What Are Some Signs Of A Time Waster

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Sex within 2 dates then yall go and complain about women being hypergamy thots and cheating on you lol

 

[Smok1nAce]

Sex within 2 dates then yall go and complain about women being hypergamy thots and cheating on you lol

Exactly, 2 months is way more reasonable then 2 dates.

Y'all really have to learn what type of chicks are out their. I know nowadays its hard to spot the ho3s from the good girls but it's really not that difficult if you know what to look for, and if you been around enough. Normally you can tell a ho3 from the first mins of meeting them. (Once a h03 always a ho3, they may have stopped sleeping around for years but will always have ho3 tendencies.)

If she still given you sh1t test by the end of the first date, and you have been genuinely nice to her, she a Ho3 bro.

 

[nismo-4]

Blocking is a butthurt b!tch move. Dont block, just delete.

How is blocking butthurt?

You like entertaining a time waster? You'll either be doing beta tasks for her or be invisible. Either way, you won't get laid. Why would you hold her number? As hope for that 1/256 chance she calls you back so you can blow her back out?

Make it make sense.

 

[allergictobs]

OR she may eventually have sex but expect the shyt tests to continue.

In any event, this is how some women think, even though she may be very highly attracted to you.

If a woman is very highly attracted to you, she is ready to have sex almost immediately. There is a sense of urgency: the woman fears she may lose the guy. This is from personal experience and also true based on stories by other men.

Now, this doesn't mean a woman is willing to have sex the first time you meet her, no. But say you know a girl at work who's been showing signs of attraction for a while, but there has been no dating and no asking anyone out yet. If you asked this girl to come to your place tonight, her reply would be "Ok, what time do you want me to come?". That is, if she is highly attracted to you.

Any tests or games played just means that there is another guy she's more interested in.

 

[Grounded eagle]

I really don’t get how a girl will be wasting your time after the third date? If a girl doesn’t like you then it’s going to be really difficult to get her out, let alone put her in a one on one setting.

You’ve clearly never been led on by a girl.

Sex within 2 dates then yall go and complain about women being hypergamy thots and cheating on you lol

If sex is happening,then you’re not wasting your time,as opposed to wasting time,effort and money planning dates to get side hugs and kisses on the cheek at the end of the night.

 

[allergictobs]

My "readiness" to have sex does not come from a place of fear (of losing him) it comes from desire.

Pure unadulterated sexual desire.

I don't think anyone's readiness to have sex comes from a place of fear (nor did I claim that). It just so happens that women experience more desire with urgency over potentially losing a guy. Same is probably true for guys. If there is a great opportunity and a fear that it won't exist for long, our desire for it becomes even greater. This is very basic human behavior.

 

[Robert28]

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Sex within 2 dates then yall go and complain about women being hypergamy thots and cheating on you lol

The problem is if you don’t sleep with her asap she will think you’re a prude, scared to make a move, don’t like her, and will drop you or Friendzone you because she will hamster some stupid reason in her head. Taking the time to get to know a woman this day and age is a fools errand. They made these rules of society and how they want men to act, we don’t want to be this way. I’d LOVE to meet a girl and take it slow and get to know the real her and have it go somewhere long term. Ain’t possible these days. It’s shoot first and ask questions later.

 

[allergictobs]

In all seriousness @allergictobs and 100% truth for ME, if/when I chose to have sex early on before relationship, before exclusivity, which I've done before and actually had it turn into a LTR, I had very little expectation of it "going anywhere" there was no fear, I was totally detached from the outcome.

That said, I realize I'm an anomaly in that regard and that women, generally speaking, and many men, act from FEAR.

That fear is what drives them. So in that respect I do agree with you.

I'm not sure what you are aiming at here, but just to clarify to other users, I do not agree with what you wrote here or with most of what you wrote above in this thread.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

OR she may eventually have sex but expect the shyt tests to continue.

Which in many cases is what delaying sex IS for women - a shyt test - to see if you will stick around.

In *some* women's minds, if you stick around, you're into her and want a relationship, if you don't, you only wanted sex.

Which let's face it, IS what many of you guys want, sex, and only sex.

Not a judgment, just an observation from what I've read, heard and experienced.

In any event, this is how some women think, even though she may be very highly attracted to you.

Is she wasting your time? Depends on what you want, but reading many of these responses, yeah probably.

No way, check out Cat's Meow with the good post. Props and bravo lol.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I agree that when a woman is highly attracted, physically and sexually, her desire to have sex is almost immediate.

The bolded? Not my experience as a woman. My "readiness" to have sex does not come from a place of fear (of losing him) it comes from desire.

Pure unadulterated sexual desire.

That said, far be it for me to refute your and other guys' experiences, it's just not true for me personally and don't believe it's true for all women either.

Women are not all painted with the same brush. Nor are men for that matter.

Some women? Of course in fact I know a few women like this, who lead with sex, out of fear of losing him OR out of desire to capture him.

Not my style however.

It sucks when a woman leads with hinting at sex with every intention of taking the slow road and making the guy wait. I subtly keep up the pressure to suss them out if they're doing this.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Pure unadulterated sexual desire.

How many dates does it take to figure this out with a guy?

 

[DonJuanjr]

Not for lack of attraction and desire but because of social pressures and not wanting to be viewed by the guy as easy or dare I say, a sl*t?

So if the guy communicated in a way that shows he's non judgemental with your sexuality, you'd be more open to having sex with him quickly?

 

[Robert28]

In my experience, when a girl is highly attracted I have the opposite problem. She's reaching out too much.

When a woman is highly attracted it is very obvious. Women don't have any Game once the attraction switches fully hits the green. They become addicted to you.

Not true at all!!! I’ve been lead on by SO many women who would text all the time but they were just looking for attention or use me as a guy to be desired by in between exes. Then texting you often means NOTHING

 

[Robert28]

This IS true in some cases, in fact one thing many men don't realize is that a girl can text ALL the time, she feels no shame about texting because she's NOT that into you and has nothing to lose.

Like you said, she seeks attention and building her orbiter rotation.

Many men don't realize that and interpret as high attraction when it's actually the opposite!

On the other hand when a girl is highly sexually attracted, there is a certain tension, anxiety and discomfort and she does NOT feel as free to text as often as the girl seeking orbiters and attention.

I'm speaking in the general, there are always exceptions. Like what Pan87 experiences but tbh his experiences are not the norm for most men from what they share with me.

I’ve learned my lesson a long time ago about women and how they text. Means NOTHING. Hell they can even hangout with you and it still means NOTHING. In fact, the girls that have genuinely been interested in me didn’t hardly text me if you want to know the truth. It’s a huge red flag when a woman text me first all the time or throughout the day now. Huge red flag! Too many manipulative narcissistic user women have ruined me but I’m better for it.

 

[DonJuanjr]

On the other hand when a girl is highly sexually attracted, there is a certain tension, anxiety and discomfort and she does NOT feel as free to text as often as the girl seeking orbiters and attention.

In fact, the girls that have genuinely been interested in me didn’t hardly text me if you want to know the truth.

It's nice to see female opinion being validated by some guys. As opposed to endless brags from old hags.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Hi bros.


Whats your policy on interacting with 'potential' girls before you consider them time wasters?

Compliance. Comply or bye.

 

[Velasco]

I differentiate true timewasters (chicks who responds to your texts with some enthusiasm but will just never meet up with you no matter what you do) from high SMV non-DTF girls (chicks that are attracted to you but play hard to get).

Low SMV girls or high SMV DTF girls (the specific night you met them), make it easy for you.

With high SMV non-DTF girls, your walking a tight line where what you do or say can actually fvck you over. And from them on behave the same as true timewasters or just stop responding to you at all, post-fvck up.

With true timewasters however, you can be as smooth as you want, it will have no effect on the outcome.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

You’ve clearly never been led on by a girl.

If sex is happening,then you’re not wasting your time,as opposed to wasting time,effort and money planning dates to get side hugs and kisses on the cheek at the end of the night.

If a girl isn’t interested in you then there won’t be a third date period unless you are just outright taking her out on trips to Spain every time y’all meet. No one is telling you to splurge on a girl every for date lol.

 

[Striker_93]

Did I say “text you all the time” ? Gtfo. Reaching out means she wants to meet. Seeks to be near you.

you guys are hopeless. If you can’t read basic female attraction signals then it’s not my problem.

yes, girls seek attention. Yes, girls love bomb. If this is happening to you then you’re inviting the wrong women into your life and/or coming across as a chump. Blaming women for leading you on is so unbelievably pathetic, man. You’re part of the Simp Economy if you’re going to blame women for allowing yourself to be tricked by them.

Im Tired of these grown men crying about the behavior of these big bad women lol

 

[Robert28]

Did I say “text you all the time” ? Gtfo. Reaching out means she wants to meet. Seeks to be near you.

you guys are hopeless. If you can’t read basic female attraction signals then it’s not my problem.

yes, girls seek attention. Yes, girls love bomb. If this is happening to you then you’re inviting the wrong women into your life and/or coming across as a chump. Blaming women for leading you on is so unbelievably pathetic, man. You’re part of the Simp Economy if you’re going to blame women for allowing yourself to be tricked by them.

That’s like someone being robbed and blaming themselves instead of the robbers.lol