Ok, I've been here for quite sometime and I've had my ups and downs, and know for the most part what I'm doing. But as of late I have been having the worst luck in my life. I'm a senior in high school and starting from last summer up to this point I have had no success getting a date.
I have no problem talking to girls and getting their numbers, and then setting up dates. I've asked many girls out this year and most of them have given me their number and said yes. Well then after the date is all set up I get ready to go get them and go out, and it just falls apart. They have some excuse why they can't go or something comes up before hand and they can't go anymore. It's kind of rediculous because i can see this happening once in a while, but it happens EVERYTIME it seems.
I have gone on a couple dates since school started, one being homecoming which i felt went great, but eventually found out that the girl I went with had some kind of problem with me afterwards and I didn't pursue that, even though she's still really friendly everytime I see her at school. There is also this other girl, but that's completely different story and I'm working that deal out. There's a lot more involved there and I don't really want to go into it because I know what will be told to me already, so I won't go into it.
What I'm trying to ask is what am I doing wrong? Is there something that I'm doing that scare these girls away, or is it just a string out bad luck? Any good advice will be well appreciated. Thanks and I welcome your comments.
Bjon
I have no problem talking to girls and getting their numbers, and then setting up dates. I've asked many girls out this year and most of them have given me their number and said yes. Well then after the date is all set up I get ready to go get them and go out, and it just falls apart. They have some excuse why they can't go or something comes up before hand and they can't go anymore. It's kind of rediculous because i can see this happening once in a while, but it happens EVERYTIME it seems.
I have gone on a couple dates since school started, one being homecoming which i felt went great, but eventually found out that the girl I went with had some kind of problem with me afterwards and I didn't pursue that, even though she's still really friendly everytime I see her at school. There is also this other girl, but that's completely different story and I'm working that deal out. There's a lot more involved there and I don't really want to go into it because I know what will be told to me already, so I won't go into it.
What I'm trying to ask is what am I doing wrong? Is there something that I'm doing that scare these girls away, or is it just a string out bad luck? Any good advice will be well appreciated. Thanks and I welcome your comments.
Bjon