Want to know why most "hot" guys here get no action?

[bullmoose]

Jariel's right. Looks alone will not get you laid. Unless she's really drunk.

Looks help, no doubt.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by blueangel83
Advice from a female:

Women do not like aholes and jerks. Men who jerk women around get played. Jerks and aholes are the reason why women cheat or lie.

Act and look like an ahole (look confident) but BE NICE. That means be polite, respectful, courteous, and show manners.

Uhh ok...thank you for the enlightenment.

 

[blueangel83]

You want to approach a girl give her some time. Make your presense known by smilling at her from a distance.

AND THEN approach her. Females get turned off when random guys or strangers go up to them. It's like "WHO THE HELL ARE YOU?". Smile at her from a distance first, if she does not respond she is disinterested, if she reciprocates (smiles back) then you can come up. That way you are showing respect.

 

[smoke city]

h2o -- fantastic post. i agree wholeheartedly. lately i think i'm a perfect example. 18 months ago when i had a 6pack and no game, i went thru a break up and had nothing. then i came on this scene, did a little reading and things are very different. i gained like 30 lbs. because i'd been working hard/away from the gym...but for the past 8 months i've had at least 2-3 women in my life at a time...
the most recent said she's not into the "fittest, best-looking guys" but she only wants the guys who "know how to talk to a woman"
[i'm now getting my fat ass back in shape though!]

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by blueangel83
You want to approach a girl give her some time. Make your presense known by smilling at her from a distance.

AND THEN approach her. Females get turned off when random guys or strangers go up to them. It's like "WHO THE HELL ARE YOU?". Smile at her from a distance first, if she does not respond she is disinterested, if she reciprocates (smiles back) then you can come up. That way you are showing respect.

Stop giving bad advice. If you got approached by Brad Pitt, you wouldn't reject him because he didn't smile at you from a distance first.

 

[sstype]

Just a little update. Things have been going really good with my recent attitude adjustment. I feel so much more secure in my shoes now that I really see that most people enjoy my company.

BTW, today at work I rolled up on some chick with her friend, you know one of those attention ***** slvtty types, but damn she had a body to kill for. So I just had to go for it, I went in there chatted and flirted around with her. Got her number which was cool. I think she liked me but I probably will expect some games when I try and set up the meet/fyck. But hey, i macked pretty smoothly, (didnt act nervous at all), handed her my cell.

I want to see if stuff goes well with her. Im going to be persistent as hell, letting her know I want her. Im gonna throw away my ego and just go for it. This way i will know for sure if she wants or doesnt want me.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

If you are an above average guy, you will attract more women. But you have to make women feel relaxed around you, and that takes some practice.

Smiling is the most important thing. Laughing too. If you are all stern faced you'll scare the crap out of them. The best thing that works for me is to realise I am intimidating, but to not let it get in the way of my game. More of the funny, less of the ****y, in fact, I would keep that shyt and neghits to an absolute minimum.

This is because when you attract more women, you are also attracting more of the different types of women, especially the ones with attitude problems/self esteem issues, that will play even more games with your hot ass than they otherwise would with other dudes, because in some twisted fawking way it makes them feel good about themselves - they can say they rejected a real hot guy and therefore build their own esteem up.

Face the facts and realise that there are some headf*cked women out there who get off on taking a hot looking, ****y guy down a peg or two, they literally can't help themselves.

Women who are gamers and/or attention hors will play this shyt on hot guys alot, you better believe it and expect to be rejected even though you are a fine dude - it happens to me all the time.

I just don't let it get to me, and really, just fall into the easy going, relaxed and joking sort of mindset. You will still fail with some girls, but you'll score a hell of alot more.

And just a note, I get approached by women all the time, and yes, the majority of them are either sl*ts or headcases, but not all of them.

I've gotten really good at spotting the headcases, and I love playing games with them.

 

[Don Juan Prototype]

great thread... I find myself running into problems like these. Im workin on it though.