Was she crazy?

[btownbuck2012]

I know someone who is just like that. An irresponsible financial mess, has 2 kids that don't live with her, low intelligence, grew up dirt poor without a father figure, is openly disrespectful to her significant others in public, loves drama, has tried to commit suicide, breaks everyone's confidence, is into tons of kinky ****, etc, etc, etc...

She came on to me really strong, smacking my arm, making plans to hang out, talking about how she masturbates multiple times a day... she was trying to get me to bang her after she dumped her ex (whom I know). I wasn't having any of it, even though we click unbelievably well when we have a conversation. But it's a trick. she's not intelligent, but she's a master manipulator.

These people aren't crazy, they're grifters/parasites who mooch off others because they're too dumb to make a living themselves and have figured out they can manipulate others to foot the bill for them.

Pretend she has Ebola and never talk to her again, If you stick around, she'll eventually find a way to ruin your life.

this is very well written and spot on. +1

 

[jnMissouri]

Block her. Never see her again. Seriously man. You're dealing with at least malignant narcissism here, sprinkled with some psychopathy I'm sure. If you stick around her, she is going to eventually get you arrested for something just like she told you she did others. Look at the behavior, not the words. She's doesn't care about you. It's all an act. She'll suck you dry and cast you away like a withered husk and move on to her next victim when there's nothing left for you to give.

I've seen this happen but reversed. A female friend of mine dated a guy. The first 6 months were bliss, but then it turned into hell. He was very dumb, very good looking, extremely charming and LAZY AF: like, get up at 3 pm to go do construction work type lazy. And a compulsive liar. All bad things in life were everyone else's fault. He eventually got my friend arrested on charges that she (5'7") tried to strangle him (6'4") and fabricated the marks on his neck. My friend lost her job.

I never spent much on her, a drink after we had sex or she blew me, that's about it. One time I bought some Taco's. But yeah, I'm way better off without her. I wonder how life will turn out for her from here. I can't imagine she will change much and succeed.