well they finally told me the truth

[I'm Joe Dirt]

You shouldve said "I hurt you? Good. Stop acting like you're the only party involved here. I have feelings too you know!" stand up for yourself man. Don't let her make it all about her and her happiness, rephrase the argument so that its about you and what YOU want.

 

[Jaun_Don]

I Just got a text message from her...

"its ok, im real sorry about all of this, pls no this was suprising 4 all of us, I really care 4 u as a frnd and im worried about u a lot i neva meant to jeapordise urs and s's frndshp"

 

[Labayu]

:kick:

 

[BlackJackal]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
I Just got a text message from her...

"its ok, im real sorry about all of this, pls no this was suprising 4 all of us, I really care 4 u as a frnd and im worried about u a lot i neva meant to jeapordise urs and s's frndshp"

What ever. Like you said you 2 were never friends. Make peace with your friend and find some chicks to bang, and it'll be like that girl never existed.

 

[Create Reality]

Man, you need to get over it. What's done with her is done and that's it, a bona-fide NEXT. Your membership to the Don Juan center for learning the Secrets of Attracting Women, entitles you to give the ***** a heeve-ho out your life. Do you still gotta live with the two? Just say, "Fvck it! I'll share this flat but during the day I'm out meeting new people and making new friends, pickin' up hot babes 'cause they are EVERYWHERE!" Trust me, any emotional bonds you had for this girl will be gone after a week of meeting new people and going new places.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

shacking up with a woman is never a good idea. The only woman you should be living with should be your future wife! living with your girlfriend is always trouble.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Create Reality
Man, you need to get over it. What's done with her is done and that's it, a bona-fide NEXT. Your membership to the Don Juan center for learning the Secrets of Attracting Women, entitles you to give the ***** a heeve-ho out your life. Do you still gotta live with the two? Just say, "Fvck it! I'll share this flat but during the day I'm out meeting new people and making new friends, pickin' up hot babes 'cause they are EVERYWHERE!" Trust me, any emotional bonds you had for this girl will be gone after a week of meeting new people and going new places.

hey thank you man I really appreciated those comments...yeah I have to live with them for another 3 weeks and I want to be as scarce as possible but it's my place and I need to find new room mates by the end of this month.

She still hasn't told if she is moving out or not... I'm dealing with it.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by DJDamage

- you fell for her crocodile tears. Everytime a woman cries she plays a victim and the man ends up forgiving her. The oldest trick in the book.

I couldn't agree more.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
I couldn't agree more.

I actually said that to her, I am not fallling for your crocodile tears...but it did seem that she was seriously upset so that's why I hugged her and held her.

 

[Vandermast]

What a way to find out the way you did. Maybe this was why they were keeping it from you. I'm sure a lot of ppl on these boards know what it's like to have an infatuation crushed by reality. And it isn't your fault or anything like that. I do believe she cried honestly b/c of not wanting a mess like that & especially to hurt your feelings in the way you acted. Deep inside, you already know whether you felt betrayed or just jealose. And the reality also is...

1) She was never your girlfriend
2) She was never your exgirlfriend
3) She was just your friend.

So it's all good b/c *I* think it could have been worse had she been your girlfriend. In other words, she didn't cheat on you in anyway so there's not much to get mad at, ya know? All in all, please don't generalize this about friends or women. Cheers!

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Vandermast
What a way to find out the way you did. Maybe this was why they were keeping it from you. I'm sure a lot of ppl on these boards know what it's like to have an infatuation crushed by reality. And it isn't your fault or anything like that. I do believe she cried honestly b/c of not wanting a mess like that & especially to hurt your feelings in the way you acted. Deep inside, you already know whether you felt betrayed or just jealose. And the reality also is...

1) She was never your girlfriend
2) She was never your exgirlfriend
3) She was just your friend.

So it's all good b/c *I* think it could have been worse had she been your girlfriend. In other words, she didn't cheat on you in anyway so there's not much to get mad at, ya know? All in all, please don't generalize this about friends or women. Cheers!

Not much to get mad at?...my best friend of 9 years just ruined a good friendship and lied to me about it and she just did it to get at me, because even though she doesn't want me (sic), she seemed to be jealous of the other girls i have been hanging out/dating with.

It's all in the way she looks at me and ****...and she enjoys the drama, she thrives on it.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by DJDamage
Listen to LIT on this one.

I don't keep girl friends anymore. They make lousy friends

Whole heartedly agree from tried, tested, and true experience.

 

[Vandermast]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
Not much to get mad at?...my best friend of 9 years just ruined a good friendship and lied to me about it and she just did it to get at me, because even though she doesn't want me (sic), she seemed to be jealous of the other girls i have been hanging out/dating with.

It's all in the way she looks at me and ****...and she enjoys the drama, she thrives on it.

In that case, Well Done!

 

[Juan_Man]

I'm sorry, man. I think most of us here have been hurt by girl, even when she was never ours to begin with. It's called rejection. Every one has experienced it, including your guy friend. Move on, my friend. That chapter is finished. Turn the page.

 

[BlackJackal]

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Whole heartedly agree from tried, tested, and true experience.

I second that agreement.

 

[S.S.N. 318]

Re: Re: well they finally told me the truth

Originally posted by BlackJackal
I say make a truce with your friend and then disregard the ***** completely.

real talk cuzz....

 

[Jaun_Don]

Here is the lastest, this **** is trying to get me thrown out of my own home cos he is *****whipped already and is trying to act like the Big Man,Protector which is really pathetic...he told me that she crys most nights and is worried about me, I haven't been home in 5 days as it makes me sick...but he really is showing his true colours with trying to get kicked me out of my own place of 2 years...

 

[Lost In Translation]

Jaun_Don
Here is the lastest, this **** is trying to get me thrown out of my own home cos he is *****whipped already and is trying to act like the Big Man,Protector which is really pathetic...he told me that she crys most nights and is worried about me, I haven't been home in 5 days as it makes me sick...but he really is showing his true colours with trying to get kicked me out of my own place of 2 years...

so what is your plan ?

staying away from your own house is a BAD IDEA

what if they change the locks on you ?

squatters have alot of rights these days

while they are squatting they SELL all your belongings

go home and kick them out

no dialogue. no compromise. they will continue plotting to evict you from your own house even after the three of you sit down and talk it over.

your friend has shown his hand


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by Lost In Translation
Jaun_Don
Here is the lastest, this **** is trying to get me thrown out of my own home cos he is *****whipped already and is trying to act like the Big Man,Protector which is really pathetic...he told me that she crys most nights and is worried about me, I haven't been home in 5 days as it makes me sick...but he really is showing his true colours with trying to get kicked me out of my own place of 2 years...

so what is your plan ?

staying away from your own house is a BAD IDEA

what if they change the locks on you ?

squatters have alot of rights these days

while they are squatting they SELL all your belongings

go home and kick them out

no dialogue. no compromise. they will continue plotting to evict you from your own house even after the three of you sit down and talk it over.

your friend has shown his hand


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

remind me again how is this **** a friend?...

He leaves in 2 weeks to go and live in another city and I can't live with her and she knows this...

I don't see how I am going to get kicked out over this situation if anything the landlord will see it as petty.

 

[ikkenai]

Why can't there be a forum for DJ's talking to other DJ's about techniques and whatnot, instead of constant AFC idiocy? Every post I read her is about some guy flipping out, wanting to bang some unwed mother of 4, some newbie posting a crappy "new" approach or philosphy despite being 18 and unlaid as a pile of bricks, guys wondering what kind of gifts to give a chick... dear god, I'm sick of it!