What Are Some Signs Of A Time Waster

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if you keep getting robbed then move to a different neighbourhood or buy a gun.

if women are robbing you then you’ve got much bigger issues. Like, where yo nutz gone?
You completely missed the analogy lol you want to blame me for all the dating problems and the problem isn’t the men. Quit selling out your own gender as a scapegoat and pandering to women. That’s simp behavior. “Oh that’s just women being women, they can’t help it, poor things. It’s their nature”. Please.
 

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“women are cvnts”

“They can die in a ditch”

You’re part of the problem dude. And no wonder women can’t stand you.
Women can’t stand me because they can’t control me.
 

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Do men lead? Or do women lead?

if you want to be led by women, and blame women for how they treat you, then you can’t call yourself a man. Not by my definition.

If you don’t like how women behave then it’s your job to set the standards, set the boundaries and stop letting women into your life before properly screening them.
I don’t see any woman leading my life for me. You can go live your life and someone else’s at the same time and call it leading, I choose not to be a babysitter. We eat each responsible for our own lives and what we want to do with them. You go change those standards and set boundaries all by yourself. Let us know how it goes. Meanwhile I’m gonna keep living my life how I went to, not how women want me to. You let them tell you how to act in order to attract them, to me that’s not leading anything.
 

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No they can’t stand you because you’re depressed, bitter and clouded. No woman with options likes this vibe.
The thing is, I don’t care what you or women think about me. I’m content with myself and my life. That’s how every man should be. You NEED women to feel complete, I learned a long time ago that I don’t.
 

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Women want to be led. If you’re not prepared to do that, and you think leading women is “babysitting”…..here’s yet another reason that women don’t like you.

You offer nothing
You are absolutely right! I have NOTHING to offer modern day women. I like it that way too. Makes me less of a target for them.
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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You let them tell you how to act in order to attract them, to me that’s not leading anything.
This is why they'll say ALL forms of sex are transactional. Because you get rewarded with sex for acting a certain way.

You want something from the other party....well they want something from you too lol. Why should they just hand you something just because you want it.

Should the cashier at your local supermarket just let you walk out of the store with a handful of items you picked up without giving them something they deem of equal value in return...just because you want what's in those bags?
 

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No they can’t stand you because you’re depressed, bitter and clouded. No woman with options likes this vibe.
You're saying that girls don't like the vibe of a guy who logs onto an online forum everyday and talks about how sh*tty they are?

Mind. blown.
 

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If a girl isn’t interested in you then there won’t be a third date period unless you are just outright taking her out on trips to Spain every time y’all meet. No one is telling you to splurge on a girl every for date lol.
You miss the point.If a girl wants to lead you on and waste your time there can be a 3rd,4th,5th,6th date...all of which comprise you spinning your wheels.A girl who rejects you actually isn’t wasting your time.
 

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You are absolutely right! I have NOTHING to offer modern day women. I like it that way too. Makes me less of a target for them.
Is it safe to say you got bullied out the dating game by women ?
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Uh huh.That’s why you’re here.
Nope, I’m here to share my experiences and help other guys avoid mistakes I made and what I learned from it. I would never tell someone to opt out of the dating game, but I will be straight up with them about what they’re going to face if they decide to stay in it.
 

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This is why they'll say ALL forms of sex are transactional. Because you get rewarded with sex for acting a certain way.

You want something from the other party....well they want something from you too lol. Why should they just hand you something just because you want it.

Should the cashier at your local supermarket just let you walk out of the store with a handful of items you picked up without giving them something they deem of equal value in return...just because you want what's in those bags?
You’ve got so many men (on here too) working out simply to impress women. If women didn’t go for it gyms would fold tomorrow. You hear guys telling other guys to “dress better”. What if I enjoy wearing a favorite t-shirt that has holes in it when I’m running errands or something? My point is men are changing their character to appease women because women say acting certain ways will attract them.
 

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That is black and white-thinking autism on full display here fellas.

It’s either

“Deal with women and always get fvcked over”

or

“Have nothing to do with women ever again."
Autism? The fvck? Why are you trying to be some internet psychologist and label people as depressed or autistic? You seem super insecure to be honest. I’m sure women smell that on you because it radiates off of you.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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What if I enjoy wearing a favorite t-shirt that has holes in it when I’m running errands or something?
Lol I actually do have a shirt that I'll wear out, that has holes in the armpits area. Ive kept it all these years because I love how the shirt fits me and the specific store I'm talking about doesn't make shirt like it anymore.
 

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Lol I actually do have a shirt that I'll wear out, that has holes in the armpits area. Ive kept it all these years because I love how the shirt fits me and the specific store I'm talking about doesn't make shirt like it anymore.
Same. I ain’t trying to impress nobody.
 

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the purpose of that reply was so that other guys here know what autism looks like. You are unable to see multiple perspectives. That is one of the definitions of autism. Tunnel vision. You’re unable to see how your own attitudes and behaviours are a giant turn off to women. This is autist behaviour.
Lol Wait, so ONE characteristic makes someone automatically autistic? You realize black and white thinking is common in things such as adhd, borderline personality disorder, narcissism, and others? Does that mean I have all those too?lol If your physiological diagnoses are as bad as your dating advice then dudes better start clear of you.
 

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People who aren’t trying to impress people don’t constantly talk about how they aren’t trying to impress anyone.

You’re coping.

And Velasco, the biggest fraud on here, is trying to make friends with you.

You know how I told you about inviting the wrong women into your life without screening them? As an example - Velasco is a woman trying to seduce you for purposes other than because she’s attracted to you.
Didn’t even know Velesco was a woman and you know what? I didn’t care either. I’ve seen you two swing your purses at each other before and have slap fights on here so don’t drag me into your drama with her. You must not know how to “lead” her.
 

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Lol Wait, so ONE characteristic makes someone automatically autistic? You realize black and white thinking is common in things such as adhd, borderline personality disorder, narcissism, and others? Does that mean I have all those too?lol If your physiological diagnoses are as bad as your dating advice then dudes better start clear of you.
i don't know either one of you, but i'm guessing Pan is your superior in the sexual market value game.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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