so great for women.

Guys are happier, women are less happy

 

[devilkingx2]

The poll is quite split and divided, but the replies seem mainly unified on similar opinions positive to neutral. I wonder if more of the common anti-hookup, pro-relationship people will come in here to shake things up

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

aren't you 32?

Lol I wish.