The core idea during the talking stage, in which is filled with dates, texting, and phone conversations, is to create constant tension and suspense. As a man, your goal is to ensure that nothing feels predictable. This can involve surprises, such as taking her to a new place, revealing something unexpected about yourself, or texting/calling her out of the blue. Some examples are like smoking weed, drinking at a bar, taking them to a park near a lake at night, or having casual sex. The premise is that she will look forward to these new surprises with anticipation and enjoy exploring the unknown with you. However, if you become predictable, the allure will fade, and the excitement will diminish if you keep repeating the same patterns.
With this in mind, it is important to note that constant texting early on kills the seductions since you will become too familiar. This doesn't happen right away since there's so much to uncover about someone new. But there comes a point when a woman starts to idealize you, only to be disappointed when they realize you're not what they imagine. It is not about being seen too often or being too available, since if you disappear for too long someone else may catch their eye; the real issue is that if they know too much about you, they can't keep the fantasy alive.
That is the logic behind it and why people are told to stay busy and only contact for dates since it will be less methodical or strategized. Nonetheless, your pattern of communication cycle will become dull after a while.
