Bungo Pony
Master Don Juan
I find it interesting how the years go by, and this forum keeps on mutating. When I first joined here, there were very few new posts appearing on the Discussion Forum. Now the place is flooded with new people, learning the ways of the Don Juan.
As this happens, us older DJs keep moving on with our lives, continually making improvements and changes in our lives, I'm no exception.
One month ago today (May 4, 2003) My girlfriend proposed to me. I saw it coming, and therefore had some time to think about it. Life is full of risks. You either take them or leave them. You have to examine the consequenses of either one, and decide if it's worth the risk.
I'm taking the risk. I said "Yes".
Just to let you know, I didn't do it under pressure, I did it because I'm willing to take this risk, and because it actually does feel right. Have I lost my mind? Hell no.
The wedding is more than a year away. We've already done some planning, and spent some money on the preparations. However, I'm not diving into this being blinded by my emotions. Her IL is still higher than mine is. This doesn't mean that I don't love her, it means that I'm going into this with my head on straight.
When it comes down to this subject, the definition of IL kinda goes down the tubes for a Don Juan. A better way of wording this would be "Displayment of Emotion". I don't tell her I love her every fvcking minute of the day, I say it when it's appropriate, or when I wish to catch her off guard which keeps things slightly unpredictable and exciting - a necessity in a LTR.
I'm also not marrying this woman just because she's a damn hottie. All the things I've preached on this forum I've put fully into practice. I came up with a list of what I want and don't want in a woman long before I met her. This woman has come along, and met my picky criteria in an ideal woman. So for those of you who doubt, it does happen. If any of you are wondering if I love her, I do. I just don't let it control me.
I'll tell all of you right now, this is my final shot at marriage. I've tried going this route once before, and things ended up being a mess. This time I have a plan B. I know for damn sure I'll be able to deal with any losses or tragedies that occur if this should not work out. I'm willing to take the risk, and I know what can come about if this doesn't work. I may end up starting from scratch, but I've done it before, and I'm still alive.
To my knowledge, I am one of the two DJs here who have taken this step (Panzergrenadier is the other). I'm hoping to be able to bring forth new knowledge to this message board dealing with the experiences from taking this risk.
Even though a wedding is in sight, I haven't let go of any of my future goals, they're all still on schedule. I'm also continuing with my self-improvement, and I keep learning lots about myself. My autobiography is still in the works in case any of you are wondering.
In case any of you are wondering, the wedding date is June 25, 2004
As this happens, us older DJs keep moving on with our lives, continually making improvements and changes in our lives, I'm no exception.
One month ago today (May 4, 2003) My girlfriend proposed to me. I saw it coming, and therefore had some time to think about it. Life is full of risks. You either take them or leave them. You have to examine the consequenses of either one, and decide if it's worth the risk.
I'm taking the risk. I said "Yes".
Just to let you know, I didn't do it under pressure, I did it because I'm willing to take this risk, and because it actually does feel right. Have I lost my mind? Hell no.
The wedding is more than a year away. We've already done some planning, and spent some money on the preparations. However, I'm not diving into this being blinded by my emotions. Her IL is still higher than mine is. This doesn't mean that I don't love her, it means that I'm going into this with my head on straight.
When it comes down to this subject, the definition of IL kinda goes down the tubes for a Don Juan. A better way of wording this would be "Displayment of Emotion". I don't tell her I love her every fvcking minute of the day, I say it when it's appropriate, or when I wish to catch her off guard which keeps things slightly unpredictable and exciting - a necessity in a LTR.
I'm also not marrying this woman just because she's a damn hottie. All the things I've preached on this forum I've put fully into practice. I came up with a list of what I want and don't want in a woman long before I met her. This woman has come along, and met my picky criteria in an ideal woman. So for those of you who doubt, it does happen. If any of you are wondering if I love her, I do. I just don't let it control me.
I'll tell all of you right now, this is my final shot at marriage. I've tried going this route once before, and things ended up being a mess. This time I have a plan B. I know for damn sure I'll be able to deal with any losses or tragedies that occur if this should not work out. I'm willing to take the risk, and I know what can come about if this doesn't work. I may end up starting from scratch, but I've done it before, and I'm still alive.
To my knowledge, I am one of the two DJs here who have taken this step (Panzergrenadier is the other). I'm hoping to be able to bring forth new knowledge to this message board dealing with the experiences from taking this risk.
Even though a wedding is in sight, I haven't let go of any of my future goals, they're all still on schedule. I'm also continuing with my self-improvement, and I keep learning lots about myself. My autobiography is still in the works in case any of you are wondering.
In case any of you are wondering, the wedding date is June 25, 2004
