TheGambino
Master Don Juan
I need some help on where I stand, and how you guys would proceed.
Met a girl a week ago in a bar, shes HOT. Cold approached, had a enthusiastic small talk for 5 minutes. She was enthusiastic and showed interest in me. I number closed. I saw her outside again, we locked eyes and I thought she was ready for kissing. Tried to kiss her and she gave me her cheek. We were standing in the open in front of 30/40 people and she said ''not here in public!!''.
I laughed it off very smooth and bailed. Next evening she texts me first ( she got my number cuz I called her when I number closed her ).
We have some small talk on text, short and brief. She asks me what im up to but I was out with friends so I couldnt ask her to do something.
Next day I ask her out on text for a date.
Then she waits 2.5 days and replies.
Yes sure, I can do tommorow or thursday!
I go for thursday. On the date night I send a text to confirm 2 hours earlier and she says shes going to be 30 mins late which I reply. ok sure.
We go on the date. I let her do 70-80% of talking. We go for drinks, it's fun imo. She is a high value female. Good woman, takes good care of herself, educated, good job, carreer woman. I take care of myself so thats all good. During the date she compliments me, plays with her hair a lot, twirles her jewellry, laughs a lot, has full concentration and focus on me so it feels like shes very in to me. She says that her last relationship is over for 1.5 years and he tried to contact her once more but she declined.
We had fun, got to know eachother for about 1.5 hours and I end the date.
In her car when she was going to drop me off at my car I ask her back to my place but she says no not today, I have to get up early but we can do that next time for sure. During the date she also hints a couple of things we could do together in the future.
Now important things:
She stops in front of my car. I lean over for the kiss but she gives me the cheek again. I say no no, come here with a playfull smile and kiss her on her lips. She kisses back, we make out a bit and I kiss her goodbye. She says.. ''wow now I feel something coming out of you lol'' coz I was a bit agressive in a fun way when kissing her.
Then I say ''are u so shy about kissing?'' she said ''no.. no.. take it slow...''.
Í tell her to text me when she gets home and she does.
Her: I am home.
Me: me too.
Her: great
I go silent for 2 days and text her.
me: Hey whatsup ?
me: your still going to that party you mentioned earlier?
5 hours later.
Her: hey no I fell asleep. Didn't want to leave anymore.
her: and you?
Me 10 hours later
me: hey I went out to a nice restaurant with friends yesterday. it was good.
me: so lets do something fun again together. When are you free to get together?
11 hours later and she still didnt reply. I saw her online status a couple of times but she didnt open my text. She saw the message but didnt reply yet.
Other very weird things I never had before.
On social media she has a name she said to me also. But her real name is slightly different, I saw on linkedin. She probably want to stay private.
Also I never seen a profile picture on whatsapp from the beginning. So either she has not have a profile picture or she never added me.
She has no social media. facebook slighly different name but only 1 picture nothing else, no instagram to be found. she is undercover.
Imo as a very experienced DJ.
1. She has had restraining orders with dudes who stalk her, or did stuff that she is afraid and she is really testing me to see that I am not needy and turn into such a psycho. Testing.
2. She has a bf or a guy she sees and she is looking to monkey branch with me.
3. She has low interest and I am good enough to date but no romance yet.
I wrote this because she is a mystery, different from other girls. Weird signals. tell me
Met a girl a week ago in a bar, shes HOT. Cold approached, had a enthusiastic small talk for 5 minutes. She was enthusiastic and showed interest in me. I number closed. I saw her outside again, we locked eyes and I thought she was ready for kissing. Tried to kiss her and she gave me her cheek. We were standing in the open in front of 30/40 people and she said ''not here in public!!''.
I laughed it off very smooth and bailed. Next evening she texts me first ( she got my number cuz I called her when I number closed her ).
We have some small talk on text, short and brief. She asks me what im up to but I was out with friends so I couldnt ask her to do something.
Next day I ask her out on text for a date.
Then she waits 2.5 days and replies.
Yes sure, I can do tommorow or thursday!
I go for thursday. On the date night I send a text to confirm 2 hours earlier and she says shes going to be 30 mins late which I reply. ok sure.
We go on the date. I let her do 70-80% of talking. We go for drinks, it's fun imo. She is a high value female. Good woman, takes good care of herself, educated, good job, carreer woman. I take care of myself so thats all good. During the date she compliments me, plays with her hair a lot, twirles her jewellry, laughs a lot, has full concentration and focus on me so it feels like shes very in to me. She says that her last relationship is over for 1.5 years and he tried to contact her once more but she declined.
We had fun, got to know eachother for about 1.5 hours and I end the date.
In her car when she was going to drop me off at my car I ask her back to my place but she says no not today, I have to get up early but we can do that next time for sure. During the date she also hints a couple of things we could do together in the future.
Now important things:
She stops in front of my car. I lean over for the kiss but she gives me the cheek again. I say no no, come here with a playfull smile and kiss her on her lips. She kisses back, we make out a bit and I kiss her goodbye. She says.. ''wow now I feel something coming out of you lol'' coz I was a bit agressive in a fun way when kissing her.
Then I say ''are u so shy about kissing?'' she said ''no.. no.. take it slow...''.
Í tell her to text me when she gets home and she does.
Her: I am home.
Me: me too.
Her: great
I go silent for 2 days and text her.
me: Hey whatsup ?
me: your still going to that party you mentioned earlier?
5 hours later.
Her: hey no I fell asleep. Didn't want to leave anymore.
her: and you?
Me 10 hours later
me: hey I went out to a nice restaurant with friends yesterday. it was good.
me: so lets do something fun again together. When are you free to get together?
11 hours later and she still didnt reply. I saw her online status a couple of times but she didnt open my text. She saw the message but didnt reply yet.
Other very weird things I never had before.
On social media she has a name she said to me also. But her real name is slightly different, I saw on linkedin. She probably want to stay private.
Also I never seen a profile picture on whatsapp from the beginning. So either she has not have a profile picture or she never added me.
She has no social media. facebook slighly different name but only 1 picture nothing else, no instagram to be found. she is undercover.
Imo as a very experienced DJ.
1. She has had restraining orders with dudes who stalk her, or did stuff that she is afraid and she is really testing me to see that I am not needy and turn into such a psycho. Testing.
2. She has a bf or a guy she sees and she is looking to monkey branch with me.
3. She has low interest and I am good enough to date but no romance yet.
I wrote this because she is a mystery, different from other girls. Weird signals. tell me
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