Wardrobe consulting

[RichardTheFrog]

Then did you get her number? How is she setting up the guy to take your pics for cheap?

She gave it to me off the Thumbtack app.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Richard, some time back I talked to you about conversation topics. At that time you were talking about some stripper you tried to talk to. I told you to be forward and talk about what goes on in women's heads. To actually ask them about things we often discuss on this forum.

In a recent thread, I had asked you what is a topic of conversation of interest to you.

You said "female behavior".

When this consultant told you that she "preferred" that you were better traveled, spoke a second language and was a boss at work, you had the perfect opportunity to dive into the mind of a woman by asking questions about what she was telling you. Challenging her answers if you felt the need to as you often do here.

That's a conversation that would have been more interesting to you. It would have went somewhere. What she said could have been cliche BS, but it doesn't matter. You could have steered it away from small talk to something more interesting.

You want conversations to go somewhere? You have to learn how to push them where you want them to go.

You hired her as a clothing consultant. You could have gotten more for your money with such conversation.

She didn't outright say "I wish you knew more languages."

She made a joke about how the instruction booklet to a watch I bought was 100 pages long. I flipped through it and said "wow, it's in 7 languages."

She asked if I knew any other languages. I said no.

This was just one example I was using. Like she maybe would have thought I was "cooler" if I knew some other languages. Just like she didn't outright say she wishes I was the boss at my job, or that I should have traveled to more places.

I think I've had just about every conversation there is to have with a girl... except for how to naturally transition from conversation to sex. I've been beating around the bush for ages.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Richard, some time back I talked to you about conversation topics. At that time you were talking about some stripper you tried to talk to. I told you to be forward and talk about what goes on in women's heads. To actually ask them about things we often discuss on this forum.

In a recent thread, I had asked you what is a topic of conversation of interest to you.

You said "female behavior".

When this consultant told you that she "preferred" that you were better traveled, spoke a second language and was a boss at work, you had the perfect opportunity to dive into the mind of a woman by asking questions about what she was telling you. Challenging her answers if you felt the need to as you often do here.

That's a conversation that would have been more interesting to you. It would have went somewhere. What she said could have been cliche BS, but it doesn't matter. You could have steered it away from small talk to something more interesting.

You want conversations to go somewhere? You have to learn how to push them where you want them to go.

You hired her as a clothing consultant. You could have gotten more for your money with such conversation.

Next time we meet, it will be me, her, and her photographer friend (a girl).

She will probably be touching me telling me to get in different poses, and she will tell me what outfits to change into.

How could I transition that into sex? Or should I just let it be a photoshoot and not try to be a creep every chance I get?

 

[Dingo]

You can never be overdressed or overeducated.” ― Oscar Wilde ...

Just get something that compliments your new enormous penis and learn sign language... That will impress them.... (jk)

 

[Bible_Belt]

I can't remember the last time I bought new clothes. I don't give a flying fvck what I am wearing. And neither do women, but that is only because I genuinely do not care or notice. Looks are the same way. If you live in a world without mirrors, it doesn't matter what you look like, because you are going to own it.

I would go so far as to add, whatever you think your problem is with women, even if it is factually true, your internalization of that problem is bigger then the problem itself. Take money, for example. Money is great; women love it. But between two poor guys - one who is miserable about being poor and feels screwed over by the world, versus a second guy whose has simpler needs and for the most part does not notice or care that he is poor, which one of those guys is going to do better with girls? Whatever your problems are, they are a likely a bigger deal in your own mind than in the minds of others, and that creates your reality.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Slow down. Just try to get a smile out of them. Start with getting a feel for that. Let the rest of it just be a photoshoot.

Clothes look good. Like the shoes.

In that case, this will be the last time I ever see either of them. But that's okay, I guess. It's not really appropriate to ask every girl you see to have sex, is it?

 

[Glassguy]

I can't remember the last time I bought new clothes. I don't give a flying fvck what I am wearing. And neither do women, but that is only because I genuinely do not care or notice. Looks are the same way. If you live in a world without mirrors, it doesn't matter what you look like, because you are going to own it.

I would go so far as to add, whatever you think your problem is with women, even if it is factually true, your internalization of that problem is bigger then the problem itself. Take money, for example. Money is great; women love it. But between two poor guys - one who is miserable about being poor and feels screwed over by the world, versus a second guy whose has simpler needs and for the most part does not notice or care that he is poor, which one of those guys is going to do better with girls? Whatever your problems are, they are a likely a bigger deal in your own mind than in the minds of others, and that creates your reality.

Perfectly said.

Frame. Some have a solid, confident frame and others don't.

New clothes on the outside, a few more Benjamins in the wallet......all worthless if there is not a confident, genuine and outgoing personality behind it.

Own who you are, be positive and fun and others will want to be around you.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I can't remember the last time I bought new clothes. I don't give a flying fvck what I am wearing. And neither do women, but that is only because I genuinely do not care or notice. Looks are the same way. If you live in a world without mirrors, it doesn't matter what you look like, because you are going to own it.

I would go so far as to add, whatever you think your problem is with women, even if it is factually true, your internalization of that problem is bigger then the problem itself. Take money, for example. Money is great; women love it. But between two poor guys - one who is miserable about being poor and feels screwed over by the world, versus a second guy whose has simpler needs and for the most part does not notice or care that he is poor, which one of those guys is going to do better with girls? Whatever your problems are, they are a likely a bigger deal in your own mind than in the minds of others, and that creates your reality.

Either way, if they don't see me as having enough "value," they would reject every advance.

I'm just trying to get higher in terms of L and M. Definitely can't hurt.

I guarantee driving around in a Lamborghini will attract tons of girls to me, no matter what any of you say.

Talking about REALITY... Do you know how much people struggle for money every day? To see someone who has such abundance that he can blow it in a fancy car? That's hypergamy.

Best thing to do is just act humble. Be down to Earth and just be like "I flip houses" and don't act like I'm better than anyone else.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Speaking of reality, I don't know my lambos that well, but some of them are all-wheel drive, and others are rear-wheel drive. You know I am against the lambo idea, but please if you get one, get an all-wheel drive model. You'll crash the RWD. The difference in skill required to drive the RWD versus the AWD is substantial. Pop that clutch going around a corner on the RWD and you will be in the ditch before you know what happened. And by the way, I got that advice from a lambo owner. I also saw the responsibility involved in owning one. You can't just park a car like that on the street and leave it. You have to lock it up in a fortress at night, and when you take it out, that car had better not leave your sight. As soon as you look away, people will start siting on the hood to take pics of themselves.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Speaking of reality, I don't know my lambos that well, but some of them are all-wheel drive, and others are rear-wheel drive. You know I am against the lambo idea, but please if you get one, get an all-wheel drive model. You'll crash the RWD. The difference in skill required to drive the RWD versus the AWD is substantial. Pop that clutch going around a corner on the RWD and you will be in the ditch before you know what happened. And by the way, I got that advice from a lambo owner. I also saw the responsibility involved in owning one. You can't just park a car like that on the street and leave it. You have to lock it up in a fortress at night, and when you take it out, that car had better not leave your sight. As soon as you look away, people will start siting on the hood to take pics of themselves.

In downtown Orlando, there's a well-lit street called Church Street that always has luxury and exotic cars parked on it.

Fortress = my garage.

And my insurance covers vandalism, although I suppose if I had to make a claim, it would raise my premiums.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Did you catch the AWD vs RWD part? That is important...just trying to help.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Did you catch the AWD vs RWD part? That is important...just trying to help.

Don't worry, I can drive it.

 

[guru1000]

She suggested this to me.

And I'm probably going to get my hairline filled in with a transplant.

Haircut suggested is fine. You don't need an FUE to sport it, though I fully encourage an FUE. Meantime, apply Toppik right behind the hairline with the new haircut.

1) Clean the mirror;
2) Retake the same photo;
3) Post it on Photofeeler. I guessestimate 50-60% percentile at least. When you take the professional photos, post them here, we'll touch them up (lighting, cropping, etc.) and get you to the 90+ percentile.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Haircut suggested is fine. You don't need an FUE to sport it, though I fully encourage an FUE. Meantime, apply Toppik right behind the hairline with the new haircut.

1) Clean the mirror;
2) Retake the same photo;
3) Post it on Photofeeler. I guessestimate 50-60% percentile at least. When you take the professional photos, post them here, we'll touch them up (lighting, cropping, etc.) and get you to the 90+ percentile.

Okay. With the dirty mirror, I got 25%.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Haircut suggested is fine. You don't need an FUE to sport it, though I fully encourage an FUE. Meantime, apply Toppik right behind the hairline with the new haircut.

1) Clean the mirror;
2) Retake the same photo;
3) Post it on Photofeeler. I guessestimate 50-60% percentile at least. When you take the professional photos, post them here, we'll touch them up (lighting, cropping, etc.) and get you to the 90+ percentile.

What do you think about dying my hair blonde?

 

[Spaz]

I see no point in throwing a new paint job on a new car if the motor is ready to blow and the transmission is slipping.

Its your personality that needs an over haul first. You need to learn how to TALK to people and develop a genuine ability to start conversations with anyone, including women. All of this has been said 10K times to you but you ignore it. I guess its easiest to just go buy new clothes.

Your problem is, you cant get them into the door through talking to them and making them interested in you. There is no shortcut to success.

So new clothes and new pics? That's great. But at some point you are gonna have to open that hole under your nose and talk to them. That is where your motor catches fire every time.

Oh well, you'll at least look good when you're broke down on the side of the road so to speak.

Nicely said.

@RichardTheFrog I hope you take this good advice in a positive manner.

Seriously man, you've been here a long time and it's time you put some effort into those good advices people gave to you.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Nicely said.

@RichardTheFrog I hope you take this good advice in a positive manner.

Seriously man, you've been here a long time and it's time you put some effort into those good advices people gave to you.

Just because some people on here claim to give good advice hidden in between a million personal insults doesn't mean they actually are.

I do listen to GOOD advice. But you think I'm going to blindly listen to every word I'm told?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

@RichardTheFrog you wouldn’t happen to have a side job as a youtuber? Guys don’t they look alike?

Are you another goofball who thinks you're the "alpha male?"

 

[Spaz]

Just because some people on here claim to give good advice hidden in between a million personal insults doesn't mean they actually are.

I do listen to GOOD advice. But you think I'm going to blindly listen to every word I'm told?

Okay Richard. Just be open and ignore those insults.

Btw I think you look pretty sharp in that suit.

Hairstyle nicely done.

Fine looking shoes.

I'd change the wrist watch.

Otherwise its perfect. Keep up the good work Richard.

 

[guru1000]

I'm going to go against many of the recommendations in this thread. If your baseline looks do not meet a woman's minimum requirement, no amount of personality will win her over.

Diametrically, many guys with looks organically develop their personalities based on the numerous options they are already surrounded by and forced to interact with, certainly not due to their willful efforts.

Richard, although lacking (and should be improving his) social acumen, should focus primarily on his presentation--his looks ... for now. And he is.

Good job Richard.