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JdelaSilviera

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I´m not by any means a women hater, although most women these days aren´t worth the effort.

Look, we live in ironic times, these days women are so sure they can get any men they want to, that they let themselves go, 99% women simply don´t care of their body, drink beer in the same quantities that men do, have become rude and manly, sluttly and without integrity. I have the idea that women in the past had a much higher quality than those we have today.

In previous times men would act much more manly also... and wouldn´t have much problems getting women.

Today, men have become so insecure about their capabilites, that they frequent internet foruns on how to pickup women, have become metrosexual because they´re insecure of how they look, have become gym rats, many with great bodies, got their college degrees, and yet they still have problems getting women. It really seems the harder men try, or the more obsessed they become, less chances they have.

I find it mind blowing that the Phd, with decent appearance, nice body, and that is hard working in everything he does, even loses time approaching a fatty, lazy, restaurant waiter, just because she has a decente cutie face!. It´s even more funny when they get rejected by a woman with such a lower value... And the guy will still think that it´s his problem! and that he isn´t even good enough for a waiter!

So you try to improve yourself in everyway (wich I find it good), but your standards don´t go up? That´s why women don´t even make any effort to look good anymore (22+ 90% of them don´t have hard sexy bodies anymore).

I think everyguy should upper the bar, average women should not be approached, it´s simple as that. They are just average! STOP APPROACHING AVERAGE OR UGLY WOMEN!If they want to be approached, they better work on themselves.

When men start having higher standards, women will do the effort to improve, and their respect for men will highly increase.... Until then, our gender, will be seen as horny,creepy and without standards.. so the disrespect, flakes and cheating will continue.

This is what women did, to make themselves more desirable, they just raised the bar! They didn´t even got better.
Imagine the result if you do both, improve yourself and raise the bar!
 

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This was a symphony to my ears.

+1 rep.

I find myself thinking to myself, "WTH was I being so friendly to that so-so girl? She was rude, had no personality, and was out of shape, and all my friendliness did was to subtly reinforce her little inner princess."
 

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Are you serious?? If a guy cant even pick up an average or below average chick then he will get blown out badly by the hot ones.
Personally I think its best to start at the bottom and work your way up slowly but surely.
 

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Good post. I miss the late 90's and early 00's. Girls were just different. It's hard for me to explain.
 

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DJFear said:
Are you serious?? If a guy cant even pick up an average or below average chick then he will get blown out badly by the hot ones.
Personally I think its best to start at the bottom and work your way up slowly but surely.
Yes I am. Exactly my point, an average guy these days cannot pickup average women, because they have higher standards than the average guy....why is that? Because higher value men go for much less valuable women due their insecurities.

If you consider yourself valuable why would you make average girls to think they are princesses?

They are just average, they shouldn´t even be approached, there is nothing special about them.
In the day that more men, start approaching/hitting only on high quality women, the arrogant atittude these little spoiled brats have will completly change.... and average girls will have to work to be noticed...
Now even the ugs think they deserve prince charming, while despising average guys who are much higher value then them.

And I´d rather score 1 in 10 hotties, than 1 in 3 average girls...
 

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lol I dont know, I would rather go for chicks who are realistically on my level. If you go for for 9s, 10s you better have some sick game/money and then still be prepared to strike out a lot.
 

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DJFear said:
lol I dont know, I would rather go for chicks who are realistically on my level. If you go for for 9s, 10s you better have some sick game/money and then still be prepared to strike out a lot.
some of you are gonna die before you even begin to live your life.

you only live once man....live a little!
 

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DJFear said:
lol I dont know, I would rather go for chicks who are realistically on my level. If you go for for 9s, 10s you better have some sick game/money and then still be prepared to strike out a lot.
At least you should never go for lower levels than yours. Let´s say if you are average, and you hit on an average girl that´s cool, smart, and has a good personality that´s fine. But she should aknowledge your level is the same, you shouldn´t chase her, or have to insist, like she is doing you a favour. She also must work for you.

When I go out with my friends, I notice that they try to lock eye contact with every single girl... that´s just desperation.

Women need to work to get men, and that´s not what´s happening, hence the thousands of flakes and disrespect.
Women go crazy when ignored, if you start ignoring average looking girls (unless they really deserve your attention with their personality), they will try to work on themselves. I don´t mean they don´t deserve love, but they don´t deserve being approached in the street, or being chased by an army of guys that are far better then them, as if they were super stars...
 

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"And I´d rather score 1 in 10 hotties, than 1 in 3 average girls"

couldn't have said it better myself...
 

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http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-12045771
Well, keep laughing at the old Soviet Union! God Bless the Soviets. One thing they did is eliminate any feminist movement. One word about Riga - PUSH! Haha, that is the secret word. You get what you want. No worries. No feminism. No decent men. Hell, no men at all!! Makes American boys look so foolish.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qlaj7hKDDBE&feature=related
Oh S---! I was there. In May there will be one again. For no reason other than to make men smile. I swear. Bad economy. Tough times. So the blondes go out and parade around town (Centrs and Vecriga). In America pink is what you silly people wear to support booby cancer. Not in Eastern Europe. That kind of thing is still taboo!!! God, I love that land!!!

Also home to the best coffee chain on earth - Double Coffee! With locations in almost EVERY playboy hotspot (Ukraine, Belarus, Lithuania, Estonia!!). Of course, unlike unfree America, they have a complete bar at coffee houses. Also try Cili Pizza. Fun times. PUSH! Hahaha.

Currently I am going BIG. Working on my visa to....Belarus! An "evil empire" with girls to die for that can't leave. I am shaking just typing this. My batting average in Eastern Europe is 100%. I swear. I do admit to having had girls flake on me. People are crazy. Regardless of where they come from.
 

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I think you guys might be a bit intense on the subject:: look if you are a solid 9/10 yourself--you'll probably shoot in the same category. If you're below that, you're going to have to work a lot harder unless you get lucky, to compensate. I'm not saying don't shoot big -- I'm saying be realistic and shoot too for what you are attracted to. If she's a 6/7 and you dig her and she'll give you some good intimate time, who the f_uk cares? She'll probably be a way better gf and far more loyal than some superhotty who gets mega-approached...
 

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Hey Fellow AMERICAN DJ's:
I say we all kick in $5 each, and buy Big Jimbo a one way plane ticket (and a months lodging to get started) to the Soviet for Christmas!

Merry christmas Jimbo! :)
 

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I dont know whats funnier, the thread, or the fact that people agree with it.

I'm not saying that what he is saying is wrong, i'm just confused as to what the **** he is actually talking about. You have to make a point to be a wrong, there is not even a point made.

Are you saying that by not approaching average women we will improve something/anything?

Who would want to do that? What effect would that have? What are you talking about? Are you drunk?

Raise the bar? The bar isn't a conscious thing, its completely controlled by our biological instincts. You need to do the gene pool a favour and not reproduce, that is the only positive outcome i can see for you.
 

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The point is to stop banging uglies, fatties and other substandard women. It's explicitly stated there-no need to be a smart ass about it.

In regards to "who would do it": pretty much the majority of people I know, who dont know better and simply lower their own standards. It's like putting the whole gender on the pedestal.
 

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Seriously, what's the ironic part? The thread is poorly written garbage with a (kind of) valid point that we all already know.
 

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The ironic part is that the fattie has more lays that the fella described above.

When life pulls a joke like that on you, you will feel ironic for sure.
 

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I'm not going to argue it needlessly, but you should probably look up what irony is if you're going to use it. Just sayin'.
 

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handle said:
I'm not going to argue it needlessly, but you should probably look up what irony is if you're going to use it. Just sayin'.
wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn
define irony: incongruity between what might be expected and what actually occurs

Expected: fat and ugly girls having to work hard to get any sort of attention from decent man

Actual: a man with many good qualities has to try his hardest to get fat and ugly girls, putting them on a pedestal and feeding their egos by even approaching
 
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