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What attracts crazy?

MountainSlide

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yeah this is an interesting concept @ohrein.
The fact that the betas end up with higher quality girls. And the psycho girls stay away from them.
No no no. The alphas make the crazy’s act even more crazy because they trigger all the anxiety, insecurity, and fears in the crazy. So it can turn into a serious drama as the crazy tries to take the power and beta-ize the alpha. If he gets thrown off his frame then the crazy will be ready to move on. If he isn’t off his frame he’ll dump the b*tch. With a beta the crazy can do whatever she wants (without having to fear abandonment) so she can use him to meet some of her needs while also having needs met from other men. So the long term relationship for a crazy will be with the beta. And the quick super nutjob relationships would be with the alpha.
 

ohrein

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I'm #1 and still get broken women overwhelmingly, however I think I've been looking in the wrong places
Screen harder. That said, good women are hard to find and they're all a little crazy, psychologically speaking. They're a few deviations higher in neuroticism (emotional stability) than men on the big five personality test.
 

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Low self esteem. Like throwing chum into Shark infested waters and ringing the dinner bell.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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No no no. The alphas make the crazy’s act even more crazy because they trigger all the anxiety, insecurity, and fears in the crazy. So it can turn into a serious drama as the crazy tries to take the power and beta-ize the alpha. If he gets thrown off his frame then the crazy will be ready to move on. If he isn’t off his frame he’ll dump the b*tch. With a beta the crazy can do whatever she wants (without having to fear abandonment) so she can use him to meet some of her needs while also having needs met from other men. So the long term relationship for a crazy will be with the beta. And the quick super nutjob relationships would be with the alpha.
This sounds about right imo.
 
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