What are your dating Red Flags that no DJ should ignore

[runner83]

Physical
- Is fat
- Is too thin
- Has cellulite or leg veins
- Smokes or does drugs
- Has no fitness regime to keep herself looking her best
- Eats garbage a lot of time (i.e. fast food)

Family / Upbringing
- Has kids (1 or more)
- Had a troubled childhood
- Has a troubled relationship with her parents or family

Mental
- Has no proper education or career prospects
- Works in a job she isn't passionate about
- Spends a lot of time watching TV or on Face book
- Does not like reading

Future Prospects
- Insists on becoming exclusive too early
- Says " I love you" too early
- Wants you to pay for everything
- Does not respond to texts / calls within a reasonable time frame (despite carrying her phone 24/7)
- Talks about how her past boyfriends have cheated on her, or were players, or low quality guys
- Does not put out sex within 3 dates, or is sexually uptight

Needless to say, the above list is for relationship prospects only.

 

[soxfan52]

Physical
- Is fat
- Is too thin
- Has cellulite or leg veins
- Smokes or does drugs
- Has no fitness regime to keep herself looking her best
- Eats garbage a lot of time (i.e. fast food)

Family / Upbringing
- Has kids (1 or more)
- Had a troubled childhood
- Has a troubled relationship with her parents or family

Mental
- Has no proper education or career prospects
- Works in a job she isn't passionate about
- Spends a lot of time watching TV or on Face book
- Does not like reading

Future Prospects
- Insists on becoming exclusive too early
- Says " I love you" too early
- Wants you to pay for everything
- Does not respond to texts / calls within a reasonable time frame (despite carrying her phone 24/7)
- Talks about how her past boyfriends have cheated on her, or were players, or low quality guys
- Does not put out sex within 3 dates, or is sexually uptight

Needless to say, the above list is for relationship prospects only.

This is an excellent list, my recent ex gf fit 11 of these.

 

[blueline]

nice thread

- she disrespects any or both parents, constantly.
- does not have a career or does not like to work.
- doesn't like to pay for a date every now and then. (reciprocate)
- drinking problems, or likes to get drunk when she drinks.
- is overly friendly with strangers, or guys, and treats them as best
friends since the beginning.
- takes a loooong time to text back, call back, etc, or she always seem to
be doing something else when you are calling her to talk.

HUGE RED FLAG: she treats you one way when you two are alone, but when
you are in a social setting with HER friends or people she knows,
then she seems a bit indifferent and distant from you.

- lives with a guy friend, or a guy around her age (roommate)
- any type of lying, disrespect, and gut feeling that you can't trust her.

what the hell does this mean? not that it invalidates this as a red flag because it certainly is, but what does it mean? it happened to me a bunch of times with one girl and it made no fucking sense.

 

[RSanders219]

likes eating fast food
is out at the bar/club all the time
drinking/drug problems
no ambition or goals
self absorbed
plastered in makeup
no hobbies or passion
smoker (MJ is ok by me though)
lots of guy friends that will call you a creep for having interest in her
uneducated
schedules her life based around her favorite tv programs
can't stay off her cellphone
extremely religious
whines all the time
stays friends with their ex
has an std of some sort
is a cheater

 

[Fela Kuti]

-Ex's are bad boys(not DJs, I mean criminals or losers) and you are not.

Seems just like you
Seems normal despite a dysfunctional family
Says she's never been the one to be dumped
.

why? can someone elaborate?

 

[Mike32ct]

what the hell does this mean? not that it invalidates this as a red flag because it certainly is, but what does it mean? it happened to me a bunch of times with one girl and it made no fucking sense.

If she is warm to you in private but cold and distant to you around friends, etc., she is not proud to show you off. She doesn't think you are attractive enough or cool enough or rich/high status enough to impress her friends.

 

[cola]

I understand religious to the point it restricts her life .. But whats wrong with having faith in general? Just saying, I saw it on a few lists.

 

[cola]

She doesnt shave or trim pubes or has ugly toes.. Or bites fingernails.. Just a few superficial turn offs I have.

 

[oneboy21]

I understand religious to the point it restricts her life .. But whats wrong with having faith in general? Just saying, I saw it on a few lists.

Religion is ok!
But if she talks about god a lot and says go to the church a lot. Its a red flag.
When i see girls talk about religion and god on their facebook or any online dating profile, i next the immediately

 

[Atom Smasher]

Religion is going to vary from couple-to-couple. It's a personal preference and is a matter of interpersonal chemistry. The rule of thumb is that she and you must have a roughly equivalent outlook on spiritual matters for anything to work long-term. As a personal note, I believe that a well-rounded man should pay attention to his spirituality. If a women is deeply spiritual and you are not, cut bait and move on. You will only be hurting her and yourself if you try to undermine her spiritual beliefs for a night of fun. Women are vulnerable in that regard (not being disposed to live by conviction). I say respect her spirituality and move on. Not that anybody has suggested it in this particular thread... I'm just adding my thoughts on the subject as I have seen it come up in other threads.

 

[nismo-4]

Physical
- Is fat
- Is too thin
- Has cellulite or leg veins
- Smokes or does drugs
- Has no fitness regime to keep herself looking her best
- Eats garbage a lot of time (i.e. fast food)

Family / Upbringing
- Has kids (1 or more)
- Had a troubled childhood
- Has a troubled relationship with her parents or family

Mental
- Has no proper education or career prospects
- Works in a job she isn't passionate about
- Spends a lot of time watching TV or on Face book
- Does not like reading

Future Prospects
- Insists on becoming exclusive too early
- Says " I love you" too early
- Wants you to pay for everything
- Does not respond to texts / calls within a reasonable time frame (despite carrying her phone 24/7)
- Talks about how her past boyfriends have cheated on her, or were players, or low quality guys
- Does not put out sex within 3 dates, or is sexually uptight

Needless to say, the above list is for relationship prospects only.

1. She's high maintenance
2. She's a shopaholic yet has no job (golddigger)
3. She spends more time on facebook than with you
4. She has princess syndrome
5. She has kids
6. Is hung up on her exes
7. Dreams about being married to a celebrity
8. Always complains about you
9. Whines about trivial sh*t
10. Always wants to communicate by text, facebook, twitter, etc.
11. She cries about how a guy abuses her (emotional tampon)
12. She can't cook
13. She's lazy sexually and in general
14. She's a tease
16. She thinks her pu$$y is diamond encrusted (Take your rachet ass to Arkansas)
17. She's known to cheat
18. She can't keep a man
19. She hates men
20. She's a born again virgin

Take your pick.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

-Gets drunk WAY too much. Obviously a sign of depression or in need of psychiatric help. Drinking socially or in moderation is okay in my book.
-Goes to clubs every weekend. AW or slvtty. You pick.
-Does not know her father. (Or frequently talks down and shames him) Good sign that she may not have much respect for men in her life. Not always though.
-Mother has been re-married multiple times. Similar to not knowing her father. She learns from her mother that it's okay to divorce these men, possibly use them as another source of income through alimony.
-Unintelligent. Unintelligent women are usually shallow as fvck and wind up in the hairdressing or makeup field. They're just plain ANNOYING to be around.
-Has kids. I'm 22. This doesn't work for me, maybe when I'm in my mid 30's.. But this is a sign of irresponsibility to me, and a clear sign that I could be the next daddy.
-Watches reality TV a lot. (Jersey shore, Keeping Up with the Kardashians etc..) Good sign that she thinks she's entitled to be "little miss princess" all the time. Fvck that.
-Disrespectful toward family. Good sign that she does not value what she has.
-Texts or answers the phone on dates. Disrespectful. At least go to the ladies room to do that.
-Talks about other guys she's dating. Disrespectful again. Don't care little miss princess, dump me then.
-Has no hobbies or talents. Why would you let life pass you by without pursuing something you love.. Whether it be art, music, writing, sports, etc.. Usually a sign of unintelligence too.
-Cancels or reschedules dates without a good amount of time in advance. Little miss princess doesn't value your time.. So she doesn't value YOU. Put her in her place and move on.

 

[oneboy21]

-Gets drunk WAY too much.
-Goes to clubs every weekend. AW or slvtty. You pick.
-Unintelligent. Unintelligent women are usually shallow as fvck and wind up in the hairdressing or makeup field. They're just plain ANNOYING to be around.
-Watches reality TV a lot. (Jersey shore, Keeping Up with the Kardashians etc..)
-Has no hobbies or talents. Why would you let life pass you by without pursuing something you love.. Whether it be art, music, writing, sports, etc.. Usually a sign of unintelligence too.
-Cancels or reschedules dates without a good amount of time in advance.

These are also bug red flags, Particularly about the unintelligent women.
People may not agree, but when a chick says she is hair dresser or make up artist, i next them

 

[cola]

These are also bug red flags, Particularly about the unintelligent women.
People may not agree, but when a chick says she is hair dresser or make up artist, i next them

Why? A hairdresser with good clients who come to her often.. Can make thousands a week .. Same with the makeup artist. Its a good living.

 

[oneboy21]

I/We are talking about intelligence buddy! not money

 

[cola]

Intelligence is based on a job now? And their are different types of intellligence you can be a genius at math and science and socially ****ing retard..

 

[oneboy21]

Tell me how many intelligent people work as hairdressers and photographers, What kind of inventions/Discoveries they did?

An intelligent person can be socially awkward i agree.

 

[The_411]

A woman that tells you she's not a good person.
Prior cheating
Prior divorce - not always an indicator but not usually a good sign.
Prior Abortion-
Dates men who are 20 years older (Usually daddy issues)
One or both parents cheated

 

[Love's Orphan]

Every pic has 50 likes, 48 are guys. Yet, she says she isnt pretty. Poor guys, they are all blind and desperate. Poor lady... Such a low self esteem.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I think my original post didnt go up, kinda weird. But EMPHASIS on the religion part. Religion attracts a lot of loonies. Any religious fanaticism is not a good thing. I am very christian so I am not agianst ANY religion, but some of the worst people I have ever met were religious fanatics. It's almost like they feel they have a free ticket to do anything they want.