Weird night in Amsterdam with hooker

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I took my vacation time to see my fiance. On my way back I had an overnight layover in Amsterdam. I had never been there as an adult so I said "why not?". I went out on the town. I took pictures of the beautiful canals. I walked to the Red Light district. I got drunk with some Australians, talked to a bartender, hit on a few groups of girls and then ended up back at my hotel. Something told me to go out one more time. So at 3am I am in the 2nd Red Light district. I meet an older guy who is very interesting. His hobby seems to be prostitutes. He takes me under his wing as a sort of apprentice.

Over the next 2 hours this guy is taking me all over the city in his search for the perfect balance of price vs looks. I get tired and decide on this super pretty mixed Vietnamese/ Dutch chick. Most of the other girls were nasty looking. I approach the glass. She opens up the door and smiles. I tell her that I don't want to have sex as I am engaged. I offer her $50 Euro for a dance. She said yes whatever I want ( that should have been a warning sign).

We joke and laugh. She is easy to talk to. She tells me to lay down and then gives me a mediocre "dance". The whole time she is begging and pleading for me to take her to my hotel. She wants us to sex all night and I pay her 2000 euro ( she eventually lowered it to 1000 euro). She said that is her going rate and she knows I have money because I am from the USA. She said some Indian engineer from the states pays her 2K to smash. Many of her best clients are from the USA and pay that. I keep insisting that I dont want sex. She asks for another 50 euro to keep going. I oblige like an idiot. Her body is out of this world and her face is beautiful. She acts like a child and pouts when I refuse to pay more.

She begs and begs. I eventually leave but get her instagram before I leave. I spend 1.5 hrs lost in the city. My cell phone is dead and I have no idea where I am. I finally find my hotel but not before this guy who I suspect is a homosexual stops me on the street. We have a pleasant convo about politics. I go to my room. That night I oversleep. I rush to the airport but the train is 40 mins late. I miss my flight and have to pay $1400 to get another flight with an overnight stay in another European country. I really don't have that kind of money to blow. Regret is an understatement. This must be my karma for delving into the low vibration underworld of prostitution.
 
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Hard lessons right here....

You actually went back after laying in bed, and that's where you lost all sympathy (for the lack of a better word) and perhaps even innocence.

Should've just gave her 50 and smash, as that's the rate for smashing. Now you payed 1500 for an extended Lapdance..

Hookers have a mysterious way of ALWAYS getting a man in trouble..
 
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So you have more money than common sense. And got fleeced. Next time, just pay the going rate.
 

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I don't get it, did you smash in the end or not? Hopefully you used protection.
 

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Serves you well, a man who is engaged, visiting the RLD district in Amsterdam. Hopefully your fiancee is not one of those 'virgins' from rural China/Russia you wrote about. :rolleyes:
 

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For some reason, a song by Murray Head seems like a good soundtrack for this thread...
 

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Well...I've heard that after one night in Bangkok, the world's your oyster...

Amsterdam not so much it looks like...should have listened to good 'ol Murray Head and got your kicks in above the waistline... :lol:
 

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Serves you well, a man who is engaged, visiting the RLD district in Amsterdam. Hopefully your fiancee is not one of those 'virgins' from rural China/Russia you wrote about. :rolleyes:
I do believe that fecking = exchanging energy. A hooker will magnify the bad energy especially when a man is engaged/ married/ has a pregnant woman throwing up alone at home ect.

I mean, we are kinda hard on OP but he knows the drill..it's just painful how wrong things can go in the blink of an eye. He Was already ready for a night of sleep, but the temptation of Amsterdam was too loud...
 

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Serves you well, a man who is engaged, visiting the RLD district in Amsterdam. Hopefully your fiancee is not one of those 'virgins' from rural China/Russia you wrote about. :rolleyes:
Nothing wrong with a man visiting women of the night. I dont have sex with them. Every blue moon I visit a strip club to get dances and dances only. Show me the man who is strictly monogamous for his whole life and I will show you a liar. I take care of her and have made her a much better person. My bargain as a man is fulfilled.
 

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I do believe that fecking = exchanging energy. A hooker will magnify the bad energy especially when a man is engaged/ married/ has a pregnant woman throwing up alone at home ect.

I mean, we are kinda hard on OP but he knows the drill..it's just painful how wrong things can go in the blink of an eye. He Was already ready for a night of sleep, but the temptation of Amsterdam was too loud...
Hahaha exactly man. Sex is an exchange of energy. It is very difficult for me to actually penetrate a strange woman with strange energy these days. When I was younger I could do it with no problem. Now it just seems like a serious act.

I can also look at my fiance and tell her I have not had sex with any women ever since we have been together. I am a recovery womanizer and I have been doing well these past couple years. This incident reminds me to just stay on the path of high vibration actions lol.

My best friends actually told me to wake up from the bed and go out again. They said this is a once in a lifetime opportunity and I should stop being a puzzy. They said just go get a lap dance or something. Yeh look how that turned out lol.

The older man I was with was even more interesting. He was very intelligent and based. His family owns a business in town and apparently he has money. You can tell that he is a slave to the sex workers. He has been doing it since he was a teenager. He could write a book on the topic.

While we were walking he mentioned something haunting. He said " us men, we are too horny, that is our problem". It freaked me out because he is right and I did not want to end up like him.
 

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Yooo so I saw a women in a window who looked good with big boobs. The older dude told me hey be careful that is a man. I was shocked. That was a tranny?! Wow...ok. I think he was right too because this "woman" was very aggressive where as the other real women were passively trying to get business.

The older dude told me that you would be surprised with the amount of young dudes that have sex with trannies. Their friends laugh and joke with them but they dont think it's a big deal.

I saw this youngish white dude who looks like an upper middle class guy negotiating hard with this obese black chick in the doorway. He really wanted that. I thought that was kinda funny and awesome at the same time. I would never expect that.

Another thing is that if the women liked you they would except any price you offer in order to get you in the door ( they would then proceed to upsale you like crazy). If you looked like a creep they gave you a fixed price. Or if they knew you looked naive they will say whatever price you wanted. If you looked like a vet they gave a fixed price with no smile.

I asked my hooker if she liked having sex with hot guys better. She said she does not really go on looks. She goes on smell and hygiene. She said she has sex with handsome guys who smell and its a big turn off. I found that interesting.

Shorty was 32 and she looks great. She had been doing it since 22. We sat there and talked and she told me she loved movies about love. She also wants a rich man to wife her up and save her from this business. I asked her why she is single looking so good. I told her she must be insane in the head. She agreed. She said that she is too bossy and hard to get a long with. That is a common thread with woman who are forever single.
 

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Well...I've heard that after one night in Bangkok, the world's your oyster...

Amsterdam not so much it looks like...should have listened to good 'ol Murray Head and got your kicks in above the waistline... :lol:
You are saying that the hookers in Bangkok are much less scammy? Yes I agree. My buddy told me you dont have this problem in places like Colombia and Thailand etc. Yeh man I should have listened to my brain. My big brain wins 364 days out of the year but the one day my little brain won...it was a disaster. In my defense bro she looked real freaking good. Like dayum. Not $1400 good...but def amazing.
 

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Are you sure that the SEA chick was not a Thai ladyboy? :eek: :eek: :eek:
She grew up in the Netherlands. She was def not a lady boy lol. I scoped out her private area with my eyes. All woman. She was very sexy.
 

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So you have more money than common sense. And got fleeced. Next time, just pay the going rate.
Yes I am not assertive enough. You have to be. I should have stuck to my guns and said no this is what I will pay and no more. I thought it was like a stripper. American strippers usually are not as ruthless. I feel like its an equal exchange. If a stripper likes you then she will even give you more time than what you paid for.

These Amsterdam hookers are way more ruthless. They are the jungle tiger whereas American strippers are the zoo tigers. Big difference.
 

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I don't get it, did you smash in the end or not? Hopefully you used protection.
I did not smash. I told her I did not want to smash. I could not. I actually love my fiance a lot and would feel tremendous guilt. I also have sex with feelings because as you get older you get better at it. I cant just fyck a bytch anymore like I did in my early 30s. So I rather not put that type of emotion into a hooker.

Also as corny as it sounds I dont want to get attached to no hooker. I will however grab a handful of asscheeks and a facefull of knockers. Yall can judge me all you want lol. I dont care if my wife is pregnant im gonna grab a handful of stripper azz. If its good enough for Al Bundy its good enough for me.
 
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These Amsterdam hookers are way more ruthless. They are the jungle tiger whereas American strippers are the zoo tigers. Big difference.
I have friends living in the area around the Oude Kerk, so I walk my cat there quite often and I talk with 'the girls' sometimes, but they are shy and sweet to me and Klook because they know I'm a local and not interested in their 'services'.
 
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