So my most recent plate who's a hard 9, smoking hot and I've been seeing her for about a month dropped this line on me when I was making out with her and warming her up. It had been 4 days since we last had sex and she was leaving town with family for four days the next day so I was trying to get it in with her, didn't happen.
She stayed at my house till about 2 in the morning all cuddled up by me, rubbing on my neck, shoulders, giving me a massage and making out with me but no sex. I even tried again and she said she's set on waiting till she's back in town and it'll be that much better by waiting till then. Minus the sex though it was a pretty good night. This is the second time in the past two weeks she's denied it
She's naturally not too sexual, told me that she "thinks" she's had an orgasm before. She also doesn't do oral, or receive it. Doesn't like certain positions. Says she didn't have sex till 19 or have a serious boyfriend till then and can count all her partners by using her hands so 6 to 10 is what she claims. She's only been down for misch and her on top (yes really). This being noted it makes me believe she's just not a girl who wants to have sex each time we hang out.
We had sex the third time we hung out and she was at my place but it took forever to make it happen, probably like 1 1/2 hours in my bed room. After that she said she was freaked out because she never moves that fast.
So after she left that night(the most recent one when she stayed till 2 and we didn't have sex) she said she'd text me the next days, never did, day after that, never did, I didn't either. She finally text the day after that and was like hey stranger, what are you doing. I just said I was at the gym, and ask what she was up to (40 minutes later) she waited like 3 hours to reply back and said she was getting her hair done or something. I haven't replied back and won't tonight anyways. We sorta have plans tomorrow to hang out and I'll probably text her and see if we're still on.
So have you guys ever dealt with a girl like this before? I don't believe I have. They are usually all about it or not at all. This one is wishy-washy at times but always accepts my hang out invitations or counters if she can't that day. She cooks for me when I'm at her place and if she comes to my house always offers to bring dinner. Should I continue to press for sex each time were together, or should I respect her thoughts on not having sex each time were together? Thoughts gentlemen?
She stayed at my house till about 2 in the morning all cuddled up by me, rubbing on my neck, shoulders, giving me a massage and making out with me but no sex. I even tried again and she said she's set on waiting till she's back in town and it'll be that much better by waiting till then. Minus the sex though it was a pretty good night. This is the second time in the past two weeks she's denied it
She's naturally not too sexual, told me that she "thinks" she's had an orgasm before. She also doesn't do oral, or receive it. Doesn't like certain positions. Says she didn't have sex till 19 or have a serious boyfriend till then and can count all her partners by using her hands so 6 to 10 is what she claims. She's only been down for misch and her on top (yes really). This being noted it makes me believe she's just not a girl who wants to have sex each time we hang out.
We had sex the third time we hung out and she was at my place but it took forever to make it happen, probably like 1 1/2 hours in my bed room. After that she said she was freaked out because she never moves that fast.
So after she left that night(the most recent one when she stayed till 2 and we didn't have sex) she said she'd text me the next days, never did, day after that, never did, I didn't either. She finally text the day after that and was like hey stranger, what are you doing. I just said I was at the gym, and ask what she was up to (40 minutes later) she waited like 3 hours to reply back and said she was getting her hair done or something. I haven't replied back and won't tonight anyways. We sorta have plans tomorrow to hang out and I'll probably text her and see if we're still on.
So have you guys ever dealt with a girl like this before? I don't believe I have. They are usually all about it or not at all. This one is wishy-washy at times but always accepts my hang out invitations or counters if she can't that day. She cooks for me when I'm at her place and if she comes to my house always offers to bring dinner. Should I continue to press for sex each time were together, or should I respect her thoughts on not having sex each time were together? Thoughts gentlemen?