Weird situation with hb is confusing - whats going on?

[Divorced w 3]

I have a swipe girl that I really liked. We did the back and forth like you for months. I am full no contact. I am going to break her like a wild horse. Only way. Have to regain frame. May take a year or more. She updated her Instagram after I did to a much better photo. Coincidentally perhaps but I was telling her obvious flaws in her game when I was in mode 3. I know that she knows I am the one that got away. Could be wrong but I don’t know. I have good spidey sense sometimes.

 

[EyeBRollin]

You’re too thirsty, OP. Experienced DJ you are not. There are some rookie mistakes in here.

You asked for another date after only two days? My friend this is no bueno. You are not a challenge. You must wait five days minimum. Let her miss you. At this point you are just another boring, horny guy on his way to being rejected.

 

[Dr.Suave]

@TheGambino I swear I thought this post was gonna be something like "Remember the girl that kicked me out of her place because I parked my car? I saw her at the bar and she xyz. What could this mean?" Im glad I was wrong.

Anyway. My bet is low interest. Im with @Glassguy on this, go ghost for a week.

 

[TheGambino]

@TheGambino I swear I thought this post was gonna be something like "Remember the girl that kicked me out of her place because I parked my car? I saw her at the bar and she xyz. What could this mean?" Im glad I was wrong.

Anyway. My bet is low interest. Im with @Glassguy on this, go ghost for a week.

Hahaha no fvck her man. My ex is for the streets. I’m looking for quality now.

I think it’s indeed not enough interest otherwise she would love to hear from me and go along for date 2.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

If she is 25 and hot, she has options. Many, many, many options. Simply put, she hasn't made up her mind about you. Obviously displayed some interest but not enough for her to put you on top of her long, long, long list.

Pull back and wait for her to pursue. The truth is, she might not. These types of girls will only pursue guys that completely wow them. Unfortunately, you might not be it. Or at least not yet. This is why it is important to pull back and allow her to pursue and invest in you as well.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Im trying to figure out what part of MODE ONE you muhfukaz don't understand.

Mode One would have alleviated 95% of the entire OP.

All of that time wasting lol.

But whatever man, pay me no mind.

If yall want to continue wasting time, spending money, and dealing with wishy washy flaky behavior..have at it.

I'll go MODE EIGHTY FIVE AND A HALF.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Dude not every model works like a robot on every single girl.

Nonsense.

If you see an attractive woman and you would like to know if she will have sex with you, by going Mode One the answer will be provided to you.

Plain and simple.

So it does work on every single girl.

In fact, it works so damn good that even if she says no, it STILL worked...because now you know, and you do not have to waste time and/or money on her to find out, either.

There is one thing I have learned the last 10 years is this.
All good methods are useful but they are part of an overall tool box of wayz to navigate this.

The one thing I learned the past year is this; tell a woman what is on your mind, get closure, and LIVE with the results.

Your obsession with one method leaves a lot on the table. SNL are not a high percent of girls.period.

My "obsession" is to not get flaked on or get my time wasted by any woman.

And I have a pretty damn good track record of just that.

If you guys spent more time leveling up your mentality and evolving out of your beta frames, then maybe there wouldn't be so many damn threads like this one with guys asking for advice on how/why do they keep getting flaked on all time.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Dude not every model works like a robot on every single girl.
There is one thing I have learned the last 10 years is this.
All good methods are useful but they are part of an overall tool box of wayz to navigate this.
Your obsession with one method leaves a lot on the table. SNL are not a high percent of girls.period.

It is pretty hilarious someone finds something from many years ago because a dude died and then comes and relentlessly parrots it here and gets a bunch of his friends to do the same.

Making up a special name for something that is common sense isn't really new.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

It is pretty hilarious someone finds something from many years ago because a dude died and then comes and relentlessly parrots it here and gets a bunch of his friends to do the same.

Nonsense.

I already had in mind to create a Mode One thread when I first registered to the forum..which was obviously before ARC passed away.

But since I spent so much time defending the concept of COLD APPROACHING, my Mode One threads were delayed and with ARC's sudden death it was obviously posted after his death.

Making up a special name for something that is common sense isn't really new.

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[member160292]

It’s an option to put some posters on ignore and pretty obvious those that come here to stroke their ego

 

[Murk]

On social media she has a name she said to me also. But her real name is slightly different, I saw on linkedin. She probably want to stay private.

Bro why do you even care? Why are you stalking her LinkedIn and complaining her real name is different from social media (like so many people do)? I think IRL you come across as intense, needy, and overbearing. This is what I deduce only from your posting style and the numerous stories you've told me/us here including your need to be "alpha".

You need to relax and dial everything back a few notches, less intensity, less emotion, less actions/words/texts, chill the **** out.

Don't try kissing girls in front of crowds after you've just met - if you're looking for quality girls now like you say, they are not gonna be kissing strangers in public like that. Your behaviour worked on trashy women, barely, even they said you were coming on too strong, but you need to adjust now to high-quality females. I think you're brutish and rough round the edges, and not in a good way.

 

[RobbyDog]

Next day I ask her out on text for a date.

Then she waits 2.5 days and replies.
Yes sure, I can do tommorow or thursday!

Dude. If it takes her 2.5 days to reply, your date offer is off the table. In this case when she says tomorrow or Thursday, you say you’ve already made plans and then leave it at that. Go silent until until she shows signs of interest.

I used to do what you did and in hindsight it’s pathetic…she’s playing you like a fiddle and you’re going along with it. This is causing her to lose respect for you…you’re too easy for her.

 

[TheGambino]

@Murk @RobbyDog I am a gentleman. I don’t come off brutish bro. I gave her my focus and attention during the date but not domineering. She even said “you look so innocent”. Then when she gave me the cheek in the car she said “wow I felt something really came out of you there when u kiss me”.

So Its not Brutish believe me.

Maybe she has a guy she’s fvcking and she is kind off monkey branching or opening new options and I came off too strong after the date by texting let’s meet again without giving her the chance to feel the fear of losing me or anticipation to build. She also said “I’m not shy I just take it slow” when I kissed her. She also knows that next time we meet I’m going to be pchysical. And she’s not ready I guess.

I didn’t hear from her from Sundaymorning so that’s 2.5 days again. I have to move on.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Translation "you look like the typical nice guy, who will take all the $hit I throw on him, will be overbearing, needy, who I will turn the cheek when you try to kiss me and still will be pursuing me as one of the several orbiters I have"

How didn't you catch that?

The "I'm not shy I just take it slow" is another.

Either there's a lack of interest in him, or a lack of interest in sex with men (due to too much cawk in her past and her being a Catholic). Only with truly shy girls is the "I take it slow" a legit excuse.