Thanks for all of your advice on this...I'm over it all now and I couldn't care less about her, she just doesn't worry or concern me anymore, i sent an e-mail to my friend telling him that really man Life is too short for all of this bull****, no one likes to feel this way,no one wants bitterness or grudges between friends we are Adults and we just need to move on.
He said he agreed and that this can be worked out, of course it can she wasn't mine to begin with he is welcome to her, she maybe all sweetness and light now but you know what i'm saying...
Still, yeah I don't even know why I cared so much, there are HUNDREDS OF FINE FEMALES OUT THERE.
I have learnt a lot from all of this and ultimately I have a lot of confidence back and know how to watch out for Attention *****s.
I still have a feeling that she did this out of jealousy but that's her thing not mine.
peace