Jitterbug said:
Yeah you gotta have really thick skin in this game.
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And on a different night, a HB9 - to use a PUA term - would come out of the blue to flirt with him and offer herself on a plate. The lucky sob.
Some nights I go out, even fatties would turn their noses at me, and other nights, some cutie would buy me drinks and fight with their friends over who gets to have me.
Part of the fun, my friend.
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now you are giving rock-solid advice, as a guy who goes out and actually do things.
I respect the "experimentalist" or the "field-guy" much more than people who sit at home and just type. No question about it, more power to the doer.
I am simply taking issue with unfounded claims on how women have changed, or how the game has taken a turn for the worse, how the old timers had it easier, and so forth...
In every era, there are guys like this who think times have changed for the worse. I don't doubt that people's perceptions have been evolving, of course, what is really not evolving?
Anything in the past has been changing, but that follows by definition, that's a truism.
But honestly, we don't need to explain the reasons behind flaking. It could be anything, and you really need a large data set (something like 200 sounds a good start like Zarky said) to make generalizations.
And what I see from guys like Zarky is, the more they date, the less general and authoritative they speak.
He offers statistically valid techniques and concepts, like "stay away from people who are paid to be nice to you" or " zone-defence, or fishing the ocean" is better than chasing a specific girl etc..
As long as there's a good amount of common sense, I have no reason to doubt anyone's views or be a jerk around here.
Merci beaucoup gentlemen.
But some of the girls still think it might happen even though I have a day job, so they sniff around once in a while.
