What attracts crazy?

[BeExcellent]

Emotionally unavailable.

This is why narcissists often attract BPDs for example. The narcissist is an emotionally unavailable shapeshifter. This is comfort zone for crazy women.

 

[MountainSlide]

yeah this is an interesting concept @ohrein.
The fact that the betas end up with higher quality girls. And the psycho girls stay away from them.

No no no. The alphas make the crazy’s act even more crazy because they trigger all the anxiety, insecurity, and fears in the crazy. So it can turn into a serious drama as the crazy tries to take the power and beta-ize the alpha. If he gets thrown off his frame then the crazy will be ready to move on. If he isn’t off his frame he’ll dump the b*tch. With a beta the crazy can do whatever she wants (without having to fear abandonment) so she can use him to meet some of her needs while also having needs met from other men. So the long term relationship for a crazy will be with the beta. And the quick super nutjob relationships would be with the alpha.

 

[ohrein]

I'm #1 and still get broken women overwhelmingly, however I think I've been looking in the wrong places

Screen harder. That said, good women are hard to find and they're all a little crazy, psychologically speaking. They're a few deviations higher in neuroticism (emotional stability) than men on the big five personality test.

 

[Spaz]

weak frames attract crazies.

This. Is. The. Only. Reason. The end.

 

[wolf]

Low self esteem. Like throwing chum into Shark infested waters and ringing the dinner bell.

 

[Ronin47]

No no no. The alphas make the crazy’s act even more crazy because they trigger all the anxiety, insecurity, and fears in the crazy. So it can turn into a serious drama as the crazy tries to take the power and beta-ize the alpha. If he gets thrown off his frame then the crazy will be ready to move on. If he isn’t off his frame he’ll dump the b*tch. With a beta the crazy can do whatever she wants (without having to fear abandonment) so she can use him to meet some of her needs while also having needs met from other men. So the long term relationship for a crazy will be with the beta. And the quick super nutjob relationships would be with the alpha.

This sounds about right imo.